Yes, actually. I went into a Piano store to look at a Digital Piano that I had the money to buy. I'd saved all my Tuition refunds to get the damn thing. I walk into the store with my sister and we started looking around. There was an older white man working the showroom floor. He was sitting down when we came in and he just watched us the whole time we were in the store.
I stopped at one of the digital pianos and started checking the spec sheet when his stupid ass finally asked me if I needed something. I asked if I could play the model I was looking at and suddenly he is interested in getting up from his damn desk to help us.
I guess he thought I was just in there to mess around, but after I started playing a few pieces on the model I was looking at...suddenly he was interested in having me as a customer. His demeanor changed.
I left the store. Fuck that guy.
This wasn't some cheap keyboard from Best Buy. This was a Piano Showroom in Virginia and the digital was $3500. He didn't want to give us the time of day. He didn't greet us when we came into the store, he didn't get up. He didn't ask if he could help us today. Nada.
It was only until I started to test out the merchandise did he suddenly want to speak to me about Pianos.
Lame. Was he fat? Maybe that's why he didn't like standing up if he didn't have to.
I agree with you that it's likely he figured two young black women weren't in the market for an expensive piano, I think that's a distinct possibility. Based on the way you type here, I would be surprised if you sounded ghetto or stupid in any way, and I suspect you probably speak quite intelligently and properly. Which makes his reaction more puzzling. If two other black women came in, acting in exactly the way I'm sure you have no problem envisioning... it would be more understandable.
So yea, I agree it might be a case of mild racism.
Then again? I'm as white as printer paper, and throughout my life I have endured the entire range of customer service experiences. I've been treated in the way you just described, encountered plenty of lazy, dipshit customer service reps who seemed completely uninterested in doing their jobs...
I've even had an eye kept on me, but I'll admit that was when I was a teenager or early 20's. Not so much now that I'm in my 30's.
So yea, dealt with plenty of rudeness or incompetence or laziness from my fellow whites (and others.)
So I don't know if you can conclusively stamp "racism" on what that guy did, but I would agree with you that it was likely part of what was going on. I think the odds are good it was.
And whatever you may think of my views, I don't believe in being rude to anyone. I'm one of the more pleasant people you could care to interact with face to face. If anything, I go out of my way to be extra nice to black people. Vestigial behavior from my former life as a liberal, perhaps.