Poor 14 year old boy

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frostedflakes

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Originally posted by: TheNinja
It sounds all funny and everything, but I'm sure it was tramatic for the 14 year old. Not that it probably didn't feel good on his pee-pee, but it would be tramatic to be manipulated and taken advantage of.
I don't know, I remember what it was like to be 14, pretty sure I wouldn't have been traumatized. The article doesn't mention rape or anything, so it sounds like it was consensual (and yes I know it's technically rape because the law says a 14 year old cannot consent to sex, but was just pointing out it doesn't sound like she forced him into this).

Of course there's a double standard, though. I'm sure most people would be up in arms if this was a 28 year old male and 14 year old female.
 

ChaoZ

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Originally posted by: NightDarker
ALSO what is a 14 year old doing with a baby sitter, c'mon.

"Investigators say Nelson told the boy's siblings that she was in love with their brother...."

This article sucks; needs more information.
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: AstroManLuca
And yes, it's also kind of funny how a 28yo guy having (consensual) sex with a 14yo girl makes him a total sicko, but if the genders are reversed it's like "way to go kid!". But that just speaks to how much more sexual desire men have than women. Sorry ladies.

That's because 14 year old girls are delicate flowers and 14 year old boys are untrustworthy mobile penises :p
 

BoomerD

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Originally posted by: TheNinja
It sounds all funny and everything, but I'm sure it was tramatic for the 14 year old. Not that it probably didn't feel good on his pee-pee, but it would be tramatic to be manipulated and taken advantage of.

Yet another virgin speaks...:roll:



At 14, I was fucking any girl that bent over long enough...:D

I'd have been proud to have done a 28 y.o., and she's not hideous looking, so I'd have hit that like a home run.

Trauma not found.
Buy that boy a milk shake and a steak.

Slap her hand for what she did...no criminal charges need be filed.
 

TehMac

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Originally posted by: BoomerD
Yet another virgin speaks...:roll:

At 14, I was fucking any girl that bent over long enough...:D

I'd have been proud to have done a 28 y.o., and she's not hideous looking, so I'd have hit that like a home run.

Trauma not found.
Buy that boy a milk shake and a steak.

Slap her hand for what she did...no criminal charges need be filed.

:thumbsup: Our society is too ligitious. If people found out about this 40 years ago, they'd probably call the girl a slut, fire her, and then forget about it.

Meanwhile, kid gets insta-bragging rights.
 

AstroManLuca

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Originally posted by: Dumac
Originally posted by: AstroManLuca
Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: lokiju
If convicted, Nelson could face up to life in prison.

:shocked:

yeah that kinda seemed harsh to me

If it was consensual there should be no way you get life in prison, that is crazy!

If it was actual ABUSE, like rape or something, then sure... even then it might be SLIGHTLY harsh but I wouldn't have a problem with it.

And yes, it's also kind of funny how a 28yo guy having (consensual) sex with a 14yo girl makes him a total sicko, but if the genders are reversed it's like "way to go kid!". But that just speaks to how much more sexual desire men have than women. Sorry ladies.

Well he is below the age of legal consent, so in the eyes of the law it was not consensual. Same way that I could convince a 14 year old girl to perform sexual acts with me, but it wouldn't be okay in court because she said I could.

You know what I'm talking about, though. Fine, hand out some punishment, but it shouldn't be on the same level as a violent rape or sexual assault. Life in prison? Sheesh.

I doubt she'll get it though. Judges can and do look at the specific circumstances of a case before sentencing and I doubt the judge will decide on the maximum possible sentence for something like this unless something unexpected comes up during the trial.
 

OCGuy

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Originally posted by: TheNinja
It sounds all funny and everything, but I'm sure it was tramatic for the 14 year old. Not that it probably didn't feel good on his pee-pee, but it would be tramatic to be manipulated and taken advantage of.

Stage 3 trolling detected.
 

Lonyo

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Originally posted by: NightDarker
ALSO what is a 14 year old doing with a baby sitter, c'mon.

The family has a baby sitter. The 14 yo isnt the one being sat, but the parents obviously don't think the 14yo can sit the younger kids, so they get a sitter for all of them.
There are clearly more children, hence this guy being the oldest son.
 

Safeway

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She is cute enough, I'd bang her again.

"Mom, can you hire the last babysitter again? She was fun."
 

frostedflakes

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Originally posted by: TehMac
Originally posted by: BoomerD
Yet another virgin speaks...:roll:

At 14, I was fucking any girl that bent over long enough...:D

I'd have been proud to have done a 28 y.o., and she's not hideous looking, so I'd have hit that like a home run.

Trauma not found.
Buy that boy a milk shake and a steak.

Slap her hand for what she did...no criminal charges need be filed.

:thumbsup: Our society is too ligitious. If people found out about this 40 years ago, they'd probably call the girl a slut, fire her, and then forget about it.

Meanwhile, kid gets insta-bragging rights.
I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...
 

Babbles

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I'm pretty sure that kid is probably the type that gets his ass kicked pretty often. Really, how dense is he?
 

BoomerD

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Originally posted by: frostedflakes
Originally posted by: TehMac
Originally posted by: BoomerD
Yet another virgin speaks...:roll:

At 14, I was fucking any girl that bent over long enough...:D

I'd have been proud to have done a 28 y.o., and she's not hideous looking, so I'd have hit that like a home run.

Trauma not found.
Buy that boy a milk shake and a steak.

Slap her hand for what she did...no criminal charges need be filed.

:thumbsup: Our society is too ligitious. If people found out about this 40 years ago, they'd probably call the girl a slut, fire her, and then forget about it.

Meanwhile, kid gets insta-bragging rights.
I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...

Nah, I'd probably be jealous as hell...he got some sweet meat. :p

But I'd probably buy him a beer.
 

OCGuy

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Originally posted by: frostedflakes


I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...


No matter what the ultra-pc morons try and tell you, males and females are not the same.
 

Dumac

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Originally posted by: AstroManLuca
Originally posted by: Dumac
Originally posted by: AstroManLuca
Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: lokiju
If convicted, Nelson could face up to life in prison.

:shocked:

yeah that kinda seemed harsh to me

If it was consensual there should be no way you get life in prison, that is crazy!

If it was actual ABUSE, like rape or something, then sure... even then it might be SLIGHTLY harsh but I wouldn't have a problem with it.

And yes, it's also kind of funny how a 28yo guy having (consensual) sex with a 14yo girl makes him a total sicko, but if the genders are reversed it's like "way to go kid!". But that just speaks to how much more sexual desire men have than women. Sorry ladies.

Well he is below the age of legal consent, so in the eyes of the law it was not consensual. Same way that I could convince a 14 year old girl to perform sexual acts with me, but it wouldn't be okay in court because she said I could.

You know what I'm talking about, though. Fine, hand out some punishment, but it shouldn't be on the same level as a violent rape or sexual assault. Life in prison? Sheesh.

I doubt she'll get it though. Judges can and do look at the specific circumstances of a case before sentencing and I doubt the judge will decide on the maximum possible sentence for something like this unless something unexpected comes up during the trial.

Oh yeah, I agree. Our sex offender and "rape" system is fucked up beyond belief.
 

TehMac

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Originally posted by: frostedflakes
I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...

Different. That's another thing. Women need to accept that they're weaker physically, emotionally, and mentally, so obviously there should be a difference.

It's these feminists prancing around in their make believe world that are trying to get the standard leveled, which leads to just nonsensical stuff like this.
 

SunnyD

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Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: frostedflakes
Originally posted by: TehMac
Originally posted by: BoomerD
Yet another virgin speaks...:roll:

At 14, I was fucking any girl that bent over long enough...:D

I'd have been proud to have done a 28 y.o., and she's not hideous looking, so I'd have hit that like a home run.

Trauma not found.
Buy that boy a milk shake and a steak.

Slap her hand for what she did...no criminal charges need be filed.

:thumbsup: Our society is too ligitious. If people found out about this 40 years ago, they'd probably call the girl a slut, fire her, and then forget about it.

Meanwhile, kid gets insta-bragging rights.
I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...

Nah, I'd probably be jealous as hell...he got some sweet meat. :p

But I'd probably buy him a beer.

And if it was your daughter that Earl there was banging?
 

frostedflakes

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Originally posted by: OCguy
Originally posted by: frostedflakes


I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...


No matter what the ultra-pc morons try and tell you, males and females are not the same.
So in a roundabout way, you're saying that if the roles were reversed, the 28 year old would deserve more than just a slap on the wrist? Just checking.

I know physically girls mature earlier and faster than boys. Psychologically I don't know how they compare, maybe somebody more knowledgeable on this can weigh in. If they mature sooner than boys in this area as well, one could make the argument that the 14 year old girl would be more prepared for sex than the 14 year old boy.
 

OCGuy

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Originally posted by: frostedflakes

So in a roundabout way, you're saying that if the roles were reversed, the 28 year old would deserve more than just a slap on the wrist? Just checking.

Yes, and that is exactly how it happens.