Poor 14 year old boy

[frostedflakes]

Like I said earlier it seems like a pretty ridiculous double standard, but whatever.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: OCguy

Originally posted by: frostedflakes

So in a roundabout way, you're saying that if the roles were reversed, the 28 year old would deserve more than just a slap on the wrist? Just checking.

Yes, and that is exactly how it happens.

This is because American society is somehow incapable of dealing with the thought that a 14 year old girl might actually enjoy sex just as much as a 14 year old boy.

 

[gar3555]

Originally posted by: lokiju

If convicted, Nelson could face up to life in prison.

:shocked:

HaHa /Nelson

 

[Svnla]

I have to ask. If that 28 years old woman looks like Rosean Bar or worse (hideous), would you guys still say the same thing? <that boy got lucky, she deserves a little punishment, and so on>

 

[TehMac]

Originally posted by: frostedflakes
I know physically girls mature earlier and faster than boys. Psychologically I don't know how they compare, maybe somebody more knowledgeable on this can weigh in. If they mature sooner than boys in this area as well, one could make the argument that the 14 year old girl would be more prepared for sex than the 14 year old boy.

Women don't psychologically mature until their 60's, and even then.

 

[sutahz]

How do I make a rose? Like how people add in threads about deaths.

 

[joesmoke]

this whole "roles reversed" thing is retarded. when they were 14 every fucking guy on here and all their friends had at least one discussion about how theyd totally bang some lady who was 28, 38, and probably 48. and by at least one discussion, i mean at least one hundred. thats how guys are, its natural, were cool with that kind of thing. 14 year old girls aren't the same way. unless she did the whole russian lady/rufee/cord around the penis thing i dont see why this is such a big deal.

 

[skace]

Originally posted by: frostedflakes
Like I said earlier it seems like a pretty ridiculous double standard, but whatever.

Girls can get pregnant and 'deflowered'. There is a larger commitment for them in sex than there is for the guy. They are also naturally weaker and can be taken advantage easier.

This will never be an equal situation.

 

[mattpegher]

Although I think that we need some rules as a society to prevent the sexual exploitation of minors, I remember trying some lame moves on "babysitters" soon after going through puberty. This babysitter was probably for the younger siblings as the mother didnot trust the 14yr old to watch them. I too was in that situation about 13 or 14 and remember showing the babysitter some of my dads Playboys. I think she was only 17-19 years old. I was certainly pursuing something and if given the opportunity would have engaged in anything I could get.
The main difference here is the age of the babysitter and the fact that this woman was surely old enough to know better. In addition unlike many young men, and most of ATOT, she could have very easily found a young man of legal age to engage with.

She should probable get a minimal sentence, probably probation, but will likely be registered as a sex offender, which is likely to haunt her for the rest of her life.

Also, I have to think that this woman has some real emotional problems to "fall in love" with a 14 yo.

 

[hanoverphist]

Originally posted by: frostedflakes

Originally posted by: OCguy

Originally posted by: frostedflakes


I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...

No matter what the ultra-pc morons try and tell you, males and females are not the same.

So in a roundabout way, you're saying that if the roles were reversed, the 28 year old would deserve more than just a slap on the wrist? Just checking.

I know physically girls mature earlier and faster than boys. Psychologically I don't know how they compare, maybe somebody more knowledgeable on this can weigh in. If they mature sooner than boys in this area as well, one could make the argument that the 14 year old girl would be more prepared for sex than the 14 year old boy.

ill give it a shot. i have 12 yr old twins, boy and girl and a 14 yr old girl. boys arent very emotional for the most part, and arent easily swayed into doing stuff they dont really want to do. girls, on the other hand, can be manipulated very easily at that age, since their brains are still trying to wrap around all the emotions smashed into their heads. im not saying that boys wont get manipulated, im saying that its more likely to get girls manipulated using their emotions to get them to feel like they are doing something they actually want to do instead of something some jerk wants them to do.

and i would be pissed if a friend of the fam was flirting with and coming on to my son at 14, and do the exact same as this mom did. press charges. its an abuse of trust plain and simple, whether its a boy or a girl that is targeted.

 

[OCGuy]

Originally posted by: mattpegher
In addition unlike many young men, and most of ATOT, she could have very easily found a young man of legal age to engage with.

I'm not sure most of ATOT wants to find a young man to engage with, but i've had my suspicions.

 

[joesmoke]

Originally posted by: OCguy

Originally posted by: mattpegher
In addition unlike many young men, and most of ATOT, she could have very easily found a young man of legal age to engage with.

I'm not sure most of ATOT wants to find a young man to engage with, but i've had my suspicions.

<snorglesnorgle>

 

[I Saw OJ]

Nice..

 

[TheNinja]

Originally posted by: BoomerD

Originally posted by: TheNinja
It sounds all funny and everything, but I'm sure it was tramatic for the 14 year old. Not that it probably didn't feel good on his pee-pee, but it would be tramatic to be manipulated and taken advantage of.

Yet another virgin speaks...:roll:

Dude....I have a kid. Keep your assumptions to yourself.

 

[StageLeft]

14 years old and parents get you a babysitter, you have bigge rproblems than getting laid by a 28 year old.

 

[TallBill]

We got angled!!!! She's fat!

 

[KK]

Originally posted by: TheNinja

Originally posted by: BoomerD

Originally posted by: TheNinja
It sounds all funny and everything, but I'm sure it was tramatic for the 14 year old. Not that it probably didn't feel good on his pee-pee, but it would be tramatic to be manipulated and taken advantage of.

Yet another virgin speaks...:roll:

Dude....I have a kid. Keep your assumptions to yourself.

Then you are just an idiot. Traumatic, please. Please tell me my batteries are running low.

 

[imported_Champ]

Originally posted by: TallBill
We got angled!!!! She's fat!

proof!

 

[skace]

Originally posted by: TallBill
We got angled!!!! She's fat!

Ok now it's traumatic.

 

[allies]

Originally posted by: Svnla
I have to ask. If that 28 years old woman looks like Rosean Bar or worse (hideous), would you guys still say the same thing? <that boy got lucky, she deserves a little punishment, and so on>

Then the sex probably would've been rape, and not just statutory rape.

 

[Joemonkey]

Originally posted by: hanoverphist

Originally posted by: frostedflakes

Originally posted by: OCguy

Originally posted by: frostedflakes


I have to ask, though, if the situation was reversed and this was a 28 year old male babysitter having sex with a 14 year old girl, how would you feel? I doubt many people here would feel the guy deserves only a slap on the wrist...

No matter what the ultra-pc morons try and tell you, males and females are not the same.

So in a roundabout way, you're saying that if the roles were reversed, the 28 year old would deserve more than just a slap on the wrist? Just checking.

I know physically girls mature earlier and faster than boys. Psychologically I don't know how they compare, maybe somebody more knowledgeable on this can weigh in. If they mature sooner than boys in this area as well, one could make the argument that the 14 year old girl would be more prepared for sex than the 14 year old boy.

ill give it a shot. i have 12 yr old twins, boy and girl and a 14 yr old girl. boys arent very emotional for the most part, and arent easily swayed into doing stuff they dont really want to do. girls, on the other hand, can be manipulated very easily at that age, since their brains are still trying to wrap around all the emotions smashed into their heads. im not saying that boys wont get manipulated, im saying that its more likely to get girls manipulated using their emotions to get them to feel like they are doing something they actually want to do instead of something some jerk wants them to do.

and i would be pissed if a friend of the fam was flirting with and coming on to my son at 14, and do the exact same as this mom did. press charges. its an abuse of trust plain and simple, whether its a boy or a girl that is targeted.

well said. However, at about age 12 (when i myself and apparently most other males start fapping on a regular basis afaicr) I'd have been more than happy to let any decent looking female take care of my boner for me

Looking back I know I wouldn't have been emotionally ready, or really have understood all the consequences of STDs, pregnancies, etc. but that's the beauty of the ignorance of youth

 

[0roo0roo]

meh, pregnancy is on the woman though, which is why the consequence are less severe for males.

 

[zinfamous]

Why do 14 year-old need baabysit?

 

[Joemonkey]

Originally posted by: zinfamous
Why do 14 year-old need baabysit?

why don't people read the article or entire thread or proofread their posts?

There were more kids being babysat than just the 14yo, apparently the parents thought the 14yo wasn't capable of babysitting the other kids, or maybe the 14yo had soccer practice or something after school, then went to guitar lessons an hour later? why is this even a relevant question?

EDIT: dammit zin i can't believe you and skoorb posted nearly the same thing, i figured it was godlessastronomer and alkemyst or something... sheesh

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: joesmoke
this whole "roles reversed" thing is retarded. when they were 14 every fucking guy on here and all their friends had at least one discussion about how theyd totally bang some lady who was 28, 38, and probably 48. and by at least one discussion, i mean at least one hundred. thats how guys are, its natural, were cool with that kind of thing. 14 year old girls aren't the same way. unless she did the whole russian lady/rufee/cord around the penis thing i dont see why this is such a big deal.

Well, the girls having sex at 14-year-old are!