Poll: Nice guys don't get laid ?

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schizoid

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Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: schizoid
I will say this one last time:

PUSSIES DON'T GET LAID. Nice guys might not finish "first", but they do okay in the end.


Freakin' end of story.

As opposed to "regular end of story"?

As opposed to "Let's debate why hot girls don't come up to me and offer me a hummer and it's because I'm such a 'nice guy'" end of story. :D

Nah, I just hate it when pussies who won't actually bother to talk to chicks bitch about not getting some. Go talk to a few. TRUST ME, if you're half as nice as you think you are, SOMEONE will go out with you. Yeah, you're gonna get shot down, but thems the breaks. It'd be NICE if you could just get girls by standing there and talking about how good you are at Counterstrike, but that doesn't seem to be working, now does it? And don't hate the rest of us that CAN do that...it aint our fault....:D

Whatevs...
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: schizoid
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: schizoid
I will say this one last time:

PUSSIES DON'T GET LAID. Nice guys might not finish "first", but they do okay in the end.


Freakin' end of story.

As opposed to "regular end of story"?

As opposed to "Let's debate why hot girls don't come up to me and offer me a hummer and it's because I'm such a 'nice guy'" end of story. :D

Nah, I just hate it when pussies who won't actually bother to talk to chicks bitch about not getting some. Go talk to a few. TRUST ME, if you're half as nice as you think you are, SOMEONE will go out with you. Yeah, you're gonna get shot down, but thems the breaks. It'd be NICE if you could just get girls by standing there and talking about how good you are at Counterstrike, but that doesn't seem to be working, now does it? And don't hate the rest of us that CAN do that...it aint our fault....:D

Whatevs...

Actually, apparently I get hit on or flirted with quite often, I just never notice. :eek:
 

schizoid

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Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: schizoid
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: schizoid
I will say this one last time:

PUSSIES DON'T GET LAID. Nice guys might not finish "first", but they do okay in the end.


Freakin' end of story.

As opposed to "regular end of story"?

As opposed to "Let's debate why hot girls don't come up to me and offer me a hummer and it's because I'm such a 'nice guy'" end of story. :D

Nah, I just hate it when pussies who won't actually bother to talk to chicks bitch about not getting some. Go talk to a few. TRUST ME, if you're half as nice as you think you are, SOMEONE will go out with you. Yeah, you're gonna get shot down, but thems the breaks. It'd be NICE if you could just get girls by standing there and talking about how good you are at Counterstrike, but that doesn't seem to be working, now does it? And don't hate the rest of us that CAN do that...it aint our fault....:D

Whatevs...

Actually, apparently I get hit on or flirted with quite often, I just never notice. :eek:


Well, first off, I wasn't talking about you. I don't know if you bitch about nice guys not getting laid. I was talking about people who actually DO bitch. Since you seem to realize that you get hit on, I'm guessing that you don't bitch. Hence, you're cool (..you're cool, you're cool, fvck you, you're cool....)

Secondly, I know what you mean! I macked on you for like an hour and you didn't seem to notice.

:):rolls for initiative::)
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: schizoid

Well, first off, I wasn't talking about you. I don't know if you bitch about nice guys not getting laid. I was talking about people who actually DO bitch. Since you seem to realize that you get hit on, I'm guessing that you don't bitch. Hence, you're cool (..you're cool, you're cool, fvck you, you're cool....)

Secondly, I know what you mean! I macked on you for like an hour and you didn't seem to notice.

:):rolls for initiative::)

It's even worse when I get hit on by a guy and don't notice... that was rather embarrassing.
 

ztadmin

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first of all... jerks may get laid more than nice guys if you're looking at a single jerk and a single nice guy compared to eachother.... but more nice guys have girlfriends than jerks, and guys with girlfriends tend to get action quite frequently.... a lot more often than a single jerk. granted, its always with the same girl (provided your a nice guy, and not a jerk who cheats on his girlfriend), but its still very often.

now, lets consider the "hot girls like jerks" statement we started with... we'll assume this is true. "nice guys" (who are actually just smarter, less cocky jerks at heart) can take advantage of this situation like so:

1) hot girl sleeps with jerk, because hot girl is too damn stupid to realize he is a jerk... as most hot girls are.
2) said hot girl gets heart broken upon realizing said jerk is a jerk, and not Mr. right.
3) Mr. Nice (you) finds said hot girl in peices, and proceeds to help her get through hard times
4) said hot girl becomes dependant on said Mr. Nice (still you), at which point the two decide on a girlfriend/boyfriend arrangement.
5) Now, said Mr. Nice gets action from said hot girl whenever the hell he wants, because said hot girl is under the impression that said mr. nice is also mr. perfect, and she worships him

this model works perfectly... almost. first of all there's the issue of getting "used equipment." if this doesn't bother you then you're good to go... but it does bother some people. also... when you get sick of the hot girl and are ready to move onto the next, she's not so easy to get rid of. she is dependant on you... she needs you in order to be happy... You're only chance of survival is to pry her away and run like hell. And then you've got the issue of being a nice guy and feeling bad for hanging the hot girl out to dry.

or you could just find somebody that you love who loves you also, then be happy with spending the rest of your life with a slightly less-hot, but still enjoyable partner. hot girls don't age well anyways (or so i hear).
 

ilyria

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Originally posted by: Grey
You don't have to be a 'jerk' Just have self confidence and show it. Jerks have ego oozing out of their pores and it attracts women who think they will be successful.

I agree partially with this- it's true self-confidence is attractive, but not because women think that a guy with self-confidence will be successful. Men like women that have self-confidence- is it because they think a confident woman will be successful? It's unfair to label women as gold diggers just because they like men with confidence.

 

ilyria

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Originally posted by: theNEOone
I don't know why guys always whine about this. It's the same for us guys - we're just as guilty as women, probably more so. We'd go for the big-breasted, small waist, curvy-hipped bitchy girl over the plain pleasant one, any day of the week.

so true...

 

ilyria

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Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: schizoid

Well, first off, I wasn't talking about you. I don't know if you bitch about nice guys not getting laid. I was talking about people who actually DO bitch. Since you seem to realize that you get hit on, I'm guessing that you don't bitch. Hence, you're cool (..you're cool, you're cool, fvck you, you're cool....)

Secondly, I know what you mean! I macked on you for like an hour and you didn't seem to notice.

:):rolls for initiative::)

It's even worse when I get hit on by a guy and don't notice... that was rather embarrassing.

Were you flattered when you realized it? I think it's such a compliment when a girl hits on me. =)

 

Siddhartha

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Originally posted by: jimmyhaha
Nice guys vs jerks

Someone even write a book on it !

Girls do like jerks, especially the pretty girls (fair or not you fellows know the pretty ones are the ones we want). And these girls can have anyone they want, so they deserve no sympathy when they get treated like dirt. Ladies, please spare me the fecal matter about how you don't know he is a jerk. Guys if you are a shoulder to cry on for these women you are a bunch of damn fools.

Does your mum / dad teach u u should always be a gentlemen and be nice to ladies ?

Comments welcomed !

Consensus: According to Poll result, in order to get laid, nice guys should becomes a JERK ! hmm...

me.. looking for - How to become a Jerk 101

That maybe true in high school but in college it is different particularly if the school has more women than men.
 

drum

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That maybe true in high school but in college it is different particularly if the school has more women than men.
Or in my case where the ratio is 5:1. as in 5 guys to 1 girl. that was the last stat i heard anyway. I happen to be one of the shy guys so if you do some quick math, that is bad news for me. scarcely a girl in sight + shy = single. i'm too busy with school to bitch and moan about it that much. I'd say i envy guys who have that swagger and skill to go up to every girl. I know a particular friend of mine is really good at that. I like quiet girls, which also makes it harder to find them. ah well, such is life...
 

Nemesis77

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Originally posted by: LeRocks
Originally posted by: rendicil
I'm a nice guy and I've gotten laid (with more than woman even - no fuglys)

More than woman? is there some other sex?

There is the mysterious *dramatic pause*... überwoman :Q!
 

rh71

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I don't think it has much to do with girls LIKING the jerks. I think the "jerks" just ask for it more openly & up front and girls comply. It's no secret girls think about sex almost as much...
 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: Skoorb
Maybe when you're 18 but my thoughts are that a woman worth having once she grows up a bit knows she doesn't need to put up with a jerk and the tables will turn for the nice guy.

That's how I got my wife. :D
 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Nice guys don't get laid. Nice guys have meaningful and deeply satisfying relationships, sexual and otherwise.

I like that. :)
 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: schizoid
I will say this one last time:

PUSSIES DON'T GET LAID. Nice guys might not finish "first", but they do okay in the end.


Freakin' end of story.

Anal? :Q
 

HOWITIS

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being a jerk or nice doesn't get you laid. money does. so your all wrong!
 

HOWITIS

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I'm a nice guy and I've gotten laid (with more than woman even - no fuglys)


ya right, you ever have a friend that is completly in love with an ugly girl, and goes on and on about how beutiful she is. i have a feeling this guy is you.
 

Pepsei

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Originally posted by: Skoorb
Maybe when you're 18 but my thoughts are that a woman worth having once she grows up a bit knows she doesn't need to put up with a jerk and the tables will turn for the nice guy.

but nice guys don't want second hand/hand me down/slightly used woman.... :D