yea, until they blow up a year or two into it and you hurt the girls deeper and closer than jerks ever could
Well, maybe for a long term relationship also. Realize that not all bitchy girls are bitchy by nature. She's just sick of losers trying to hit on her, and is thrwarting off any half-assed attempts from guys trying to get in her pants. She just might be a pleasant person, once the relationship develops. But I guess this situation doesn't really apply to guys, because jerks are jerks - regardless of the stage in the relationship.
not blow up as in "spontaneous human combustion" but as in dont work out, normally mistreated girl sees finally has a good relationship and then for some reason or another the relationship ends, you arent at the same place, dont have the same goals, one of you moves a thousand other things, you dont turn out to be mr perfect, maybe im just a bastard at heart
Turin: maybe im just a bastard at heart
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Everybody feels that way. my guess is that you are telling me that you hurt somebody and blame yourself. I can tell you to sotp doing that, that you don't have the objectivity to understand, but I fear a few words from me aren't going to dislodge deep feelings of guilt. i would suggest you consider counciling. You are not a bastard, or you needent remain one. I hope you attain a consciousness that frees you from the pain I'm only guessing, but feel you have. Pease my friend. The past had to be exactly like it was.
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Everybody feels that way. my guess is that you are telling me that you hurt somebody and blame yourself. I can tell you to sotp doing that, that you don't have the objectivity to understand, but I fear a few words from me aren't going to dislodge deep feelings of guilt. i would suggest you consider counciling. You are not a bastard, or you needent remain one. I hope you attain a consciousness that frees you from the pain I'm only guessing, but feel you have. Pease my friend. The past had to be exactly like it was.
i'd agree with you on most every point. But it is a recurring habit, not a one time deal. I dont have my house in order, and hurt other people. The intelligent part of me "knows" that i lack the objectivity, that it isnt my entirely my fault, that i am in fact not a bastard. However, i suppose I also hold myself to a higher standard than I do others, and there is a big difference between what I know about life and how it actually turns out in reality and in my perceptions. As hinted earlier, I had my first one-night stand this weekend, and im very upset with myself. Its a bit more complicated than all that, and im thinking about talking with her some but because of a few factors i also think that this will just lead to more trouble. Currently analyzing my thoughts to see if it would really be the right thing, or if i am just trying to make myself feel better about myself.
Deeko
Lifer
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Oh god, I hate when people whine that nice guys don't get the girls. I'm a nice guy. Definitely a nice guy. I get plenty of girls. See what you guys fail to factor in is that a) many of you nice guys that don't get girls don't exactly have the best looks/girl skills. Those things are important. b) "jerks" may be jerks to you, but that doesn't mean they don't treat the girls well.
their are a LOT of jerks that treat women badly, and a LOT of ugly guys that treat women badly.. but they still land chicks.
:Q
Deeko
Lifer
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yea, of course there are exceptions. I'm just saying, I'm sick of hearing people whine that you have to be a jerk to get a girl. You DON'T. Girls like confidence. These guys everyone considers to be 'jerks' are quite confident. Get some confidence yourself, and you will get the girls. Why can't these AT'ers understand that?
Originally posted by: dejitaru
There's the male sex, the female sex, and the insects.
Hahha, way to go.
Yes, women prefer confidence. It's pretty bad, though, when you're oblivious like me and completely miss signals... or, occasionally, flat out reject them. I have to learn to be nice about refusing date offers.
I will say this one last time:
PUSSIES DON'T GET LAID. Nice guys might not finish "first", but they do okay in the end.
Freakin' end of story.
PUSSIES DON'T GET LAID. Nice guys might not finish "first", but they do okay in the end.
Freakin' end of story.
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