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OFFascist

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Originally posted by: ViciouS
Call them for what?

Let them know that your nephew is dealing drugs.

They can't and wont search my house if i asked them too. I've tried that before. There has to be a insodent and they have to get warrants to search. All evidence is thrown out if they dont have one.

Thats bull.

They dont need a warrent if you consent to a search, how the fvck do you think so many people who have been pulled over for traffic violations get arrested for more. The cop asks "do you mind if I search your vehicle" and the person usually lets them, then the cop finds all kinds of other illegal things.

Thats all they need to do a search, your consent. If they dont have your consent then they would need a warrent.

If you consent to a search they dont need a warrent.
 

Linux23

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I wouldn't call the cops yet, but I would put both of them out on their asse$ NOW.
 

ViciouS

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Originally posted by: dmurray14
Originally posted by: ViciouS
Originally posted by: sixone

It's possible right now. Dial 911. Every second you wait is a second you are at risk of going to jail!


SHUT UP! Call them for what? They can't and wont search my house if i asked them too. I've tried that before. There has to be a insodent and they have to get warrants to search. All evidence is thrown out if they dont have one.

OK, what the fvck.

1. You come here asking for help, when you get it ask people to shut up? Right.
2. You call them for ASSULT! If not that, the massive amount of drugs that seem to be in your house. I'm sure if you called them and said "Hey guys, why don't you come check out this huge stash of weed my ABUSIVE sister and her son are storing my house" they would respond "no thanks, we'll wait for an incident." :roll:
3. If you had your might made up anyway, why the hell did you ask for advice? Let your balls crawl back up into hiding and stay your sister's bitch...whatever suits you, it's your life.

Just recently my girlfriends dad started doing cocain again. Her sister called the cops. When they got there she said, Officer my dad has an 8ball of coke and i know where it is right now. Come inside and I will show you. The officer said he couldnt and even if he did its an Illegal search and siezure.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: ViciouS
Cops are not a "simple answer" if you guys think that your the idiots.

I'm sorry you're not finding what you want here. Clearly, you're in a bad spot, but refuse to help yourself out of it. I hope things work out better than you're expecting.

I guess I should have taken your sig and your avatar a little more seriously. My bad...
 

OFFascist

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Originally posted by: ViciouS
Cops are not a "simple answer" if you guys think that your the idiots.

Usually it is best to not involve the cops, but if you are too much of a coward to deal with the situation yourself then I would think its the best solution for you.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: ViciouS

Just recently my girlfriends dad started doing cocain again. Her sister called the cops. When they got there she said, Officer my dad has an 8ball of coke and i know where it is right now. Come inside and I will show you. The officer said he couldnt and even if he did its an Illegal search and siezure.

That's because SHE didn't own the house!!!!!!! If you do, they will.
 

ViciouS

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Originally posted by: OFFascist
Originally posted by: ViciouS
Cops are not a "simple answer" if you guys think that your the idiots.

Usually it is best to not involve the cops, but if you are too much of a coward to deal with the situation yourself then I would think its the best solution for you.

Im dealing with it, they are leaving thats been said to her already.
 

Xionide

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Originally posted by: ViciouS
Originally posted by: dmurray14
Originally posted by: ViciouS
Originally posted by: sixone

It's possible right now. Dial 911. Every second you wait is a second you are at risk of going to jail!


SHUT UP! Call them for what? They can't and wont search my house if i asked them too. I've tried that before. There has to be a insodent and they have to get warrants to search. All evidence is thrown out if they dont have one.

OK, what the fvck.

1. You come here asking for help, when you get it ask people to shut up? Right.
2. You call them for ASSULT! If not that, the massive amount of drugs that seem to be in your house. I'm sure if you called them and said "Hey guys, why don't you come check out this huge stash of weed my ABUSIVE sister and her son are storing my house" they would respond "no thanks, we'll wait for an incident." :roll:
3. If you had your might made up anyway, why the hell did you ask for advice? Let your balls crawl back up into hiding and stay your sister's bitch...whatever suits you, it's your life.

Just recently my girlfriends dad started doing cocain again. Her sister called the cops. When they got there she said, Officer my dad has an 8ball of coke and i know where it is right now. Come inside and I will show you. The officer said he couldnt and even if he did its an Illegal search and siezure.

Who owned the house? I doubt it was her sister. You cant just go on what people tell you. You NEED to find out for yourself.

-Xionide
 

OFFascist

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Originally posted by: ViciouS
Just recently my girlfriends dad started doing cocain again. Her sister called the cops. When they got there she said, Officer my dad has an 8ball of coke and i know where it is right now. Come inside and I will show you. The officer said he couldnt and even if he did its an Illegal search and siezure.

Was your girlfriend living with your dad at the time? Was the cocaine in her fathers home? Was the father abusive or anything?

If not then I think your girlfriend was being disloyal for ratting out her own dad if he wasnt causing any trouble.

Unlike your situation where you refuse to rat out your disloyal family members.

BTW if the cocaine was in her fathers home the police would need his consent to search the house unless they got a warrent. She doesnt own the home so she cant consent to a search of it.

You own your home you can consent to a search of it.
 

HappyPuppy

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Ha, ha, the OP sucked every one of you in.

If his story is true then he is a spineless slug who will never take any sane advice.

If he is just a troll...........well, you got suckered. :D
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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First, know where all the weapons in the house are, looks like you're not family anymore

Second, work some extra hours or something every week to pay the rent. Remember, you can probably refinance the house again for the same amount of years again, except now you have a smaller loan amount so monthly payments will go down.

Third, you are at risk living with them. I really wish you didn't live with them just for money, if it's that big of a problem, put the house up for sale and get an apartment.

Those are what I thought of off the top of my head, but you need to do something very soon.
 

ViciouS

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Originally posted by: SampSon
Does the kid have good weed?

No, sh1tty regs. I dont even know how much he is selling. It cant be much because he doesnt have much money. I think he buys a quarter at a time, then sells it. What really bothers me is that he might be getting it from his mom. Him disrespecting me is the bigger issue, if the small amount of weed they sell cant get my house taken.
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
Ha, ha, the OP sucked every one of you in.

If his story is true then he is a spineless slug who will never take any sane advice.

If he is just a troll...........well, you got suckered. :D

Wow, I get the feeling this is fake now that I think about it
 

ViciouS

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Originally posted by: OFFascist
Originally posted by: ViciouS
Just recently my girlfriends dad started doing cocain again. Her sister called the cops. When they got there she said, Officer my dad has an 8ball of coke and i know where it is right now. Come inside and I will show you. The officer said he couldnt and even if he did its an Illegal search and siezure.

Was your girlfriend living with your dad at the time? Was the cocaine in her fathers home? Was the father abusive or anything?

If not then I think your girlfriend was being disloyal for ratting out her own dad if he wasnt causing any trouble.

Unlike your situation where you refuse to rat out your disloyal family members.

BTW if the cocaine was in her fathers home the police would need his consent to search the house unless they got a warrent. She doesnt own the home so she cant consent to a search of it.

You own your home you can consent to a search of it.

He O.Ded 3 times and was not abbusive.

Edit: he lived but has some circulation problem with his leg.
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: ViciouS
No matter what they are leaving as soon as possible. They are already on notice. And I can't evict them in florida without 3 months notice in Florida. 3 day evictions can only come after the 3 month one was finished.

Screw evicting them. Walk your happy ass down to the police station and let them know about your situation.
 

AmerDoux

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This is a tough position for you to be stuck in. Your sister sounds abusive and she knows she has you by the cajone's.

However

You do need to get them out and do it the smart way. Research the Landlord/Tenant laws for Florida. When you give them their three month notice, do so in writing and send it registered mail. Start a notebook of all your conversations with your sister and her son. Cite your concerns. Make sure you date all of your notes. If documented clearly, this notebook is court admissable. You might also consider calling your mortgage company. If you have good standing with them, they might allow you to make one or two months payment on the interst due only. This may be enough of a break to get you by until you are able to find another renter. Also, it may sound scarey but you need to walk down to your local police station and discuss the matter with them. You have some valid concerns and they will be willing to help you if you are willing to help yourself. They may be able to guide you in the right direction and if the police eventually do become involved and your sister tries to turn this around on you, you will be in a better position to cover yourself.

g/l
 

ViciouS

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Originally posted by: AmerDoux
This is a tough position for you to be stuck in. Your sister sounds abusive and she knows she has you by the cajone's.

However

You do need to get them out and do it the smart way. Research the Landlord/Tenant laws for Florida. When you give them their three month notice, do so in writing and send it registered mail. Start a notebook of all your conversations with your sister and her son. Cite your concerns. Make sure you date all of your notes. If documented clearly, this notebook is court admissable. You might also consider calling your mortgage company. If you have good standing with them, they might allow you to make one or two months payment on the interst due only. This may be enough of a break to get you by until you are able to find another renter. Also, it may sound scarey but you need to walk down to your local police station and discuss the matter with them. You have some valid concerns and they will be willing to help you if you are willing to help yourself. They may be able to guide you in the right direction and if the police eventually do become involved and your sister tries to turn this around on you, you will be in a better position to cover yourself.

g/l

ty: I'll look into the cops thing but i want to leave them out of it.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
Ha, ha, the OP sucked every one of you in.

If his story is true then he is a spineless slug who will never take any sane advice.

If he is just a troll...........well, you got suckered. :D

Maybe so, and maybe no. Either way, he's gonna have to work for it. ;)
 

OFFascist

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Originally posted by: ViciouS
He O.Ded 3 times and was not abbusive.

Edit: he lived but has some circulation problem with his leg.

Its his choice, as long as he isnt violent I wouldnt turn him in. Putting an old man with a cocain problem in prison certainly isnt going to help anyone.
 

ViciouS

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I'm handling this on my own no cops. They are leaving. I wanted to know from some one who has true knowledge on the subject. CAN THEY TAKE MY HOUSE FOR A SMALL AMOUNT OF WEED? It?s Less than a pound. I think.

I'm a strong dude, just sick right now. They can't kick my ass, they have tried jumping me 2 times and all they could do is scratch me a little. If i chose to deal damage back there wouldn?t be much of a fight.