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Doboji

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
lol, some of you guys are nuts.

I have blocked her on AIM and told her friend to keep a look out for her. I have tried for the past month to help her and be her friend, but this threating of cutting herself has got me thinking that I am only making the situation worse. I don't think I wanna take it as far as calling the cops on her, but if this happens again (which shouldnt now that she is blocked) I will seriously consider calling the cops.

Thanks for your help!

From experience.. walk away... no contact whatsoever... it's not your problem. SERIOUSLY... she's attempting to manipulate you. If you are not available to manipulate she's better off, and so are you.

-Max
 

JDub02

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talking to an ex ... bit no-no.

no contact for at least 3 months.

unless you still want to hit it on the side. :p
 

eigen

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Originally posted by: MikeyIs4Dcats
just remember, the crazier they are, the better they are in bed. ;)

We have a winner. Man is that true. I am putting the moves on this gothy style chick that used to cut.
Think marla from Fight CLub. She is banging.I am meeting her tonite. HAY for crazy hos
 

Skiguy411

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Oh wow, it turns out that she now has some kind of tumor in her stomach that could be deadly. She already had a weak immune system and "the stress slowly broke down my immune system and my lymph glands got a chance to act up which is why my temp wont go down." Shes says that I am the cause of it.

How the heck am I suppose to respond to that?
 

Kilrsat

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Oh wow, it turns out that she now has some kind of tumor in her stomach that could be deadly. She already had a weak immune system and "the stress slowly broke down my immune system and my lymph glands got a chance to act up which is why my temp wont go down." Shes says that I am the cause of it.

How the heck am I suppose to respond to that?

"Sucks to be you"
 

mobobuff

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If the guy hasn't actually seen the cuts, then nothing tells us she's actually cutting herself.

I originally claimed she was an attention whore for threatening to cut herself. I still don't think she's cut herself, she just wants attention. If she has cut herself it's probably just a scrape. If she continues the threats, contact the parents.
 

boyRacer

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Oh wow, it turns out that she now has some kind of tumor in her stomach that could be deadly. She already had a weak immune system and "the stress slowly broke down my immune system and my lymph glands got a chance to act up which is why my temp wont go down." Shes says that I am the cause of it.

How the heck am I suppose to respond to that?

You weren't supposed to be talking to her anymore in the first place. :p
 

alm4rr

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Get her help and dump for good - she is just dragging you into her problem (in fact you are feeding it and it would prob be better for her, too)
 

Yo Ma Ma

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Ex and I broke up about a month ago and she is still having a pretty hard time with it. We were talking on AIM tonight and things start to go sour. The end of the conversation is as follows....

Me: i gotta get to bed
Her: because laura (girl she is very jealous of) is gone
Me: because its 1:06 am
Her: and the only person left is the pessimistic psycho ex-girlfriend who is about to slit her wrists
Her: dont worry I understand
Her: goodnight
Me: please dont
Her: do u know how many cuts I have already on my legs?
Me: why?
Her: I am punishing myself
Me: by cutting yourself?
Her: yes
Her: ive been too scared to do my wrists yet
Me: you are smarter than this
Her: no im just a huge failure at everything I do
Me: uh NHS? Honor Scholar? you dont give yourself enough credit on anything
Her: ive done it so I need a towel
Her: goodnight

She left after that. Should I just leave her alone? or what?

**Update**

Alright well I talked to her best friend today and she called her to make sure she was ok. Her friend said that she was just really upset and overreacting. Also said she really didnt cut herself.


**Update 2**

Oh wow, it turns out that she now has some kind of tumor in her stomach that could be deadly. She already had a weak immune system and "the stress slowly broke down my immune system and my lymph glands got a chance to act up which is why my temp wont go down." Shes says that I am the cause of it.

How the heck am I suppose to respond to that?
Why did you even bother to break up? You are being manipulated.

Even if all is 100% true, you are still being manipulated.
 

Tremulant

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Um, yeah. When I was 16, the girls that my friends and I dated/broke up with were all attention whores. It's a stage of life, like running around naked when you're 5.

Seriously, I'm guessing that a lot of it is for attention. She can't blame the tumor thing on you, I'm guessing her immune system broke down because she's obsessing over you and thinking of ways to manipulate you. Hell, the tumor thing could be part of that. I don't know, I don't know the entire situation so I can't say much. I call shens on her cutting though.

And yeah, stop talking to her. That makes it easier for her to fvck with your mind.
 

Skiguy411

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Originally posted by: bR
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Oh wow, it turns out that she now has some kind of tumor in her stomach that could be deadly. She already had a weak immune system and "the stress slowly broke down my immune system and my lymph glands got a chance to act up which is why my temp wont go down." Shes says that I am the cause of it.

How the heck am I suppose to respond to that?

You weren't supposed to be talking to her anymore in the first place. :p

Gah, I know. I thought I would be nice, but it seems just to bring more problems. I have to stop talking to her.
 

alm4rr

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Originally posted by: bR
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Oh wow, it turns out that she now has some kind of tumor in her stomach that could be deadly. She already had a weak immune system and "the stress slowly broke down my immune system and my lymph glands got a chance to act up which is why my temp wont go down." Shes says that I am the cause of it.

How the heck am I suppose to respond to that?

You weren't supposed to be talking to her anymore in the first place. :p

Gah, I know. I thought I would be nice, but it seems just to bring more problems. I have to stop talking to her.