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cronos

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Originally posted by: deejayshakur
updates? remember to avoid the clingy/scary/possessive/jealous/crazy/suicidal girls next time.

that's the general rule, but sometimes you're caught in the middle of something that you can't get out of, without even realizing how exactly it happened. i got burned once. one of the most valuable life lessons for me.
 

acemcmac

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Originally posted by: acemcmac
You mean she hasn't accepted Jesus Christ as her savoir? :confused:

LOL, that DOES sound completley retarded!

I had always wondered what I'd sound like whoring out a religion....

seriosuly... call the cops just to show her just how hardcore you are :beer: :D :beer:
 

Gooberlx2

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Easy. Call her parents and explain exactly what happened in that AIM conversation. They'll check up on her and:
1) If she's cutting herself they'll get her help
2) If she's not cutting herself, and just being a drama queen, then they'll probably still get her help, or atleast have a talk with her.
 

silverpig

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Call either the cops or her parents. Then stick her on your blocked list and look over your shoulder from time to time :)
 

Whisper

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Like someone above mentioned, there are people out there like this ("cutters")...think Frankie from the Real World San Diego. They usually don't cut themselves in such a way as to threaten their lives, but it's disturbing nonetheless. Do your best to encourage her to seek help.
 

Skiguy411

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Alright well I talked to her best friend today and she called her to make sure she was ok. Her friend said that she was just really upset and overreacting. Also said she really didnt cut herself.

Girls are nuts.....
 

dabuddha

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She wants your attention. I'd just tell her parents or call the cops and then cut off all contact. I've dealt with 2 exs like this. Crazy ass women.
 

nan0bug

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Originally posted by: jtusa4
If she's lying and just trying to worry you, she needs help.

If she's actually doing it, she needs even more help...

How do I go about telling her that? I didnt think coming right out and saying "you need help" would be too good.....

How about "You want attention, you've got it"

Then get her parents involved. If she threatens to kill herself, call the police. Be an asshole about it, but tell her its because you care about her.
 

Tiamat

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shes doing it for attention. Deny her the attn, and contact a shrink for her or something. There is no way you should have to deal with the added stress and worries becuase of her selfishness. Life sucks at times, you dont deal with it buy slicing yourself up.

I know someone that started doing that, and I told her that if she continued to do that, she would lose the only person that was willing to listen to her whine about life suckage and try to pull her ashore. She thought long and hard, and hasnt self-mutilated herself to this day.
 

eigen

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Get her help. People that cut have a tendency to do more damage to them selves than you realize.
As far as being an attention whore, that is also called a cry for help.
Unless you know a cutter or have been one dont even think about making an opionion.
You have no idea about the mindset that makes a person cut themselves.