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Skiguy411

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Ex and I broke up about a month ago and she is still having a pretty hard time with it. We were talking on AIM tonight and things start to go sour. The end of the conversation is as follows....

Me: i gotta get to bed
Her: because laura (girl she is very jealous of) is gone
Me: because its 1:06 am
Her: and the only person left is the pessimistic psycho ex-girlfriend who is about to slit her wrists
Her: dont worry I understand
Her: goodnight
Me: please dont
Her: do u know how many cuts I have already on my legs?
Me: why?
Her: I am punishing myself
Me: by cutting yourself?
Her: yes
Her: ive been too scared to do my wrists yet
Me: you are smarter than this
Her: no im just a huge failure at everything I do
Me: uh NHS? Honor Scholar? you dont give yourself enough credit on anything
Her: ive done it so I need a towel
Her: goodnight

She left after that. Should I just leave her alone? or what?

**Update**

Alright well I talked to her best friend today and she called her to make sure she was ok. Her friend said that she was just really upset and overreacting. Also said she really didnt cut herself.


**Update 2**

Oh wow, it turns out that she now has some kind of tumor in her stomach that could be deadly. She already had a weak immune system and "the stress slowly broke down my immune system and my lymph glands got a chance to act up which is why my temp wont go down." Shes says that I am the cause of it.

How the heck am I suppose to respond to that?




 
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jtusa

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If she's lying and just trying to worry you, she needs help.

If she's actually doing it, she needs even more help...
 
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Skiguy411

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Originally posted by: jtusa4
If she's lying and just trying to worry you, she needs help.

If she's actually doing it, she needs even more help...
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How do I go about telling her that? I didnt think coming right out and saying "you need help" would be too good.....
 
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glen

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I am sure I have dated more than my fair share of cutters.
It is extremely painful and you can't do anythign to help them.
All you can do is encourage them to get help.
The ones i know who did this all quit and did not ever harm themselves seriously.
 
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glen

Lifer
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oh, and they are also very likley to be throwing up their food.
And highly likely to exercise like maniacs.
 
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n0cmonkey

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If you care about her, tell her that she needs help. If you don't just cut off all contact with her. Either way, it's gonna suck.
 
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Yo Ma Ma

Lifer
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Call the cops, if it's real you could save her life, and if she's faking then I guess she won't do it again.
 
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jtusa

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Originally posted by: jtusa4
If she's lying and just trying to worry you, she needs help.

If she's actually doing it, she needs even more help...
Click to expand...

How do I go about telling her that? I didnt think coming right out and saying "you need help" would be too good.....
Click to expand...

If it's for real, tell her parents. That's nothing to mess around with. Try not to make yourself too involved because that's exactly what she wants. Just tell her parents/family and let them take care of it.
 
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Ronstang

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Yeah, call the police on the little dumbass and after her parents are awoken at 1 AM because their daughter is another psychobitch in the making she won't be pulling this crap on anyone anymore. If she wanted to die she would be dead, telling you is her way of trying to get your attention/help so help her and get the authorities involved.
 
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mobobuff

Lifer
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1. Why would she get a towel if she slit her wrists?

2. Cutters enjoy having the blood on their body, they wouldn't wipe it off right away.

So that, combined with the fact that she's 16, I'm willing to bet she's BSing for attention.

And in the offchance that I'm wrong, well, I'll be damned.
 
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