Alcohol: Social lubricant and/or something to relax with at the end of the day
At the end of the day: you have your standard drinks: beer or ale, wine, a mixed drink, and\or your choice of distilled liquor. Blender drinks are not out of the question.
For a party or a weekend get-together try blender drinks:
Pina Colada
rum or vodka
pineapple juice
coconut syrup and ice
Strawberry Daiquiri, or peaches, or bananas, etc.
rum or vodka
frozen strawberries
frozen concentrated lemonade and ice
Ramos Fizz - a pleasant drink for Sunday brunch or substitute champagne
One-third orange juice
One-third half-and-half
One-third gin
powdered sugar
orange flower water and ice
A Waring blender is great for blender drinks, if you have $500 a Vitamix rules. I have several Waring blenders including one with a 12 VDC Motor for camping. Recently at BevMo I've seen a hand crank model, which looks pretty durable.
Fondue can be great if you have a small gathering of friends. Break out the wine. This was very popular in the late seventies and early eighties but I still make it today.
Sunday brunches make great get-togethers. Champagne is an excellent choice here, as are Ramos Fizzes or even a New Orleans Fizz. You don't get a lot done, but you socialize.
You can make some great picnics with the right wine and some cheese, etc.
You should have some bartending software so I recommend College Bar or Bar Genie:
http://www.pracx.com/
Have fun, don't overindulge, and if you do you?ve been warned.