Originally posted by: Ornery
I'd still like to know why Skoorb's 'OEM' replacement pads don't look like what came off of his car? Did this thing have the pads replaced inside of 3 years?
Sorry for not responding earlier
OK, everything is done and seems to be working. The car stops

Here's what I did:
Replaced the stud with one from advance auto parts (Bless the lord they actually had one left for my car). This was quite easy to do, and as galvanizedyankee suggested (and I forgot to do!) go slow while torquing the stud on and use a lubricant to avoid stripping/ruining the stud & lug nut. I did minimal damage to both (though the most damage on the stud was so deep in that lug nuts would not even grab on to it that deep, so no worry), but lube would have helped. With a breaker bar the thing went on without too much effort.
Brakes: For these I also posted on the maxima forums and I got little responses with exception to one guy who said that he'd gone through three OEM rotors in a year using OEM pads. He then switched over to performance friction pads (about half the price) and is now on his second set with the same set of rotors. His conclusion was that the OEM pads were faulty. Another fellow responded and said that he thought that pads were responsible for warping in our cars more times than not. So, I bought performance friction pads.
In regards to how long the OEMs lasted I bought the car with 37k. I can't say if they were replaced before then or not. The car has 67k on it now and has been throbbing for only a short while. I always noticed in the past that when the brakes got hot from spirited driving I'd hear a scrunching, and I am now thinking that it was probably those pads.
I did end up putting a small amount of CRC anti-squeel on because I'd already bought it (quite sparingly applied), though reading about pads that already come with anti-squeeling shims built right into them it seems to make some sense that this stuff may have been unecessary. I applied it so minimally that at worse case it was a waste of $3.
In regards to rotors I ended up turning them. BTW they came off VERY easily. I hammered them loosely. The first took 6 reasonble hits, and the second took two. There was not that much rust behind. I still used break cleaner to remove what I could, and I didn't bother applying any anti-seize at all, because down in the south and considering that they'd not had any on there before I have no doubt that the rotors will pop off next time too. I was getting differing opinions on it not just here but on google searches. It seems about 1/3-1/2 of people say not to bother. Others say that there is no problem. The consensus seems to point to the fact that the rotors will not last as long. However, there is a lot of metal left on mine, and since replacement rotors cost a minimum of $50/each shipped (vs $15 for turning), then the debate lends a little more credence to turning (whereas if rotors were $25/piece, it's a no brainer to buy new). Another reason I turned them is that if the OEM pads were in great part responsible for my braking issues it's entirely possible that the new pads will not affect the rotors in the same way.
Total parts were: $30 for rotors and $34 for pads. Grand total: $64 in parts. If I'd have bought new rotors it would have been $100 plus pads (raning from $34 to $70). Another reason I turned is that with all of the conflicting info on the net I figured I'd try my luck at it. If the rotors warp in 10k miles I'll be satisfied at getting 10k but also learning that yes indeed turning may not be a good idea. However, if they last a good bit longer I'll be pleased with that too, and learn something from it
Thanks for everyone's help!

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