Originally posted by: Luthien
DrPizza the fence was broken when the dogs got loose on the 12th 5 days prior to the dogs getting loose on the 17th and who knows how long it was broken before the 12th.
The owner plead not guilty before getting a lawyer.
The uniqueness of the cat is not replaceable, the time and money we invested caring for the cat over 7 years to be able to enjoy our "property" for another decade was stolen from us due to the negligence of another person and their "property." The value of our "property" increased as we put more and more money into maintaining it and it as a result became more and more uniquely ours.
Luthien, I really feel for your loss, and can FULLY empathize with your love of and deep attachment to Ralph, who certainly seemed to be quite the fine cat and companion. I have a deep affection for ALL animals, and a deep respect for them, as well.
Still, it gives me great pause when you talk about suing the dog owner for big bucks, and even speak of having his dog euthanized. Unless you know beyond the shadow of a doubt that the dog owner is routinely negligent about letting his hounds loose in the neighborhood, and that there have been other tragic consequences, causing the law to kill that man's dog is very, very, very bad karma, man. And, trying to use the "justice system" (excuse me while I laugh bitterly at such a term) to extract a lot of money from him sets, for me, a rather disturbing precedent. I can FEEL how much Ralph meant to you, but using the blind, stupid gears of "justice" to "punish" him by making him pay you some big amount of dough is not a path I can endorse. Really, man, how can you or anyone else put a dollar amount on your affection for Ralph? The possibilities for abuse of such a system by slick lawyers boggle the imagination.
I was a PI for 14 years. The one thing EVERY lawyer I ever worked for and almost everyone else involved in the criminal and/or civil justice system emphasized is that there is no such thing as "justice" within it!
People suing other people sucks! Only the lawyers truly win.
Nature is cruel. Animals, left to their own devices, can and will hunt and kill each other.
Believe me, I do know how easy it is for me to sit here at a calm remove and counsel you not to seek any and all avenues of revenge. I shudder to think of how immediate and violent my response would have been had I seen that dog carrying a screaming Ralph to his death. I am not quite the person I wish to be.
But now, a month or more has passed. For you own sake, for your own mental and emotional health, you NEED to move on. This does not mean putting Ralph out of your heart. By all means, remember him always, for this is the one sure version of immortality we biological creatures, so prone to the ravages of entropy, have. But remember him as he was when healthy and whole. Remember his heart, remember his loyalty. Don't let the dark poison of bitterness and revenge define you. It is a dangerous addiction.