And how much of that mortgage are you paying? You aren't allowed to have an opinion on it, it's your parents house and they are kind enough to let you live there. If my kids ever talked like you are talking their ass would be out of the house immediately and disowned. It's very ungrateful and disrespectful.
Rufus12
Golden Member
Your life is what you make of it. You are capable of getting a job and moving out, yet you don't. You only have yourself to blame.
Loss of parents, loss of loved one, death of a child, loss of job, not being able to put a roof over your head. Those are the normal definitions of stress.
TridenTboy,
Here's the real advice I will give you. You perceive stress because you feel you have no control over the situation and your living conditions. You do have control but you are choosing not to exercise it - that is what is causing you stress. You can either accept this new environment or change it by moving out, the later will have much more stress than the paltry whineyness you're feeling.
Here's the real advice I will give you. You perceive stress because you feel you have no control over the situation and your living conditions. You do have control but you are choosing not to exercise it - that is what is causing you stress. You can either accept this new environment or change it by moving out, the later will have much more stress than the paltry whineyness you're feeling.
Nik
Lifer
- Jun 5, 2006
- 16,101
- 3
- 56
Well first of all, you don't. You can't lie to yourself. It's impossible. You can't hide something from yourself, it's just silly.
If you know things are going to be bad, you tell yourself just that. You brace for it. You consider all your options, prepare for the worst, but you bust your ass in an effort toward the best outcome. Don't like how something is going? Don't bury your head in the sand. Try to change it. If you can't change it, part of growing up and maturing is learning to deal with things outside of your control.
If you know things are going to be bad, you tell yourself just that. You brace for it. You consider all your options, prepare for the worst, but you bust your ass in an effort toward the best outcome. Don't like how something is going? Don't bury your head in the sand. Try to change it. If you can't change it, part of growing up and maturing is learning to deal with things outside of your control.
Jeff7
Lifer
- Jan 4, 2001
- 41,596
- 20
- 81
Do try to get some dimensions on that room, I'm curious to see just how small or "small" it really is.
How many people are going to be living there?
2000 square feet sounds about like what I grew up in. You can get quite a lot of space out of that.
Upstairs:
- My bedroom
- Sister's bedroom
- Parents' bedroom
- Bathroom
- Diningroom & kitchen
- Livingroom
Basement (finished):
- Stove room/storage
- Sewing room (mom's)
- Office (dad's)
- My computer room
- Mom's computer/puzzles/projects room
- Small storage room
You can get quite a lot into 2000 square feet.
With me and my sister pretty much moved out now, my parents are looking at selling the house sometime in the coming years. The yard is fairly large, and it'll become too much to take care of as they get older, and there's just more space in the house than they need.
How many people are going to be living there?
2000 square feet sounds about like what I grew up in. You can get quite a lot of space out of that.
Upstairs:
- My bedroom
- Sister's bedroom
- Parents' bedroom
- Bathroom
- Diningroom & kitchen
- Livingroom
Basement (finished):
- Stove room/storage
- Sewing room (mom's)
- Office (dad's)
- My computer room
- Mom's computer/puzzles/projects room
- Small storage room
You can get quite a lot into 2000 square feet.
With me and my sister pretty much moved out now, my parents are looking at selling the house sometime in the coming years. The yard is fairly large, and it'll become too much to take care of as they get older, and there's just more space in the house than they need.
Capt Caveman
Lifer
- Jan 30, 2005
- 34,543
- 651
- 126
Wow, what a little baby. Maybe, this will motivate your lazy ass to get a job, car, girlfriend and GTFO of your parents house.
Can't stand cry babies who won't do anything about their situations.
Jesus Christ, he's getting his college tuition paid for and free room and board.
Can't stand cry babies who won't do anything about their situations.
Jesus Christ, he's getting his college tuition paid for and free room and board.
:wine:
You don't know real stress at all. Many families cannot even all of the things you are taking for granted. Step back, and think about how many luxuries you are enjoying as given. While you are seeing some of your luxuries being taken away, many people don't even get the chance to experience them at all. Just be thankful for what you have and stop whining.
You don't know real stress at all. Many families cannot even all of the things you are taking for granted. Step back, and think about how many luxuries you are enjoying as given. While you are seeing some of your luxuries being taken away, many people don't even get the chance to experience them at all. Just be thankful for what you have and stop whining.
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