No. You don't get it.
Systemic, institutionalized persistent racism is a scientifically proven fact as this meta analysis proves.
https://www.pnas.org/content/114/41/10870.full
Blacks have a 36% handicap in the workplace based solely on the color of their skin. That is scientific consensus. Not just one study, but thousands of studies. And that hasn't changed in 40 years. Not one bit.
Because of people like you.
No one is "buying into" anything here. This is the reality minorities face every day in this country.
And you are not, in any way shape or form, qualified to dismiss it.
You are not, in any way shape or form, qualified to tell minorities what they experience.
The best you can do, is listen to the majority consensus on their opinion of how they are treated in society. Anything else is simply you trying to force the facts to fit your world view.