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DVK916

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Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: DVK916
I'm not attracted to girls under 18. I just don't see the big deal with a 20 year old and a 14 year old.

Think about it like this. Many of us have fathers who are around 7 years older than our mother.

So when our father was 20 our mothers would be have around 13 years old. See what is the big deal.
wow....

/sits back with a lawnchair and cracks open a boddingtons for this one


I said it wrong. I didn't mean we all have fathers who are 7 year older than our mothers. I am saying many people have fathers who are 7+ years older than their mothers.
 

chambersc

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Originally posted by: DVK916
Originally posted by: JRich
Originally posted by: DVK916
Originally posted by: Strk
Originally posted by: DVK916
If they men were under 25 I fail to see what is the big deal. The only iffy one is the 12 year old.

I take it you're still a teenager?

I am 22.

Again I am talking about if the men are in their low 20s.

I agree a 40 year old man and a 16 year old girl is wrong. The man needs to go to jail for that.

But a 24 year old and a 16 year old, what the big deal.

Chester the Molester!

I'm not attracted to girls under 18. I just don't see the big deal with a 20 year old and a 14 year old.

Think about it like this. Many of people have fathers who are around 7 years older than our mother.

So when the father was 20 our mothers would be have around 13 years old. See what is the big deal.

I hate you with every fiber of my being. Every single post in the past few weeks that I've cared to read of yours has been absolutely moronic to say the least. You argue your ideals that are so out there that you appear as a complete nutcase. Stick to your principles buddy cause your life is obviously sh!t. take pills and die, buddy.
 

anxi80

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Originally posted by: DVK916
I said it wrong. I didn't mean we all have fathers who are 7 year older than our mothers. I am saying many people have fathers who are 7+ years older than their mothers.
yeah. but more than likely they meet after the age of consent. it sounds like you think its okay for a guy to finish a day of classes at college and then sweep by the local high school to spit some game on some freshman cheerleaders.
 

DVK916

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You people make it seem like I condone pedophilia. Well I don't. I just don't think a 20 year old who has sex with a 14 year old is a pedophile.
 

DVK916

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Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: DVK916
I said it wrong. I didn't mean we all have fathers who are 7 year older than our mothers. I am saying many people have fathers who are 7+ years older than their mothers.
yeah. but more than likely they meet after the age of consent. it sounds like you think its okay for a guy to finish a day of classes at college and then sweep by the local high school to spit some game on some freshman cheerleaders.

I wouldn't do it, but I don't think it should be looked down apon.
 

CraKaJaX

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Originally posted by: DougK62
My great grandmother was married when she was 14.


Yeah.... and how long ago was that? There were also familys with 15+ children. Way different then today.
 

Strk

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Originally posted by: DougK62
My great grandmother was married when she was 14.
And I wouldn't be surprised if she was told who her husband was going to be rather than choose him; times change.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: DVK916
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: jpeyton
Originally posted by: Xcobra
Tell me something i dont know....this kinda crap happens a lot....its the parents fault for not being aware or at least monitoring what their children do in the computer...

EDIT: did i just read that the girls didnt do anything to stop it?

Horny teen girls who wanted to get with someone a little older. It happens all the time. My guess is that one of the girl's parents found out, told other parents, and that is how it got out. The girls probably wanted to keep it going.

Exactly. These girls are likely only "victims" of "sex assaults" in the eyes of the law.

I agree, these girls are not real victims.
they are minors. which makes them victims.

 

DougK62

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Originally posted by: CraKaJaX
Originally posted by: DougK62
My great grandmother was married when she was 14.


Yeah.... and how long ago was that? There were also familys with 15+ children. Way different then today.

It wasn't THAT long ago. My point is that only recently has this become taboo.

 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: DougK62
Originally posted by: CraKaJaX
Originally posted by: DougK62
My great grandmother was married when she was 14.


Yeah.... and how long ago was that? There were also familys with 15+ children. Way different then today.

It wasn't THAT long ago. My point is that only recently has this become taboo.
i wonder if your great grandmother wanted to marry at 14.

nowadays there are so many more opportunites for women out there.

 

DougK62

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: DougK62
Originally posted by: CraKaJaX
Originally posted by: DougK62
My great grandmother was married when she was 14.


Yeah.... and how long ago was that? There were also familys with 15+ children. Way different then today.

It wasn't THAT long ago. My point is that only recently has this become taboo.
i wonder if your great grandmother wanted to marry at 14.

nowadays there are so many more opportunites for women out there.

Oh I'm not disputing either of those things, which are good points. Just that being with a 14 year old doesn't necessarily make someone a pedophile pervert.

 

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Originally posted by: DVK916
You people make it seem like I condone pedophilia. Well I don't. I just don't think a 20 year old who has sex with a 14 year old is a pedophile.

You also made it seem like you think a ~25 year old with a 12 year old is "iffy"
 

gigapet

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Originally posted by: nautique
but there will never be a real way to regulate this.

there shouldnt be either. This is gap in parenting not a gap in regulating the website.
 

yowolabi

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Can we all agree that the 18 year old thing is arbitrary as hell? Yes it's illegal, and if you do it, you have to know that there could be consequences. But as far as being morally wrong, there is legitimate room for discussion.

Girls did used to get married a lot younger. What exactly has changed to make it a perversion now? If anything, girls are reaching puberty earlier than they used to. I know in high school, most of the 14-18 year old girls were having sex and mostly with guys far older than them. Or that's what i tell myself to explain why i couldn't get any.

Anyway, i'm not a big fan of prosecuting a guy when a girl knows she wants sex, seeks it out and travels to get it, and doesn't complain about it afterward.
 

DVK916

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A 17 year old guy and a 12 year old girl being a couple and having sex is all fine to the law and most of you, but once that 17 year old guy turns 18 most of you would now label him a pedophile. Even though at 17 there was nothing illegal about him having sex with a 12 year old.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: DVK916
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: jpeyton
Originally posted by: Xcobra
Tell me something i dont know....this kinda crap happens a lot....its the parents fault for not being aware or at least monitoring what their children do in the computer...

EDIT: did i just read that the girls didnt do anything to stop it?

Horny teen girls who wanted to get with someone a little older. It happens all the time. My guess is that one of the girl's parents found out, told other parents, and that is how it got out. The girls probably wanted to keep it going.

Exactly. These girls are likely only "victims" of "sex assaults" in the eyes of the law.

I agree, these girls are not real victims.
they are minors. which makes them victims.

Indeed. In the eyes of the law, as I said.
 

AStar617

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Originally posted by: DVK916
A 17 year old guy and a 12 year old girl being a couple and having sex is all fine to the law and most of you, but once that 17 year old guy turns 18 most of you would now label him a pedophile. Even though at 17 there was nothing illegal about him having sex with a 12 year old.
PATENTLY INCORRECT. Every state that I know of deems a floating age difference which actually governs the under-18 consent ages.

Example: here in MA, 16yo is the age of consent. This is to prevent legitimate relationships between an 18yo and 16yo from being illegal. But the TRUE nature of the law is a 2yr difference between the members. Therefore, it is illegal for anyone over 17 to be with a 15yo, 16 to be with a 14yo, etc. Thus your 17-12 example is 100% NOT "all fine to the law".
 

Eli

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bwhahahaha
Originally posted by: jpeyton
Originally posted by: Xcobra
Tell me something i dont know....this kinda crap happens a lot....its the parents fault for not being aware or at least monitoring what their children do in the computer...

EDIT: did i just read that the girls didnt do anything to stop it?

Horny teen girls who wanted to get with someone a little older. It happens all the time. My guess is that one of the girl's parents found out, told other parents, and that is how it got out. The girls probably wanted to keep it going.
QFT.
 

MrDudeMan

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Originally posted by: AStar617
Originally posted by: DVK916
A 17 year old guy and a 12 year old girl being a couple and having sex is all fine to the law and most of you, but once that 17 year old guy turns 18 most of you would now label him a pedophile. Even though at 17 there was nothing illegal about him having sex with a 12 year old.
PATENTLY INCORRECT. Every state that I know of deems a floating age difference which actually governs the under-18 consent ages.

Example: here in MA, 16yo is the age of consent. This is to prevent legitimate relationships between an 18yo and 16yo from being illegal. But the TRUE nature of the law is a 2yr difference between the members. Therefore, it is illegal for anyone over 17 to be with a 15yo, 16 to be with a 14yo, etc. Thus your 17-12 example is 100% NOT "all fine to the law".

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