<< and Viper GTS's recent poll showed that most of us like breasts the size your wife originally had. >>
Who cares what breast size the other memebers of ATOT like the best. The fact that his wife made a decision to go through with this operation is reason enough to be supportive. The effects of this operation will only affect the lives of Carbo and his wife, none of the members here on ATOT, so the breast size of choice (to most ATOT members)is irrelevant.
<< Notice the "i hope"? He didn't accuse you of anything. And whats wrong with him saying that they're too large for his tastes? >>
What's wrong with that is this is Carbo's wife. Not Rand's, not yours, not mine, not anybody's except Carbo's. Who cares what Rand's tastes are! He doesn't have to live with her.
Maybe he wants to keep the reasons for this operation between himself and his wife. If you can't offer support and best wishes for her during the operation, then don't say anything. Maybe she is doing it because she has low-self esteem, maybe she's doing it to enhance their sex lives (just giving examples here). The point is, who cares? You don't have to live with either of them, and until Carbo gives some reason as to why the operation is being done, you can't judge him or his wife for going through with it.