My girlfriend wants to get a tattoo...

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Buck Armstrong

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Originally posted by: jndietz
If my girlfriend wanted to get a tattoo so that "she could show it off"... well... you know what I would do :)

I have to agree that her reason for getting one ("to show it off") sounds pretty stupid. At least other people try to hide the real reason they get a tattoo, this girl just admits it!
 

simms

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Originally posted by: Duddy
Currently, 48% of you agree that I should lose her. Then why is 99% of this thread hate posts?

I simply asked for opinions. I didn't want personal attacks.

You know why your poll is skewed? Because your poll sucks, like your opinion.

Add in "She should dump me" and watch the polls roll.. I haven't voted yet because I'm still waiting for that option.

Zemmervolt put up some very good points that I think you should address.
M4H is being a jackass but still wildly hilarious. I especially like the kicked in the junk bit...
 

OhioState

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she sounds bi-polar and slightly manic right now

enjoy it while it lasts

dont make plans

dont have kids

dump her when your not happy anymore (make plans for this)

also use reverse Psychology on this one support her tat idea ......
 

judasmachine

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Originally posted by: OhioState
she sounds bi-polar and slightly manic right now

enjoy it while it lasts

dont make plans

dont have kids

dump her when your not happy anymore (make plans for this)

also use reverse Psychology on this one support her tat idea ......

Crude but effective. I like it.
 

cheapgoose

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you forgot the "i'm an idiot" option. how old are you anyway? get all worked up about a tattoo? sounds like you have a problem with her, and is just using the tattoo as an excuse to show it.

 

chusteczka

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Was there a question or just a statement of the situation?

It seems the OP is not happy with his girlfriend. She will make her own decisions and will dislike anyone who tries to change her. Based on the OP's description and apparent attitude, the best thing is for him to go his own way and let her go. Additionally, I agree with someone else's statement that she may be trying to upset the OP. Take that as a sign she also wants the change brought about by a separation.

It is my opinion that a tatoo will constantly leak poison into a person's body for the rest of their life. I would not want a person with a constant source of poison leaking through their body as a mother for my children. Tattoos, smoking, drugs, consistant doses of prescription drugs, lack of intelligence, and poor eating habits will all determine a woman is not fit to develop and raise my children.

Keep to your values, work hard to get where you want to be in life, and do not let the pop culture pull you down.
 

lizardboy

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Originally posted by: Duddy
Currently, 48% of you agree that I should lose her. Then why is 99% of this thread hate posts?

I simply asked for opinions. I didn't want personal attacks.

The personal attacks come free with the opinions.
 

lizardboy

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Originally posted by: chusteczka
It is my opinion that a tatoo will constantly leak poison into a person's body for the rest of their life. I would not want a person with a constant source of poison leaking through their body as a mother for my children. Tattoos, smoking, drugs, consistant doses of prescription drugs, lack of intelligence, and poor eating habits will all determine a woman is not fit to develop and raise my children.

Keep to your values, work hard to get where you want to be in life, and do not let the pop culture pull you down.

Wow, you sound like almost as much of an asswipe as the OP :roll:
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: Duddy
Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal
Originally posted by: Duddy
Originally posted by: Duddy
Originally posted by: pulse8
How can you remove your faith as a factor?

Because I just realized that I care more about my own love than God. No one else here seems to care what God thinks! So why the **** should I!!!!?!?!?!!
No offense son, but it seems to me you're really lost emotionally. Sounds like you're confused of what you want and what you believe in. Would that be a true statement?

YES!!! Everything is a lie!!!! Everyone's opinion is their own!!

Texas, no wonder :roll:

I hope she gets away from you.
 

chusteczka

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Originally posted by: lizardboy
Originally posted by: chusteczka
It is my opinion that a tatoo will constantly leak poison into a person's body for the rest of their life. I would not want a person with a constant source of poison leaking through their body as a mother for my children. Tattoos, smoking, drugs, consistant doses of prescription drugs, lack of intelligence, and poor eating habits will all determine a woman is not fit to develop and raise my children.

Keep to your values, work hard to get where you want to be in life, and do not let the pop culture pull you down.

Wow, you sound like almost as much of an asswipe as the OP :roll:

You can think anything you like.
I need to look out for the health and prosperity of my future children.
 

lizardboy

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Originally posted by: chusteczka
Originally posted by: lizardboy
Originally posted by: chusteczka
It is my opinion that a tatoo will constantly leak poison into a person's body for the rest of their life. I would not want a person with a constant source of poison leaking through their body as a mother for my children. Tattoos, smoking, drugs, consistant doses of prescription drugs, lack of intelligence, and poor eating habits will all determine a woman is not fit to develop and raise my children.

Keep to your values, work hard to get where you want to be in life, and do not let the pop culture pull you down.

Wow, you sound like almost as much of an asswipe as the OP :roll:

You can think anything you like.
I need to look out for the health and prosperity of my future children.

Hint - after home schooling, your children will join a cult and never speak to you again.
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: chusteczka

It is my opinion that a tatoo will constantly leak poison into a person's body for the rest of their life. I would not want a person with a constant source of poison leaking through their body as a mother for my children. Tattoos, smoking, drugs, consistant doses of prescription drugs, lack of intelligence, and poor eating habits will all determine a woman is not fit to develop and raise my children.

Keep to your values, work hard to get where you want to be in life, and do not let the pop culture pull you down.

It's my opinion you must be on crack because there is no brain activity showing on your part. :| :disgust:
 

newParadigm

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Leviticus 21:18-23

18 No man who has any defect may come near: no man who is blind or lame, disfigured or deformed;
19 no man with a crippled foot or hand,
20 or who is hunchbacked or dwarfed, or who has any eye defect, or who has festering or running sores or damaged testicles.
21 No descendant of Aaron the priest who has any defect is to come near to present the offerings made to the LORD by fire. He has a defect; he must not come near to offer the food of his God.
22 He may eat the most holy food of his God, as well as the holy food;
23 yet because of his defect, he must not go near the curtain or approach the altar, and so desecrate my sanctuary. I am the LORD, who makes them holy.

Blind, crippled, broken hand, less than 20/20 vision, or just been kicked in the junk recently? HEATHEN! BURN IN HELL!

- M4H

its not a sin to get a tat...thats sanction was part of the law of Moses, which was replaced by the commands of Christ.

Gal 3:24 "Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith." (KJV)

In this verse Paul, the writer of Galatians, uses a metaphor about the Jewish Law, the Greek word "paedagogos" which was in ancient Greece, a trustworthy attendant for children.

The "schoolmaster" in the historical context of this Scripture was not the teacher, but rather the slave, who cared for his master's son's from around the age of 6 or 7 until they reached puberty. The servant (usually elderly) would escort the child to school and care for his safety in his immaturity making sure he was instructed, seeing that this child too was his master. Once the child grew up, he was no longer required to obey his servant.

The technical duty of the attendant, according to historians, was to guard the children from evil, both physical and moral, rather than instruction. He went with them to and from the school and the gymnasium, and was personally responsible for their safety and protected them from any bad company. (See Smith's "Dictionary of Antiquities" about Paedagogus).

This is a striking imagery of how the Law was primarily given for a certain purpose as an attendant to lead us to Jesus, who is the real teacher. Paul makes it clear that the Law was never given to teach us (we could never obey it), but rather it was a finger pointing to the One who is the only teacher, Jesus.

This being the case, the law no longer need be obeyed. We must obey the commands of Christ instead. The law was designed to function in a Theocracy of true believers in God, the law simply won't work for christians surrounded by the world. If you kill one of my animals (say my dog) and you were not a christian, and didn't honor the laws of Moses (hypothetically proposing that we do still need to obey them) you would never give me the compensation it granted, and there would be no one to ensure you did (like the elders of the tribes of Israel, and later the judges and kings did).

~new
 

chusteczka

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Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: chusteczka

It is my opinion that a tatoo will constantly leak poison into a person's body for the rest of their life. I would not want a person with a constant source of poison leaking through their body as a mother for my children. Tattoos, smoking, drugs, consistant doses of prescription drugs, lack of intelligence, and poor eating habits will all determine a woman is not fit to develop and raise my children.

Keep to your values, work hard to get where you want to be in life, and do not let the pop culture pull you down.

It's my opinion you must be on crack because there is no brain activity showing on your part. :| :disgust:

This is not for you to worry about since my sense of selection provides more for you to enjoy.
Additionally, I am not worried since I only need one who thinks the same as I do.
 

DannyLove

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girlfriend at 18.................................. she doesn't answer to no one. Not even you. You shouldn't even be in a relationship. this situation is by far the most easiest.
get rid of her, stop going for relationships and just date girls until you are really ready for a relationship around 25+...

kids...
 

Konigin

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I think she is doing to get you mad, or jealous. I wouldn't do it if my boyfriend didn't want me to.
 

buck

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WTF is with these douchebag threads? Jeebus grow up.

Look on the bright side, she won't be with you for long.
 

maziwanka

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Originally posted by: buck
WTF is with these douchebag threads? Jeebus grow up.

Look on the bright side, she won't be with you for long.

and this one grew exponentially fast.

any threads with a hint of religion spark wildfires
 

JEDIYoda

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Originally posted by: Duddy
We have been together over a year and a half now.

I already told her that I completely disapprove of them and that I never wanted her to get one. She promised me a year ago that she never would.

Now she says she wants a tattoo to show off to people. I asked her why. She says because she can and she will no mater what I say.

I guess she wants attention. When we love each other, we LOVE each other. But at the same time, we argue 80% of the time. I'm always in a good mood, but she knows how to change that in an instant. So that would be another reason to lose her.


I would keep her!
Then I would retaliate and get a tatoo on my frontal appendage located under my bellybutton.
I also might even get a peircing right under the head of the...
Then i would tell her I did it becuase I also wanted attention...heheeee
Also, she looks exactly like her mom when she was her age. Not good news.


It's raining pretty hard here........ Seems fitting.

[Update: Removed my faith as a factor.] And, it would be on the front right of her hip. High enough up so that others can easily see it. Also, she is already on 5 prescriptions at the age of 18. She is right on track with her mom.





Thanks,
Dustin

 

FreedomGUNDAM

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She is only your girlfriend right now, not my spouse.

My wifey wants a tatoo also, I told he that would be fine with me. Hell, I'm thinking about getting one myself
 

eits

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Originally posted by: FreedomGUNDAM
She is only your girlfriend right now, not my spouse.

My wifey wants a tatoo also, I told he that would be fine with me. Hell, I'm thinking about getting one myself

:roll: convincing argument.