My girlfriend wants to get a tattoo...

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iroast

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80% of the time? You'll give your kids (future) a headache and everyone else around you who have to listen to your arguments.

Moreover, she PROMISED you that she wouldn't. What good is a person who does not keep their words? 99% of the time? :D
 

feelingshorter

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Wow, talk about testing someone.... i would never get a tat just because you can never donate blood. You never know when there is a blood shortage and if one of your family ends up needing blood...
 
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I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rules.

Yes, it was a test to see if you were an overbearing, control-freak douchebag who would try to run every aspect of her life if you two were to stay together based on his own asinine beliefs without taking her feelings/faith/opinion/existence into account.

Hint - YOU FAILED.

I would tell you to go buy a RealDoll, but you're such a prick that you'd spend all your money on puncture repair before you even got anywhere with it.

Love,

- M4H
 

Duddy

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rules.

Yes, it was a test to see if you were an overbearing, control-freak douchebag who would try to run every aspect of her life if you two were to stay together based on his own asinine beliefs without taking her feelings/faith/opinion/existence into account.

Hint - YOU FAILED.

I would tell you to go buy a RealDoll, but you're such a prick that you'd spend all your money on puncture repair before you even got anywhere with it.

Love,

- M4H

You missed the point! I told her that she could get it and that I was being a douche! Now she doesn't want it anymore and is all over me! I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!

Another thing, I just realized today that I have heard that "I just wanted to do it to know that I could" on Family Guy. I don't remember which episode. Something to do with Lois going off the edge or something. Anyone know it?
 

desiplaya4life

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Originally posted by: Duddy
We have been together over a year and a half now.

I already told her that I completely disapprove of them and that I never wanted her to get one. She promised me a year ago that she never would.

Now she says she wants a tattoo to show off to people. I asked her why. She says because she can and she will no mater what I say.

I guess she wants attention. When we love each other, we LOVE each other. But at the same time, we argue 80% of the time. I'm always in a good mood, but she knows how to change that in an instant. So that would be another reason to lose her.



Also, she looks exactly like her mom when she was her age. Not good news.


It's raining pretty hard here........ Seems fitting.



I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rules.





Thanks,
Dustin

you're pretty much a pussy.



i mean i understand taht whole i love her more than blah crap but if its something you FIRMLY believe in and she overrides it. then here's what i do or did.



my ex wanted to wear short shorts for summer (it was coming up) and was asking me my opinion cuz she was thinking about shopping for some. i told her 'hun its your choice, but i think you dont need to wear it, you look great the way you are plus i would like for you to respect your religion (she was half christian/ half muslim) i was muslim so i pushed her to muslim beliefs and she wanted it as well. but again its your choice at the end. "


at the end she didnt wear it. main point? i dont tell them or make them or choose for them what they can do i always tell them. it is your choice! but they get a strong signal on my beliefs and what i think and if they want to misrule it then so be it but then at the end it is my choice either to show my disapproval or last resort, break up with them. they know if i love them they would want be a daredevil crap and ruin something great.


offcourse lol i am NOT like this in every situation. i let her have every freedom otherwise but when it comes to something religion wise or something critical, i put my 2cents in for sure. otherwise im behind her back every bit.
 

desiplaya4life

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Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Originally posted by: simms
Her body, her choice.

And you should change your poll.. she should lose you instead.

:thumbsup:

What does her being on prescriptions have to do with anything? I'm on tons of prescriptions and I'm not quite sure what it has to do with her being bad or something. :confused:

Also, I have three tattoos. I'm a Christian - not practicing at the moment - and I don't think God is going to not love me because of my tats. Oh, and I plan to get more. My fiance doesn't have any, but he has no problem with mine.


no no no


god will just send you to hell. he clearly stated his rules in the book if you dont follow them you think he wants pity? lol in this people alot of people live in denial when it comes to religion and my friend? you and i are one of them!
 

Duddy

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The point of the thread was not religion. It was my up bringing. You try having a sick uncle try to drown you while your mother is gone. All I could see is his tattoo covered arm.

And this is only one example of a large list.
 

deepred98

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Originally posted by: Duddy
The point of the thread was not religion. It was my up bringing. You try having a sick uncle try to drown you while your mother is gone. All I could see is his tattoo covered arm.

And this is only one example of a large list.

wow wtf... :Q

talk about scarred for life
 

Miramonti

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Originally posted by: Duddy
The point of the thread was not religion. It was my up bringing. You try having a sick uncle try to drown you while your mother is gone. All I could see is his tattoo covered arm.

And this is only one example of a large list.

Its not about you, its about her.
 

Tsuwamono

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dude, if your debating it.. you should break up with her. its not going to last man. And btw.. i dont like tattoos either but my girlfriend has 12 piercings and 2 tattoos. just depends on what the tattoo says.. like my girlfriends are an A on her wrist "Anastasia" is her name thats why. and a star on the back of her neck which she feels guilds her.(i dunno man dont ask)


if it was something like a sleve of the devil or something i would probably back away slowly then run for my life to the airport and get out of the country.
 

newParadigm

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Originally posted by: altonb1
Originally posted by: Duddy
We have been together over a year and a half now.

I already told her that I completely disapprove of them and that I never wanted her to get one. She promised me a year ago that she never would.

Now she says she wants a tattoo to show off to people. I asked her why. She says because she can and she will no mater what I say.

I guess she wants attention. When we love each other, we LOVE each other. But at the same time, we argue 80% of the time. I'm always in a good mood, but she knows how to change that in an instant. So that would be another reason to lose her.



Also, she looks exactly like her mom when she was her age. Not good news.


It's raining pretty hard here........ Seems fitting.



I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rules.





Thanks,
Dustin


Anyone else thinking he'll come home and find a bunny boiling in a pot in the kitchen?!?

Nah bro, in the fryin pan, fried rabbit is gooood eatin
 

0roo0roo

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female skin looks perfecly fine without tatoos defacing it. i don't find the faded green/black coloring of tatoo ink attractive at all
 

Compton

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Originally posted by: altonb1
Originally posted by: Duddy
We have been together over a year and a half now.

I already told her that I completely disapprove of them and that I never wanted her to get one. She promised me a year ago that she never would.

Now she says she wants a tattoo to show off to people. I asked her why. She says because she can and she will no mater what I say.

I guess she wants attention. When we love each other, we LOVE each other. But at the same time, we argue 80% of the time. I'm always in a good mood, but she knows how to change that in an instant. So that would be another reason to lose her.



Also, she looks exactly like her mom when she was her age. Not good news.


It's raining pretty hard here........ Seems fitting.



I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rules.





Thanks,
Dustin


Anyone else thinking he'll come home and find a bunny boiling in a pot in the kitchen?!?

A bunny with two pancakes on its head.
 

RichardE

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I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rule

You are a controlling asshole.
 
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Originally posted by: Compton
Originally posted by: altonb1
Originally posted by: Duddy
We have been together over a year and a half now.

I already told her that I completely disapprove of them and that I never wanted her to get one. She promised me a year ago that she never would.

Now she says she wants a tattoo to show off to people. I asked her why. She says because she can and she will no mater what I say.

I guess she wants attention. When we love each other, we LOVE each other. But at the same time, we argue 80% of the time. I'm always in a good mood, but she knows how to change that in an instant. So that would be another reason to lose her.



Also, she looks exactly like her mom when she was her age. Not good news.


It's raining pretty hard here........ Seems fitting.



I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rules.





Thanks,
Dustin


Anyone else thinking he'll come home and find a bunny boiling in a pot in the kitchen?!?

A bunny with two pancakes on its head.

Or maybe she'll bring home a "bunny" from the bikini contest. ;)
 

xSauronx

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Originally posted by: RichardE
I'm staying with her. I love her way too much to just simply let her go. I told her that she could do whatever she wants, as long as he talks to me about it. I told her she could get the tattoo.

She started crying and she said, "I don't want a tattoo! I just wanted the freedom to know that I could get one!"


Sooo, this was some sort of test? She was raised in a very strict family. Maybe she just wants freedom from rule

You are a controlling asshole.
i still wonder if he actually has a girlfriend and may just be making this all up for attention
 

ohtwell

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You've started two threads recently, that I've seen, commenting about something stupid that your gf has done. Maybe it's time to lose her or tell her to quit being so freakin' immature!!


: ) Amanda
 

RichardE

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Originally posted by: ohtwell
You've started two threads recently, that I've seen, commenting about something stupid that your gf has done. Maybe it's time to lose her or tell her to quit being so freakin' immature!!


: ) Amanda

I don't think its the gf being immature :p
 

ohtwell

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Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: ohtwell
You've started two threads recently, that I've seen, commenting about something stupid that your gf has done. Maybe it's time to lose her or tell her to quit being so freakin' immature!!


: ) Amanda

I don't think its the gf being immature :p
You're right! Post edited! :)


: ) Amanda
 

Compton

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You have a problem OP. If you told her that you love her too much to let her go, she now knows that she can walk all over you.

Good luck, you'll need it.