My girlfriend called it quits last night....

[Kibbo]

Dude,

Do not be that guy who insists on asking all sorts of probing questions about "why?" I've been there, either they lie to you and you end up hating them, or they tell you the truth and you end up hating yourself. You know what went on in the relationship, you can figure it out. You don't need her for that. The minutiae you don't know about is irrelevant.

Take two mickies of whiskey and call me in the morning. Jamesons's has a nice melancholy taste to it. Enjoy.

 

[lepper boy]

Been there.. Only it was the night before finals week.. I attribute my low gpa that semester to her wonderful timing...

but on a side note, 5 years later I Did marry her

 

[tk149]

Originally posted by: TheShiz
there most likely is someone else.

just say no

New sig material!

 

[Slimline]

*****Update*****

Well I finally got a call from her, and things are looking better. She said she still loves me and wants to get back together. SHe just wants a little more time. We talked for a little over an hour, and have ironed a lot out. She doesnt want to see me in person yet though because she will find it to hard. It doesnt matter, I feel so much better. Also, ipping the scales at 195 today, thats an 8 pound loss in under 4 days. Unhealthy? yes. Excellent? Damn right. It took a month of dieting for me to lose that before, so it is reassuring.

I just want to throw out thanks to all those who gave positive feedback. I appreciate all of your help. It helped me through a difficult time.

 

[Tremulant]

Originally posted by: silverpig
DO HER MOM!!!

ROFL. I'm surprised it took that long.

Anyways..

I'd say to just sever all ties with her. Being friends with someone you love is just a PITA cause your feelings aren't reciprocated. I went through something like this a few years ago and we "stayed friends" for a bit (and it sucked) but then I met someone else and it took my mind off of her. I haven't seen or spoken to her in about 5 years and I have no desire to.

I'd suggest to just follow the advice given by others and move on. It'll be hard, but you can do it.

 

[bleeb]

Sounds like this is your first love...

My advice... wallow in the pain, the suffering and really experience the experience. Listen to some break up tunes or chat.... best way is to talk to someone... but someone who will listen.

You will be ship shape in a few weeks!

 

[Hav0k99]

Well I hope you can seriously work things out or getting back together will be the worst.