Met a guy UPDATE Again

[slackerinabox]

Well, a couple of things could have happened here. Maybe he's just a wuss, he was attracted to you but couldn't take the next step and expected you to. Or maybe he sobered up and realized that you're not his type? Or maybe he's just a pr*ck? Don't over think it, just move on to the next guy!

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: gigapet
how did the two of you meet?

Online of course.

did you swap pics and talk on the phone at all before hand?

Yep, and emails. he seems nice, just disinterested and not attracted to me at all, which is fine.

Ummm.....Im not going to pretend im a master of yoru type of relationship but....

1) he would not have invited you over if he was not attracted in the first place

2) maybe he's the submissive one and you were supposed to be the aggressor

Well I am not going to attempt to get any closer to someone who shows signs that they might be uncomfortable with that type of attempt.
Most guys, and girls, will at least flirt if they find whomever is there is attractive.

Not if they are really shy. It sounds to me like that was the case. There is an easy way to find out....send an email and invite him over your place. If he accepts he was just shy, if he doesnt answer or makes an excuse or flakes out he's not interested. End of story.

I agree with gigapet on this one...sounds like this guy has something going on in his head that doesn't have much to do with you. Don't take it personally. See how he responds to an invitation before you sign off.

 

[AdamSnow]

Originally posted by: Pablo

Originally posted by: ScottSwingleComputers
Pics? You can come over to my place and I wont ignore you.

And you are number 5.

I'm guessing he didnt realize the OP is gay.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: gigapet
how did the two of you meet?

Online of course.

did you swap pics and talk on the phone at all before hand?

Yep, and emails. he seems nice, just disinterested and not attracted to me at all, which is fine.

Ummm.....Im not going to pretend im a master of yoru type of relationship but....

1) he would not have invited you over if he was not attracted in the first place

2) maybe he's the submissive one and you were supposed to be the aggressor

Well I am not going to attempt to get any closer to someone who shows signs that they might be uncomfortable with that type of attempt.
Most guys, and girls, will at least flirt if they find whomever is there is attractive.

Not if they are really shy. It sounds to me like that was the case. There is an easy way to find out....send an email and invite him over your place. If he accepts he was just shy, if he doesnt answer or makes an excuse or flakes out he's not interested. End of story.

I agree with gigapet on this one...sounds like this guy has something going on in his head that doesn't have much to do with you. Don't take it personally. See how he responds to an invitation before you sign off.

We'll see. I will ask him out to dinner or something for Friday or Saturday.

 

[SagaLore]

Did he know you were a guy?

 

[JulesMaximus]

Whip it out next time? :laugh:

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Whip it out next time? :laugh:

That would have at least have gotten a laugh out of him. Even if at my expense...lol.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: SagaLore
Did he know you were a guy?

Yes, he does not frequent the ATOT forums.

 

[KoolDrew]

Originally posted by: Vinfinite
Try a girl instead then =p

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Pics!

edit: NO PICS!!!

 

[Ryan]

Honestly - if I guy treated me like that the first time we hung out - that'd be about as far as I'd go with him....

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Pics!

Of what lol

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Pics!

Of what lol

You know.... More pics of....
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Pinky the Prophet!

 

[Jeff7181]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: casper114

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: casper114

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Well....er....uh .... I guess he's not worth your time??? Not to used to dude on dude relationship conversations

Who knows. Everyone tells me to get over it. That I am cute, and that I should talk to more guys. So I did.

Well if it was me.. (with a woman) and she didn't pay attention to me I would keep drawing cards untill I got the right hand.... I know there is a guy who works across the hall from me... He went to school has a great job, and I don't think he has any trouble finding dates..... You have to like yourself before anyone else will like you, so I guess work on you before you work on anyone else liking you.... hope this helps.

I tried to be good company.
He said he had a 98 Mustang, and so I asked him about his car and car related things. He didn't even know if it was a v6 or a gt.
Then I saw some art on his wall, Van Gogh, and I asked him about it and art in general, and he said, "Van Who?" He just thought they were pretty.
Then we were talking about movies, and I asked him about a few he might like and he didnt know what I was talking about.
Then we got to talking about gay right, and a GLBT club at the school here, and I knew more about it than he did, and I am not enrolled.

I tried to find a major area of interest for him, but I kept hitting dead ends.

He sounds pretty dull... NEXT!

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Pics!

Of what lol

Read my edit!
No pics whatsover or anything that might have happened!!

Didn't know this was Gayor.

 

[sonz70]

Try another date, in a more public setting this time? see how that goes?

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Ryan

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Pics!

Of what lol

You know.... More pics of....
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
..
.

.
..
Pinky the Prophet!

http://www.liberatedfetus.com/images/pinky.JPG
http://www.liberatedfetus.com/images/scary.jpg

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Ryan

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Pics!

Of what lol

You know.... More pics of....
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
..
.

.
..
Pinky the Prophet!

http://www.liberatedfetus.com/images/pinky.JPG
http://www.liberatedfetus.com/images/scary.jpg

Hah His gums are white too That's so odd - yet so cool

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Ryan

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Ryan

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Pics!

Of what lol

You know.... More pics of....
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
..
.

.
..
Pinky the Prophet!

http://www.liberatedfetus.com/images/pinky.JPG
http://www.liberatedfetus.com/images/scary.jpg

Hah His gums are white too That's so odd - yet so cool

He was singing "Proud Mary" in that picture.

 

[bleeb]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

Did the other guy know you are gay? maybe he thought you were a girl?

 

[BSEagle1]

Originally posted by: ATLien247
I thought with man-on-man it's like, hey, wanna fvck? And then you have a couple of beers afterwards and/or just leave. What's with all the trying to have a conversation and stuff?

I'm in the same boat as him. Maybe it's bigotish of me, but I sorta thought gay folks just got down with it...
so to speak

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Ryan
Hah His gums are white too That's so odd - yet so cool

He was singing "Proud Mary" in that picture.

Is that really your cat?

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: BSEagle1

Originally posted by: ATLien247
I thought with man-on-man it's like, hey, wanna fvck? And then you have a couple of beers afterwards and/or just leave. What's with all the trying to have a conversation and stuff?

I'm in the same boat as him. Maybe it's bigotish of me, but I sorta thought gay folks just got down with it...
so to speak

lol - not the majority of them

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
And nothing happened. He didn't even seem too interested in talking to me, even though he asked me to come over. Just text messaged some friends, and sat way on the other end of the couch. And when it was time for me to leave (around 11), he didn't even get up. I just said I should probably be going, and he didn't seem to care.
Nor did he offer to walk me to my car since there was a gang of about 15 black dudes fighting about something outside the apartment.
Am I that repulsive? That's what I get for venturing outside my apartment.
Oh well.

that guy sounds WEIRD!

 

[Pepsei]

there are other sausages in the sea. so don't worry about it.

what's with the 15 black guys outside playing GTA:San Andreas?