maybe I should watch my mouth?

[Xavier434]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: sirjonk

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: gorcorps
So I was walking to cold stone with my friends and on the way there we notice this car parked waiting for somebody. There are plenty of parking spots not 10 feet away but this guy decided to sit there. He was backing up traffic so people started to honk which he ignored. One of my friends as we were walking past said 'why don't you try moving the fucking car?' To which the guy said 'you got something to say bitch? blah blah blah...' At that point I turned around and yelled 'Hey man we can't understand you. We don't speak JEW!'

Yes it was childish but that's what came out of my mouth. So my friends and I wait in line and eat in-store, and we notice this guy is still outside in his car. We figure he was waiting for somebody else. We were there for at least an hour and he didn't move. So we walk out of the store and we here from the guy's car "hey lovely human wanna talk shit?!?! Say it to my face!" Yeah, he waited an hour and that's what he came up with.

Well, we leave and then notice the guy is haulin ass to try and follow us. We basically made a giant loop around the block to screw with the guy and when we got back to cold stone he broke of in another direction. I'm actually a little disappointed he didn't follow further as the next stop was some round-a-bouts that we were gonna just go round in till we were technically following HIM and tail HIS ass when he broke off for a while. But apparently he got bored.

cliffs:
-guy's a douche and blocks traffic
-i crack a jew joke towards him
-he waits an hour outside to call us 'faggots' when we leave
-follows us for a block until he gets bored and leaves

whoa whoa whoa...hold on a second.

are you, or are you not Gay? that is important to know in this story

Gay gets capitalized now? This thread just keeps giving

Dude! welcome to the 2008!

also, did you know we have to capitalize God, and even "Him" when we refer to God, or his son, jesus?

 

[waggy]

my god i actually agree with icebergslim.

if you are going to call someone names you damn well better back it up. But better yet just don't call people such names. i have no trouble calling somone a idiot or basterd whatever. BUT racist, antisemitic remars are way out of line.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

Your justification is just a thinly veiled cop out. i'm not buying it.

 

[Atomic Playboy]

Originally posted by: zinfamous
also, did you know we have to capitalize God, and even "Him" when we refer to God, or his son, jesus?

You didn't capitalize Jesus. You're going to Hell. Why isn't Capitalize capitalized? Why isn't abbreviation spelled abbr? Why does irregardless get to be a word but irreprehensible doesn't? Language is so preposterous...

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

Your justification is just a thinly veiled cop out. i'm not buying it.

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[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

Your justification is just a thinly veiled cop out. i'm not buying it.

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I can use an extreme what if scenario to justify not taking responsiblity for anything in life. HOw bout that?

 

[manowar821]

Originally posted by: Atomic Playboy

Originally posted by: zinfamous
also, did you know we have to capitalize God, and even "Him" when we refer to God, or his son, jesus?

You didn't capitalize Jesus. You're going to Hell. Why isn't Capitalize capitalized? Why isn't abbreviation spelled abbr? Why does irregardless get to be a word but irreprehensible doesn't? Language is so preposterous...

Capitalization of the words "god", "jesus", and "him" are out of respect for the subject. It's not improper to spell them with lower case letters, even if you're talking about THE specific "god".

 

[Xavier434]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

Your justification is just a thinly veiled cop out. i'm not buying it.

Again, tell that to those who followed your advise but got their asses kicked anyways. It is not an extreme scenario. Being a bouncer, I would expect you to already understand that.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

Your justification is just a thinly veiled cop out. i'm not buying it.

Again, tell that to those who followed your advise but got their asses kicked anyways. Being a bouncer, I would expect you to already understand that.

I can use an extreme what if scenario to justify not taking responsiblity for anything in life. HOw bout that?

 

[mugs]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

actually IBS if you were truly being a man you would just let it go and move on with your life if someone mouthed off to you

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

actually IBS if you were truly being a man you would just let it go and move on with your life if someone mouthed off to you

I was never defending the other guy....my comments have always been about the OP.... so....what the fuck are you talking about.

 

[Jschmuck2]

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

actually IBS if you were truly being a man you would just let it go and move on with your life if someone mouthed off to you

Clearly real men "throw down" when someone "mouths off" to them. Particularly "punk bitches."

Ahahahahahahhahah this thread is great!

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Jschmuck2

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

actually IBS if you were truly being a man you would just let it go and move on with your life if someone mouthed off to you

Clearly real men "throw down" when someone "mouths off" to them. Particularly "punk bitches."

Ahahahahahahhahah this thread is great!

Provide Quotes where this was said or STFU.

 

[jonks]

You fools have no idea what you are talking about

Real Men

 

[Xavier434]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

Your justification is just a thinly veiled cop out. i'm not buying it.

Again, tell that to those who followed your advise but got their asses kicked anyways. Being a bouncer, I would expect you to already understand that.

I can use an extreme what if scenario to justify not taking responsiblity for anything in life. HOw bout that?

You can take responsibility in these situations without taking risks. Since the past cannot be undone, your primary responsibility after making this sort of mistake is to learn from it and not let it happen again. Don't get me wrong. Apologies are a fine thing and I agree that they are a sign of being a respectful individual.

Unfortunately, there are some really horrible people out there who will react exactly how I describe given right scenario. These people view the whole "be a man" thing similarly to you except they take it further. They believe that in order to "man it up" they need to defend their pride by getting into a fight if they choose to call out someone in response to shit talking despite whether that shit talker apologizes or not. I've seen this sort of scenario happen many times in the past (south florida doesn't exactly consist of the most peaceful people). Apologizing out of hope that you will gain a little more respect from strangers when your better judgment tells you he is likely to be one of those crazies is just not worth the risk.

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

actually IBS if you were truly being a man you would just let it go and move on with your life if someone mouthed off to you

I was never defending the other guy....my comments have always been about the OP.... so....what the fuck are you talking about.

all your comments basicially make you out to be the same as the other guy, if this happened to you it would seem you would have reacted similar, and either physicially confronted him if he said something back to you or done nothing if he ignored you and go on thinking about how he was not a "real man" instead of just letting the whole thing go

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

What risk here. The risk to my ego for apologizing? The greater risk was saying it to begin with not apologizing.

As I stated earlier, after the shit talk has already taken place all it takes for some people is for you to say just one more thing (no matter what it is) or come within a proximity of them in order for the fight to break out. This is due to the rage having already taken over one's judgment. Toss that fact in with the possibility of weapons and now the risk you are taking is your life. It's best to just eat your words and walk away sometimes.

and ya, the greater risk is most certainly the initial trash talking. No dispute there.

Your justification is just a thinly veiled cop out. i'm not buying it.

Again, tell that to those who followed your advise but got their asses kicked anyways. Being a bouncer, I would expect you to already understand that.

I can use an extreme what if scenario to justify not taking responsiblity for anything in life. HOw bout that?

You can take responsibility in these situations without taking risks. Since the past cannot be undone, your primary responsibility after making this sort of mistake is to learn from it and not let it happen again. Don't get me wrong. Apologies are a fine thing and I agree that they are a sign of being a respectful individual.

Unfortunately, there are some really horrible people out there who will react exactly how I describe given right scenario. These people view the whole "be a man" thing similarly to you except they take it further. They believe that in order to "man it up" they need to defend their pride by getting into a fight if they choose to call out someone in response to shit talking despite whether that shit talker apologizes or not. I've seen this sort of scenario happen many times in the past (south florida doesn't exactly consist of the most peaceful people). Apologizing out of hope that you will gain a little more respect from strangers when your better judgment tells you he is likely to be one of those crazies is just not worth the risk.

THEN STFU in the first place. Back to the original sentiment. Jesus. You can't just run around doing whatever you want to do without consequences. If you get your ass beat then next time you really will remember to STFU. I can guarantee the OP has never had any real consequences before or he wouldn't have done this. He won't learn from this either I'm sure of it.

 

[lokiju]

Man this place sucks sometimes.

Everyone is so hypersensitive all the time.

 

[Jschmuck2]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Jschmuck2

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

actually IBS if you were truly being a man you would just let it go and move on with your life if someone mouthed off to you

Clearly real men "throw down" when someone "mouths off" to them. Particularly "punk bitches."

Ahahahahahahhahah this thread is great!

Provide Quotes where this was said or STFU.

Or what? You'll beat me up? :laugh:

 

[waggy]

while yes you should be able to back up whatever you say. Also be man enough to aplologize when needed. A real man also knows when to let it go.

 

[jonks]

Real men do not get into fist fights after the age of 15 or so. Little boys in men's bodies do.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

There were two ways I see a man resolving this issue....1) Stepping up when he was called out 2) Swallowing your pride, admitting your wrong and appologize

A man is responsible for his words and actions.

So wait... if I say something that someone else doesn't like, I have to either beat them up or retract my statement? And if I don't, I didn't handle the situation in a manly way?

The guy said if you have anything to say say to my face. Op said nothing. He punked out. He isn't a man. get it?

OK, so you grew up in the ghetto, right? Do you know why most people who grow up in the ghetto never leave the ghetto? Because their ghetto attitudes hold them back.

:roll:

Being a man = taking responsiblity for your actions and words. This transcends race, socio-economic class, culture and time.

actually IBS if you were truly being a man you would just let it go and move on with your life if someone mouthed off to you

I was never defending the other guy....my comments have always been about the OP.... so....what the fuck are you talking about.

all your comments basicially make you out to be the same as the other guy, if this happened to you it would seem you would have reacted similar, and either physicially confronted him if he said something back to you or done nothing if he ignored you and go on thinking about how he was not a "real man" instead of just letting the whole thing go

This isn't the speculate what IBS would do thread. You can start a new one for that.