Man is CHEATING Again

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: Riba
Jerry Jerry Jerry!

first thing that came to my mind...

 

[phreakah]

Originally posted by: LordThing

Originally posted by: Riba
Jerry Jerry Jerry!

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: PlatinumGold

Originally posted by: CPA

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
All men cheat, it's in their nature.

I don't, not that I haven't thought about it, but I don't and wouldn't act on it.

i don't cheat. and won't but i also won't deny it's in my nature.

it is in the nature of men to propagate their seed at will.

it's social restraints and our will power that prevents us from doing so.

Very true. Men are pigs, very much so.

...

Here's to that! :beer:😀:beer:

- M4H

 

[Amused]

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!

Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.

No its not. From way the story reads the mistress knew he was married. She called and hung up when the wife answered the phone. SHE is just as guilty as he is.

No, she's not. She did not tie him down and force him to have an affair. She is not his, or his wife's keeper. If it wasn't this girl, it would just be another girl. It is HIS fault he cannot be faithful, not the other woman's fault.

Bullsh*t. she tried to hide it from dudes wife just as much as he did. She fully knew he was married and continued to have an affair with him. If she did not know he was married then yes all the blame is on him. But she knew, she tired to hide it from her, she called him and paged him. She is equally guilty of being a homewrecker as he is.

So what if it was another woman besides this one. If it was another woman and she she let him pork her knowing he is married she commited adultry just as much as he did.

There couldn't BE a "homewrecker" if the married person didn't stray. The only "homewrecker" here is him.

The fact of the matter is, there will ALWAYS be someone out there willing to sleep with your spouse. You need to be sure your spouse wont take them up on it. If you waste your time, energy and moral outrage fighting everyone and anyone who is willing to sleep with your spouse, you're going to lose.

 

[RossMAN]

Men are pigs.

 

[Angrymarshmello]

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!

Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.

No its not. From way the story reads the mistress knew he was married. She called and hung up when the wife answered the phone. SHE is just as guilty as he is.

No, she's not. She did not tie him down and force him to have an affair. She is not his, or his wife's keeper. If it wasn't this girl, it would just be another girl. It is HIS fault he cannot be faithful, not the other woman's fault.

Bullsh*t. she tried to hide it from dudes wife just as much as he did. She fully knew he was married and continued to have an affair with him. If she did not know he was married then yes all the blame is on him. But she knew, she tired to hide it from her, she called him and paged him. She is equally guilty of being a homewrecker as he is.

So what if it was another woman besides this one. If it was another woman and she she let him pork her knowing he is married she commited adultry just as much as he did.

There couldn't BE a "homewrecker" if the married person didn't stray. The only "homewrecker" here is him.

The fact of the matter is, there will ALWAYS be someone out there willing to sleep with your spouse. You need to be sure your spouse wont take them up on it. If you waste your time, energy and moral outrage fighting everyone and anyone who is willing to sleep with your spouse, you're going to lose.

Just because there's always someone who would sleep with your spouse doesn't make her innocent of being a homewrecker. She became one the minute she said "yes let's sleep together". True, the guy shouldn't have strayed and yes, most of the blame falls on him, but to say that it's all his fault and none of her fault is crap.

 

[Bulk Beef]

The fact of the matter is, there will ALWAYS be someone out there willing to sleep with your spouse.

While I agree that the primary fault lies with the dickhead of a husband, saying "if I don't do it, someone else will" doesn't absolve the "other woman".

 

[StageLeft]

What a mess. Cheating once is bad. Cheating twice - it's part of his character; it's inexusible at that point and she needs to can the relationship now.

I think it's at the very least high 90's % fault the hubby as opposed to anything wrong with this other woman.

 

[Vic]

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Let me guess: your house is on wheels and your car is on blocks in front of it?

If your house has wheels and your car don't.... you might be a redneck! 😀

And what is this with man cheating again? All of a sudden women don't cheat?

 

[PlatinumGold]

Originally posted by: sward666

The fact of the matter is, there will ALWAYS be someone out there willing to sleep with your spouse.

While I agree that the primary fault lies with the dickhead of a husband, saying "if I don't do it, someone else will" doesn't absolve the "other woman".

absolve her? what did she do wrong??

who cares if someone else will or not, that IRRELEVANT, she has made no commitments to the wife. it's ALL the husbands fault.

 

[imported_Papi]

back in the day, people had their way with each other and that was that!

Then civilization came along.

 

[Bulk Beef]

what did she do wrong??

She slept with a married man. That's wrong in my book.

 

[AreaCode707]

EDITED UNDERSTANDABLE VERSION:

Originally posted by: FettsBabe
Ok, I have a very good friend who is my age (29). She is married and has two wonderful children. Recently, she discovered that her hubby (for approximately 11-12 years) has been cheating. She caught him and basically gave him hell for the longest time.

She thought everything had gotten better again, but the other day he had called the "other woman", and didn't cover his tracks. The dumbass left the Automatic Redialer On and left the house. I guess maybe he accidentially pressed the Automatic Redial button or something. Anyway, my friend answered the phone and the other woman was on the other line (it rings in both places once the line isn't busy anymore. Anyway, she (other woman or wife?) knew who it was and hung up. Then my friend pressed redial and it rang a "time and temperature" number. In other words her husband tried to cover his tracks, but failed miserably.

My friend didn't say anything. Then the other morning she checked his pager and the other woman's number was on there! The sh!t hit the fan! My friend told him she wanted to go to where he worked and talk to him so the kids wouldn't be around. She did and the conversation escalated to a great height.

My friend then goes to the mistress' place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back! My friend's hubby showed up (he knew where she went) and she told him, "I need you to tell me the truth...do you love her!?" Anyway, my friend said, "did you tell her you put my wedding ring back on my finger the other day before you called her????" Yeah, do you see where I"m going? He was in deep DOODOO!!!!! Oh and my friend had a few drinks so she had a very loose tongue!

She bailed out of there and went to his brother's. My friend's hubby showed up and took her keys because she had been drinking. She got in his face and he pulled back like he was going to hit her...GUESS WHAT? His brother beat the crap out of him for doing that...it's not like he didn't deserve it!!

Anyway, my friend threw his keys in the woods, so he couldn't find them. He called his Mom and she wouldn't come get him nor would his Father. No one in his family would get him! He finally called someone in his wife's family and they came and got him (they didn't know what happened, but I bet they do now).

I hate to see her so upset.

I hope she sees the light and realizes that she is too good for him.

There, I just had to fix all that and make it somewhat understandable. Odd compulsion.

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: Amused

She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!

Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.

If she didnt know, then she is innocent. If she did, well, thats another story

 

[nan0bug]

Originally posted by: yayo
back in the day, people had their way with each other and that was that!

Then civilization came along.

😀:beer:

 

[Amused]

Originally posted by: Angrymarshmello

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!

Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.

No its not. From way the story reads the mistress knew he was married. She called and hung up when the wife answered the phone. SHE is just as guilty as he is.

No, she's not. She did not tie him down and force him to have an affair. She is not his, or his wife's keeper. If it wasn't this girl, it would just be another girl. It is HIS fault he cannot be faithful, not the other woman's fault.

Bullsh*t. she tried to hide it from dudes wife just as much as he did. She fully knew he was married and continued to have an affair with him. If she did not know he was married then yes all the blame is on him. But she knew, she tired to hide it from her, she called him and paged him. She is equally guilty of being a homewrecker as he is.

So what if it was another woman besides this one. If it was another woman and she she let him pork her knowing he is married she commited adultry just as much as he did.

There couldn't BE a "homewrecker" if the married person didn't stray. The only "homewrecker" here is him.

The fact of the matter is, there will ALWAYS be someone out there willing to sleep with your spouse. You need to be sure your spouse wont take them up on it. If you waste your time, energy and moral outrage fighting everyone and anyone who is willing to sleep with your spouse, you're going to lose.

Just because there's always someone who would sleep with your spouse doesn't make her innocent of being a homewrecker. She became one the minute she said "yes let's sleep together". True, the guy shouldn't have strayed and yes, most of the blame falls on him, but to say that it's all his fault and none of her fault is crap.

She cannot be a "homewrecker" because it was not she who wrecked a home.

Blaming her accomplishes nothing, and only serves to remove some amount of blame, no matter how small, from her husband.

She had no contract, spoken or written with the wife. He did. This is his fault. Blaming her is like blaming drugs for a person's addiction, or blaming guns for violence. It's an ignorant knee-jerk reaction that solves nothing.

Sure, she's a slut with low morals. But it is ALL HIS FAULT that the wife was cheated on.

 

[Azraele]

Sad situation. 🙁

 

[PlatinumGold]

Originally posted by: Amused
She cannot be a "homewrecker" because it was not she who wrecked a home.

Blaming her accomplishes nothing, and only serves to remove some amount of balme, no matter how small, from her husband.

She had no contract, spoken or written with the wife. He did. This is his fault. Blaming her is like blaming drugs for a person's addiction, or blaming guns for violence. It's an ignornat knee-jerk reaction that solves nothing.

Sure, she's a slut with low morals. But it is ALL HIS FAULT that the wife was cheated on.

part of the problem here is that some people believe that spouses "BELONG" to one another.

the other part is some of us have weird sense of morality.

bottom line, blaming the woman, as amused just said, really shifts blame away from the husband and that's just plain stupid.

also, the woman in this story also probably feels that she "OWNS" her husband and therefore the other woman is trying to "STEAL" him. her belief should not be given ANY credence.

husbands and wifes should stay together of their FREE WILL. and they should make an attempt to constantly make that staying together worthwhile.

once you get started in the vein of thinking of taking your spouse for granted, you are setting yourself up to be cheated on.

 

[MaxDepth]

to hotchic
I think the line "she discovered that her hubby (for approximately 11-12 years) has been cheating," to read, "she discovered her hubby of 11-12 years has been cheating recently."

When I first read it , I thought he had been cheating on her for 11-12 years.

 

[DurocShark]

Originally posted by: Vic

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Let me guess: your house is on wheels and your car is on blocks in front of it?

If your house has wheels and your car don't.... you might be a redneck! 😀

And what is this with man cheating again? All of a sudden women don't cheat?

I can confirm they DO! 🙁

 

[911paramedic]

I remember that episode of COPS.

 

[StormRider]

You're so pretty when you're drunk and incoherent. :heart:

Originally posted by: FettsBabe
Ok, I have a very good friend who is my age (29). She is married and has two wonderful children. Recently, she discovered that her hubby (for approximately 11-12 years) has been cheating. She caught him and bascially gave him hell for the longest time. She thought everything had gotten better again, but the other day he had called her, and didn't cover his tracks. The dumbass left the Automatic Redialer On and left the house. I guess maybe he accidentially pressed the button or something. Anyway, she answered the phone and the girl was on the other line (it rings in both places once the line isn't busy anymore. Anyway, she knew who it was and hung up. Then she pressed redial and it rang a "time and temperature" number. In other words he tried to cover his tracks, but failed miserably.

She didn't say anything. Then the other morning she checked his pager and her number was on there! The sh!t hit the fan! She told him she wanted to go to where he worked and talk to him so the kids wouldn't be around. She did and the conversation escalated to a great height.

She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back! Her hubby showed up (he knew where she went) and she told him that he needed to tell her the truth...do you love her! Anyway, she said did you tell her you put my wedding ring back on my finger the other day before you called her???? Yeah, do you see where I"m going? He was in deep DOODOO!!!!! Oh and she had a few drinks so she had a very loose tongue!

She bailed out of there and went to his brothers. Her hubby showed up and took her keys because she had been drinking. She got in his face and he pulled back like he was going to hit her...GUESS WHAT? Is brother beat the crap out of him for doing that...its not like he didn't deserve it!!

Anyway, she threw his keys in the woods, so he couldn't find them. He called his Mom and she wouldn't come get him nor would his Father. No one in his family would get him! He finally called someone in his wifes family and they came and got him (they didn't know what happened, but I bet they do now).

I hate to see her so upset.

I hope she sees the light and realizes that she is too good for him.

 

[tm37]

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Angrymarshmello

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: Amused

She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!

Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.

No its not. From way the story reads the mistress knew he was married. She called and hung up when the wife answered the phone. SHE is just as guilty as he is.

No, she's not. She did not tie him down and force him to have an affair. She is not his, or his wife's keeper. If it wasn't this girl, it would just be another girl. It is HIS fault he cannot be faithful, not the other woman's fault.

Bullsh*t. she tried to hide it from dudes wife just as much as he did. She fully knew he was married and continued to have an affair with him. If she did not know he was married then yes all the blame is on him. But she knew, she tired to hide it from her, she called him and paged him. She is equally guilty of being a homewrecker as he is.

So what if it was another woman besides this one. If it was another woman and she she let him pork her knowing he is married she commited adultry just as much as he did.

There couldn't BE a "homewrecker" if the married person didn't stray. The only "homewrecker" here is him.

The fact of the matter is, there will ALWAYS be someone out there willing to sleep with your spouse. You need to be sure your spouse wont take them up on it. If you waste your time, energy and moral outrage fighting everyone and anyone who is willing to sleep with your spouse, you're going to lose.

Just because there's always someone who would sleep with your spouse doesn't make her innocent of being a homewrecker. She became one the minute she said "yes let's sleep together". True, the guy shouldn't have strayed and yes, most of the blame falls on him, but to say that it's all his fault and none of her fault is crap.

She cannot be a "homewrecker" because it was not she who wrecked a home.

Blaming her accomplishes nothing, and only serves to remove some amount of blame, no matter how small, from her husband.

She had no contract, spoken or written with the wife. He did. This is his fault. Blaming her is like blaming drugs for a person's addiction, or blaming guns for violence. It's an ignorant knee-jerk reaction that solves nothing.

Sure, she's a slut with low morals. But it is ALL HIS FAULT that the wife was cheated on.

Once again I totally agree with Amused

 

[Adul]

she needs to end it now.

 

[Johnlee]

Give her my number Fetts. 🙂