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Originally posted by: Amused
She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!
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Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.
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Agreed. Blame the husband, not the other woman.

I was in a situation awhile back when I dated a guy who seemed really sweet. Things were getting a little more serious, when someone who claimed to be his girlfriend IM-ed me out of nowhere. She told me she was going to beat the crap out of me, etc. etc... and I didn't even know she existed. The girl blamed me for everything and forgave her boyfriend, when he was the lying, cheating asshat in the first place.

If the woman knew your friend's husband was married and willingly engaged in the affair, she is partly to blame... but the husband is more at fault, as HE is the one who is married. However, if the woman had no idea he had a wife, your friend has no right to do that. Tell her to direct her anger towards her husband, where it belongs.
 
Originally posted by: Hammer
i think she should pee on him and then likewise he should pee on her.
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Your logic astounds me... I mean that's absolutely BRILLIANT!!!







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Originally posted by: ed21x
That's horrible!! But the fact that your friend resorted to doing the deed with her husband's brother is just as bad... has she done it before? Because I really doubt that she picked his brother on a whim....

There's two sides to every story.
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Um, WTF? Are you on crack, or drunk, or do you just suck at reading?

Nowhere in that story does it say she boinked the guy's brother. She went there to vent.

And if she did "do it" and "on a whim" - it's the natural progression. Girl cheats on you, you tap her sister as Vengeance Booty. Guy cheats, she makes his brother into her Pogo stick.

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: Amused
She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!
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Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.
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No its not. From way the story reads the mistress knew he was married. She called and hung up when the wife answered the phone. SHE is just as guilty as he is.
 
Now it's time for her to stop making pointless emotional scenes and instead to sit down and decide what she's going to do about it. Boil it down: Husband cheated and got caught. Supposedly, they patch things up, but then he got caught again communicating with the same other woman. She can: Stay with him and hope he doesn't do it again, stay with him and just deal with it for the sake of the kids, or leave him.
 
What is SO incredibly silly is that people are running around drinking, sleeping around, fighting, and acting like total morons and they have kids. Awesome! Gives me great hope for the world.
 
Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: Amused
She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!
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Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.
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No its not. From way the story reads the mistress knew he was married. She called and hung up when the wife answered the phone. SHE is just as guilty as he is.
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No, she's not. She did not tie him down and force him to have an affair. She is not his, or his wife's keeper. If it wasn't this girl, it would just be another girl. It is HIS fault he cannot be faithful, not the other woman's fault.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Now it's time for her to stop making pointless emotional scenes and instead to sit down and decide what she's going to do about it. Boil it down: Husband cheated and got caught. Supposedly, they patch things up, but then he got caught again communicating with the same other woman. She can: Stay with him and hope he doesn't do it again, stay with him and just deal with it for the sake of the kids, or leave him.
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Exactly... they shouldn't be beating a dead horse with a stick. Movie on.. surely this guy wanted soemthing different. Things have gone array and maybe they can separate as friends and move on. Instead of thinking of themselves.. THINK of the CHILDREN 🙁 They're in the middle of this.
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: ed21x
That's horrible!! But the fact that your friend resorted to doing the deed with her husband's brother is just as bad... has she done it before? Because I really doubt that she picked his brother on a whim....

There's two sides to every story.
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Um, WTF? Are you on crack, or drunk, or do you just suck at reading?

Nowhere in that story does it say she boinked the guy's brother. She went there to vent.

And if she did "do it" and "on a whim" - it's the natural progression. Girl cheats on you, you tap her sister as Vengeance Booty. Guy cheats, she makes his brother into her Pogo stick.

- M4H
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Oh nm, I take it back. Must have slightly misinterpreted my reading
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Sorry that happened to her..cheating is the worst thing you could do to a spouse.

But seriously, can you edit it so it's not "he told her that she and her and it and him and etc.??"

That's the most confusing story ever. USE NAMES DAMMIT, even fake ones.
 
She got married when she was 18? I hate to sound crass here, but did he marry her because he got her pregnant?
That would explain much.
 
Originally posted by: MaxDepth
She got married when she was 18? I hate to sound crass here, but did he marry her because he got her pregnant?
That would explain much.
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Either that or she had a car.

 
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: Amused
She then goes to the mistresses place of work and tells her she had already warned her to stay the (^%^&* away from her man and now she better watch her back!
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Stupid and immature. It's not her fault he's cheating on his wife.

This is such a Jerry Springer trashy reaction. It is 100% her husband's fault.
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No its not. From way the story reads the mistress knew he was married. She called and hung up when the wife answered the phone. SHE is just as guilty as he is.
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No, she's not. She did not tie him down and force him to have an affair. She is not his, or his wife's keeper. If it wasn't this girl, it would just be another girl. It is HIS fault he cannot be faithful, not the other woman's fault.
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Bullsh*t. she tried to hide it from dudes wife just as much as he did. She fully knew he was married and continued to have an affair with him. If she did not know he was married then yes all the blame is on him. But she knew, she tired to hide it from her, she called him and paged him. She is equally guilty of being a homewrecker as he is.

So what if it was another woman besides this one. If it was another woman and she she let him pork her knowing he is married she commited adultry just as much as he did.
 
Originally posted by: ed21x
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: ed21x
That's horrible!! But the fact that your friend resorted to doing the deed with her husband's brother is just as bad... has she done it before? Because I really doubt that she picked his brother on a whim....

There's two sides to every story.
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Um, WTF? Are you on crack, or drunk, or do you just suck at reading?

Nowhere in that story does it say she boinked the guy's brother. She went there to vent.

And if she did "do it" and "on a whim" - it's the natural progression. Girl cheats on you, you tap her sister as Vengeance Booty. Guy cheats, she makes his brother into her Pogo stick.

- M4H
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Oh nm, I take it back. Must have slightly misinterpreted my reading
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0wn3d by Grammär Nazi 😉 😛

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: CPA
Originally posted by: iwearnosox
All men cheat, it's in their nature.
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I don't, not that I haven't thought about it, but I don't and wouldn't act on it.
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i don't cheat. and won't but i also won't deny it's in my nature.

it is in the nature of men to propagate their seed at will.

it's social restraints and our will power that prevents us from doing so.

if i knew that it would ABSOLUTELY NOT HURT MY WIFE and Kids, would i have sex with another woman? of course, but as long as doing so will hurt my wife and kids there is NOT a chance that i would.
 
Originally posted by: amnesiac
Sorry that happened to her..cheating is the worst thing you could do to a spouse.

But seriously, can you edit it so it's not "he told her that she and her and it and him and etc.??"

That's the most confusing story ever. USE NAMES DAMMIT, even fake ones.
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She told the story just like you'd hear it from a woman on the phone.
 
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