So you're angry about having to pay for a necessary medical procedure, and instead of suggesting an alternative to the system we have now, you turn your ire to the people that actually do get care? That seems like a poor way to look at it.
I think he is pissed that he is already paying for other peoples almost free (to them) health care while he follows all the "rules" and gets reamed.
Sorry Texas, I know it sucks but it is what it is. I went through something similar not long ago so I really feel your and your wifes pain (literally).