If one does not make a good faith effort then no understanding or compromise can be reached. We have what we have today.
I understand and agree.
If I had taken the position of "They just want to enslave women" or "They just want to murder babies" I have completely misrepresented both sides and cut off any hope at all for an improvement on the issue. In fact I've done the reverse. Also note that I have not approved of anything. I haven't taken my perspective to be used as a club to beat one side or the other. That does not mean I cannot have strong feelings myself, or must be ambivalent. But it's not about "winning" the argument, because that cannot be done by beating the ideological drum. One can shout all one likes, but if you cannot listen and have others listen then everyone is deaf.
This is where things get dicey,... when we don't peel back and look underneath the textbook responses, we've traditionally veered into the wrong direction.
What was the point of the Vietnam war? Why did we invade Iraq? Is pot really a gate way drug? How did we get to legalizing pot and possibly banning tobacco? Why were we told tobacco smoking is safe in the 50s and now it's a deadly carcinogen?
I am not looking to win anything.
Nonetheless, I will never accept anything at face value. And, I never seek to uncover just anything,.. just what affects me (why am I voting? what are my tax dollar going to? why am I being searched at the airport?).
Frankly, there is no point in "winning", since humanity is lost to begin with. Just when you think you've seen one truly evil person, another one pops up and does something 100 time horrific - and, I'm not just talking about murder, assault, invasions and what not; evil people that make decisions and push decisions that affect thousands, hundreds of thousands for their own personal gain (and my belief) that they seek out and enjoy watching people suffer.
Now, people DO get the benefit of the doubt from me, right off the bat. I don't meet a stranger (or see a person on TV) and start spouting off what I think of them just by looks. Or, even by their first few words,.. as well as actions.
What does result in me deciding what type of person they are, are their actions - or rather their actions followed by their words and words followed by their actions (this is the analysis part, from your creature example), over the course of some time; a month, a year,... a decade, whatever.
And, if their actions contradict their stated beliefs (the textbook response), then, I'll point that out.
Usually, I point that out to their followers (be it Obama's, Bush's, etc.). Followers who take the textbook responses and when said textbook responses are challenged or questioned, its:
- you're lazy
- you're greedy
- you're a racist
- you're a reverse racist
- you're a race baiter
- you're part of the war on women
- you're part of the war on men
- you have white guilt
- you feel entitled
- you are a traitor
- you are a puppet
- you are, etc. etc. etc.
Textbook responses are nothing more than a litmus test to see just how vile and putrid some folks are - a standard, which was set by themselves,... no one else!
Why? Because they are usually wolves in sheeps clothing. They pretend to be good and/or nice, when beneath this cover, they are just plain old evil.
So, just to circle back to your point, I agree, there is no benefit to immediatly jumping to whatever I have observed. And, I totally agree with presenting someone with the textbook/face value of whatever (politics, laws, people, coffee tables, dogs, etc.). But, it is our own personal right and responsibility to look deeper into the whatevers of life and ensure they do not harm us (you, your family, friends, etc.).