And now the "everyone needs to be held to the lowest common denominator" approach? You are validating the OPs contention at least in your case.
Life is not and never will be fair in the sense that we are all equal in fact. You can attempt to legislate away background or biology or differences in individual, that you demand the be identical but it will never be that way. No it's not fair. Someone will be promoted because they are better. Someone will get the scholarship because they worked harder or were smarter. Someone will be better than you. So you are smarter than someone else. Why aren't you suffering for them? Why shouldn't what you have worked towards be taken from you because someone else didn't perform for whatever reason as well as you? That's not fair that you have more than them. You didn't like it that your industry had it's wages limited, did you? Why not? Many haven't nearly as much as you. Stop being selfish. You don't deserve what you have because there's someone who has less. When you are tempted to say "well what about those who got ahead without earning it" stop. That's just been headed off as it's another diversion from the point of THIS topic.
Yeah, right, you are going to divest yourself immediately.
But what you won't apply to yourself but believe others are obliged to hold by still isn't the point, which you are continually trying to get away from. No one is being denied opportunity. Rather they must meet criteria based not on race, which you insist on incorporating, but by some measure of achievement, whether it be by nature or nurture. You don't get to sit in some class and screw off with failing grades to keep some other person out because you have a higher IQ or a particular skin color. Merit. It's not a dirty word. Hard work. It's not something to roll your eyes at. Applied talent isn't shameful, and know what? Not everyone will make it. Why? Life isn't fair, that's why, BUT they certainly ought to have the opportunity to try. That is as right as we can make things. Don't deprive them of it.