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Originally posted by: DAGTA
Are you uncircumsized and the Frenulum tore? I've heard of that happening, but I've never heard of someone requiring surgery for it.

My opinion: you were having sex (having fun) and I doubt she intentionally meant to harm you. It's one of those things in life that just sometimes goes wrong. If she offers to pay for some, take it, but I won't expect it of her.
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YOU GOT IT

Problem was, it healed too tight and now I can't even pull back the foreskin to urinate...or put on a condom.

If I was giving her oral sex and bit off her clitoris, I bet you holy hell she'd sue.
 
Originally posted by: Icanoutsmokeany1
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Are you uncircumsized and the Frenulum tore? I've heard of that happening, but I've never heard of someone requiring surgery for it.

My opinion: you were having sex (having fun) and I doubt she intentionally meant to harm you. It's one of those things in life that just sometimes goes wrong. If she offers to pay for some, take it, but I won't expect it of her.
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YOU GOT IT

Problem was, it healed too tight and now I can't even pull back the foreskin to urinate...or put on a condom.

If I was giving her oral sex and bit off her clitoris, I bet you holy hell she'd sue.
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Would it not stretch gradually over time?

Forgetting about the suing part... I'm thinking that surgery has a good chance of messing you up worse or, at least, causing you to lose a lot of sensitivity.
 
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Icanoutsmokeany1
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Are you uncircumsized and the Frenulum tore? I've heard of that happening, but I've never heard of someone requiring surgery for it.

My opinion: you were having sex (having fun) and I doubt she intentionally meant to harm you. It's one of those things in life that just sometimes goes wrong. If she offers to pay for some, take it, but I won't expect it of her.
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YOU GOT IT

Problem was, it healed too tight and now I can't even pull back the foreskin to urinate...or put on a condom.

If I was giving her oral sex and bit off her clitoris, I bet you holy hell she'd sue.
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Would it not stretch gradually over time?

Forgetting about the suing part... I'm thinking that surgery has a good chance of messing you up worse or, at least, causing you to lose a lot of sensitivity.
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I am considering getting circumsision done. It's too painful to even urinate. I am definitely worried about infection, I can't pull it back to clean in there.

BTW, can I get a beer card?
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
I won't go into details but we were doing our thing, the position was slightly uncomfortable for me but she was clearly enjoying it so I continued. Afterwards I noticed blood in the condom. I was a bit worried but thought I would wait and see until tomorrow. The next morning in the shower I was bleeding from my pee hole...I almost passed the fvck out right there, barely managed to stay on my feet. The bleeding would start again every time I took a leak for that morning.

I made an appointment with the doctor for the next day, but by the time I got there the bleeding had stopped. He just said I probably irritated my urethra and gave me the old finger in the ass just to me safe. 😛
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:shocked:
 
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: PingSpike
I won't go into details but we were doing our thing, the position was slightly uncomfortable for me but she was clearly enjoying it so I continued. Afterwards I noticed blood in the condom. I was a bit worried but thought I would wait and see until tomorrow. The next morning in the shower I was bleeding from my pee hole...I almost passed the fvck out right there, barely managed to stay on my feet. The bleeding would start again every time I took a leak for that morning.

I made an appointment with the doctor for the next day, but by the time I got there the bleeding had stopped. He just said I probably irritated my urethra and gave me the old finger in the ass just to me safe. 😛
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Ewwww....that's nasty.
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Originally posted by: gigapet
i've had some vigourous bedroom experiences but nothing coming close to a tear.

i call shens.
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It happened to me with a bf once in high school when I was too dry so its true it can happen.


Anyways, no she shouldn't have to but she should pay half because you are partly responsible too.
 
Sounds like you just need to get a doctor to recut it and let it reheal. Just got to be careful about your nerves and about scar tissue, which as mentioned could reduce sensitivity and/or functionality. Next time get someone more experienced lol. Sorry I shouldn't be joking about this, sounds painful. Here have a :beer: to make things better.

PS I wonder if you had a massive boner if you can rip your frenulum just by tension from the boner alone.
 
Originally posted by: Icanoutsmokeany1
Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Originally posted by: leftyman
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Hell no.






How the hell did she 'tear' you there?
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I am going to to briefly explain.

I am circumsized, she pulled back on the foreskin too fast/hard, TWICE, I cringe, blood is coming out from the backside...

I am going into too much detail...
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She clearly needs some education about the male anatomy and LUBE!!!!
 
Lol at the OP...but I'm whincing at the same time.

Answer to your question: NO

BTW: These kind of stories [not the first incident I've heard of] are why I'm glad I'm circumsized.
 
Originally posted by: miniMUNCH
Lol at the OP...but I'm whincing at the same time.

Answer to your question: NO

BTW: These kind of stories [not the first incident I've heard of] are why I'm glad I'm circumsized.
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The OP IS circumcized. 😕
 
Originally posted by: Icanoutsmokeany1
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Icanoutsmokeany1
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Are you uncircumsized and the Frenulum tore? I've heard of that happening, but I've never heard of someone requiring surgery for it.

My opinion: you were having sex (having fun) and I doubt she intentionally meant to harm you. It's one of those things in life that just sometimes goes wrong. If she offers to pay for some, take it, but I won't expect it of her.
Click to expand...

YOU GOT IT

Problem was, it healed too tight and now I can't even pull back the foreskin to urinate...or put on a condom.

If I was giving her oral sex and bit off her clitoris, I bet you holy hell she'd sue.
Click to expand...


Would it not stretch gradually over time?

Forgetting about the suing part... I'm thinking that surgery has a good chance of messing you up worse or, at least, causing you to lose a lot of sensitivity.
Click to expand...


I am considering getting circumsision done. It's too painful to even urinate. I am definitely worried about infection, I can't pull it back to clean in there.

BTW, can I get a beer card?
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Dude don't listen to these people either ask for money or sue.

You can't function normally anymore. Thats f'ed up and you know the chick would sue. Chicks are like that.
 
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: miniMUNCH
Lol at the OP...but I'm whincing at the same time.

Answer to your question: NO

BTW: These kind of stories [not the first incident I've heard of] are why I'm glad I'm circumsized.
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The OP IS circumcized. 😕
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I am not, I mis-typed. I am uncut and original.

 
Did she mean to do it, and can you CONVINCE a judge or jury of that. I'm betting no, most likely because she really didn't mean to do it.

You have to prove intenet to injure for a case.
 
Originally posted by: Phoenix86
Did she mean to do it, and can you CONVINCE a judge or jury of that. I'm betting no, most likely because she really didn't mean to do it.

You have to prove intenet to injure for a case.
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One word: Negligency.

His Mojo is whacked now and women sue all the time so why can't we. Hell, they get drunk and then call it date rape half the time.
 
Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Does this put the circumcision debate to rest?
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No. Wait and see how the OP feels six months from now and see if he says there is a difference in sensation.
 
Originally posted by: Proletariat
Originally posted by: Phoenix86
Did she mean to do it, and can you CONVINCE a judge or jury of that. I'm betting no, most likely because she really didn't mean to do it.

You have to prove intenet to injure for a case.
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One word: Negligency.

His Mojo is whacked now and women sue all the time so why can't we. Hell, they get drunk and then call it date rape half the time.
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You can go that route too, but now you are saying she was "wreckless". Again, hard to prove.
 
Originally posted by: Icanoutsmokeany1
Note: Edited for clarity.

Long story condensed into cliffs:

Was with girl I see sometimes, not an item.

We were getting busy and she negligently tears me "down there" while giving me a form of sex, with her hand. (A hand job...I feel dirty.) Not being circumsized, she pulls down too fast/hard on my foreskin and the backside that attaches it rips, along with part of the inside of the skin.

Bloody mess ensues and I go home and pass out, not even wanting to deal with this cause I have work in the AM.

I wake up in pain and can't urinate...

It doesn't heal properly because I am an idiot and trusted my body to self-heal.

Now its healed too tight and I can't pull back my foreskin.

I might need to get it operated on, going into Dr. again on Saturday for appraisal of my junk.

and now that you've heard my story, I ask you...Shouldn't she have to pay for it!?
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bahahahahahahahahahah.....ROFL....I am sorry but that's just too funny...hahahaha
 
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