Originally posted by: dxkj
My wife and I are soul mates. Because of this, we don't worry about losing the other person's love. We also believe that love and sex are separate entities so having sex with other people is not a problem. We are both secure in our love and dedication to each other because we know that we cannot find another partner that is a more perfect match.
I guess this really depends on whether or not she actually believes this, or is the type that allows herself to be pushed into things because you're the man, and she's the woman.
Either way, I'm not one to judge. I would be interested to see how unaffected you really were if she started sleeping with one guy in particular a lot. Some things sound good in theory, but when put to the test don't work out so well.
I can identify with it being different trying to get in rythm when you change kissing partners.
PS. So if this is the first person other than your wife that youve kissed in11 years, does this mean its the first time you've put your theory into practice? Or do you usually just have sex and ignore the formalities of foreplay (assuming kissing is at least part of that)
