Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: DrPizza
Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: DrPizza
Originally posted by: CRXican
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: SagaLore
I already decided that my kids aren't going to be watching any TV.
Now I'm starting to think that video games will be the next restriction...
Doing so will increase the likelihood that they will end up even more fucked up than if you had you let them watch TV and play games.
pretty much
make sure you wear your bullet proof vest when you're depriving your children of a normal life
Weird, there are plenty of kids at the school that I teach at who only get ABC, NBC, and CBS... if the weather is just right. They're not allowed to own video games, and have turned out incredibly normal. Every last one of them is well above average & will get to go to the college of their choice. And, at school, they're involved in all sorts of extra-curricular activities & are well adjusted.
Extremes are always bad. Gotta adjust it for your kids/family. Of my two little sisters that are now adults, it took two totally different parenting styles. One needed a slap on the wrist/physical punishment to learn her lessons while the other responded well to those "lame" punishments now like "time-out" and being sent to her room.
Just like how there are so many kids nowadays who grow up to be adults, find out they can buy guns and are completely unsafe to themselves and those around them or go around being gun-grabbing pansies. Then there are the kids raised and taught gun safety/respect and are the ones realizing how many crazy people that either have guns or want to take their guns away.
wtf are you talking about? (the first paragraph there) The rabid infatuation with video games is really only one generation long. Ditto 135 channels of shit on the tv which doesn't develop the mind at all. If anything, my observations are that the kids who play the most video games are also the most maladjusted.
The second paragraph - makes little sense. A very high percentage of households are anti-gun. I don't see kids from those households running out and purchasing guns in record numbers after they hit 18 years old and move out. Nor do I find that kids from those environments are any more likely to be better or worse than their counterparts. I do, however, agree with the notion that kids brought up respecting firearms are less likely to abuse firearms. Then again, this very situation could actually be used as evidence against that argument - obviously the parents owned a firearm. And obviously, the behavior that they modeled with that firearm was one of safety - the gun was kept locked up.
My point is that you can't just make generalizations like tv and video games are bad. I had those satellite channels as a kid, watched shows like married with children and home improvement growing up as well as discovery channel, history channel, food tv and learned a lot from them. I also played games all the time from the 486 days, up to my days of overclocking the celeron 300's. You have to adjust your parenting style to each kid. Some will turn out fine with 135 channels, an xbox, ps3 and an ipod and some won't. Hell, my rapid infatuation with computer games made me learn about computers and gave me an advantage in my career with my technical abilities over many of my peers.
The second example is how when you keep a person ignorant of something, they might not know how to handle it. Like those kids with daddy's that have a gun hidden away in the closet and are naturally curious and end up blowing theirs or a friend's head off while showing off.
In the end, the answer = good parenting. Even then, a totally fucked up kid will still grow up to be a fuckup.