It shouldn’t be anywhere near close enough for the EC to matter in such a voting outcome. That’s why I say we should deserve it, maybe I used that phrasing a little loosely but the sentiment still remains. Objectively speaking this should be a blowout.
And as an aside, there have been rumblings that the right leaning EC advantage isn’t as significant this year.
And I'll repeat that the sentiment is just wrong. Why do we
all deserve Trump if only 48% of voters choose him? It's just wrong and absurd. In 2016, Trump got just
46.1% because of third party votes. Did we deserve the outcome then?
As to the rumblings you referenced, there are a couple different layers to it. The declining EC advantage you're referring to just means that the spread between the "national PV" margin and that in key states might not be as great for (R) this cycle. I read the NYT's analysis and it's far from convincing (we won't know what the spread is until real votes are certified).
On a different layer, the unfairness is fully baked into the Electoral College. A state gets a number of electoral votes equal to its numbers of Senators (2) + House Reps. Because all states have 2 Senators*, this means the lowest population states are overrepresented in electoral votes.
Wyoming has 577k residents, and 3 electoral votes. So about 192k voters per electoral vote.
For California, it's 732k voters per electoral vote.
So a Wyoming voter has nearly 4 times as much juice as a California voter, when it comes to the Electoral College. Note that there are a few low population blue states (VT, DE, RI) too, but this is overall a disadvantage for Dems because California is deep blue in voting. So the EC disenfranchises California voters especially, but also any voters in the most populous states (TX #2, FL #3, NY #4). As we know well, it also reduces the contest to the elections in 7 battleground states. The other 43 states are essentially meaningless, unless something crazy happens (Trump +4% in FL might be the next closest to a swing state).
I understand you're saying we're stuck with a shit sandwich if DJT wins the EC, but by no means do we
deserve that shit sandwich. The design of the EC makes it possible for a guy with 47-48% of the total PV to win the election.
* The Connecticut Compromise thus infiltrates all 3 branches of the federal government. Low pop states are heavily overrepresented in the Senate, and this power is amplified by the filibuster. And SCOTUS nominees must get past the Senate, so we're left with an imbalanced 6-3 SCOTUS that is far from representative of the people's will.