Originally posted by: Rogue
As a military member myself, I tend to agree with the other posts. If you can't handle the presence of a homosexual, it's you that has the problem not them. I can say that I've served with at least two lesbians that I know of outright and both were damn fine soldiers. I have no problem showering around anyone, especially in a field environment when that's all you got. The way I look at it is, there are two types of people in this world, men and women, and if by the time you've joined the military you haven't seen both sets of equipment at some point in your life, it's time to learn. I mean c'mon! It's a penis, a vagina, some breasts and buttocks people! What is the big fvcking deal with it all? Hell, as an MP, our basic training is co-ed. When we did our week in the field, I bathed every night out of my canteen cup right outside my tent in the woods. If a female saw me, so be it. In war you see far worse than the natural human form. I'd venture a guess that a disfigured, mangled human corpse if far more disturbing than a living, breathing, naked human. If you can't handle either, you simply shouldn't be in the military. That goes for those that are homosexual and can't shower with heterosexuals and those that are heterosexual and can't shower with homosexuals as far as I'm concerned. If you can't handle the problem going either direction, you're not a good fit for morale and esprit de corps in the first place.
I'll admit outright that when I was younger (about 10 years ago) I had a gay guy that had a crush on me. Being young and somewhat immature, I handled the problem totally wrong and made threats to him. Thinking on it later, he didn't hardly know me in the first place and I guess it was worth it to him to ask if I was interested just as I would ask a woman I don't know only to find out I'm not even close to her type of man. Granted, being hetero and lovin' the ladies I was taken aback and repulsed by it at the time, but I can see the error of my ways now.
As I am now married, I'd have to say that if I had to share bunks/close quarters with a gay male or a hetero female and either of them grabbed my ass in the middle of the night, I'd let either of them know I'm not interested, it was inappropriate and it should not happen again, but it's no cause to get drastic on anyone. There's plenty of women's asses I want to grab from time to time, but I just don't do it because if it's not asked for, it's not wanted. Too many people read too much into this stuff and are too narrow minded about it in the first place. Everyone is quick to take sides on an issue and not budge.
BTW, you all do know that according to the UCMJ, even consensual, oral sex between a male and a female is against the law, right? As is male to female anal sex and any other form of "sodomy." So hell, it's damn near illegal to be a healthy heterosexual person according to the UCMJ. Granted, no one enforces that law unless it's related to a crime of some sort, but it's spelled out clearly in there.