TrindenT, please stand up, walk over to your parents (who are in the next room because you still live in their house rent-free despite having apparently given them nothing but shit since you were 15 years old) and ask them to turn off the television and please pay attention to you. Clearly you are lacking in this area, since you come to the internet to meet this need time and time again.
Stand in front of your mother and father and explain to them that you, while appearing to be a relatively normal human being of college age, are unable to appreciate the good things you've received in life, are unable to recognize the advantages you have been given, and that the internet has informed you repeatedly that you stand out notably in contrast with your average grade whiner. Inform your parents that you need their assistance in overcoming this problem and that, while you may be an adult in age, your emotional maturity is approximately that of a 15 year old child and you need to be treated thusly so you can receive the prompting necessary to develop into a functional adult.
While you're at it, request that they take you to a therapist for analysis and possibly diagnosis for a learning or social disability that has rendered you unable to process the parenting, coaching and feedback you've received throughout your teen years, and ask your parents to hold you accountable for seeking and applying treatment that your therapist recommends.
Be honest with your friends; tell them you think you have not reached the appropriate level of maturity and enjoyment of the world that you should have and ask them for their honest feedback about what is holding you back. Ask them to be brutal with you when you start acting like a whiny douche and commit to them that you will at least shut the hell up when they tell you to, and spend that time in silence contemplating why you might want to be enjoying or appreciative of that moment instead of spewing crap over everyone else's life.
Most of all, commit to yourself that whenever you are going to post something on the internet you are evaluating it for literal truthfulness, gauging whether the level of disclosure is appropriate, determining whether it falls within the standard deviation of topics typically posted on the forum and, if it is negative, whether you have posted anything even remotely related to the same topic within the last 4 months, and if you find yourself lacking in any of those criteria, DON'T POST IT because you are, at that point, simply inviting abuse on yourself and you are not primed for any amusement or assistance.
If you insist on posting a topic anyway and more than three people give you the same advice and you decide not to take it, at least shut the fuck up and don't respond to that advice; asking for help or posting a problem and then crapping all over the people who actually try to help you brands you as a troll.
Lastly, when you post something as insensitive and manipulative as this topic and somebody complains that is insensitive, don't be a total douche to that person. Heaping doucheness on top of fucktardeness when it regards a serious topic like cancer is simply fuel to the fire and illustrates what a low class human being you really are in your present state.