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Is this considered rape, my friend... *UPDATE*

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Kaervak

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
this will be my last post on this subject because i don't feel like talking about it alot.

I won't be calling teh cops about this matter, because if the girl decides she was raped, she would have called them in the first place. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know what happened to her???

You're even worse than your friend. Grow some balls and act like a man.

 
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Originally posted by: Gaard
Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian
Not rape. If she was half asleep, that means she was still half awake. But it was still a horrible thing to do, and you do need to find a new friend.

Rape = forcing a girl to have sex with you.
Not rape (but still bad) = taking advantage of a girl who got into the situation by her own stupidity.


Total BS.

So it wasn't a horrible thing to do?
 

Hoober

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Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian

Not rape (but still bad) = taking advantage of a girl who got into the situation by her own stupidity.


Still rape Gonad. I'm trying to find the law. It was written into the books here in Colorado almost a decade ago. It goes something like if the woman cannot make a consicious decision because she is under the influence, then any action would be taking advantage of her situation.
 

Deeko

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Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian
Originally posted by: Gaard
Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian
Not rape. If she was half asleep, that means she was still half awake. But it was still a horrible thing to do, and you do need to find a new friend.

Rape = forcing a girl to have sex with you.
Not rape (but still bad) = taking advantage of a girl who got into the situation by her own stupidity.


Total BS.

So it wasn't a horrible thing to do?

he means your definition of rape is BS. Because it is. Read prior posts for explanation.
 

minendo

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
this will be my last post on this subject because i don't feel like talking about it alot.

I won't be calling teh cops about this matter, because if the girl decides she was raped, she would have called them in the first place. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know what happened to her???
I hope she goes to the police and turns in your friend. Then I hope your friend says he told you so that both of you get screwed in a situation that should have never happened. It is pathetic that you post on here looking for us to make you feel better about your pathetic self.

 

Gaard

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
this will be my last post on this subject because i don't feel like talking about it alot.

I won't be calling teh cops about this matter, because if the girl decides she was raped, she would have called them in the first place. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know what happened to her???


Could this forum (Anandtech) be in any trouble for not taking any action? Like Planned Parenthood the other day not reporting that 13-year-olds rape.
 

Hoober

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Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
this will be my last post on this subject because i don't feel like talking about it alot.

I won't be calling teh cops about this matter, because if the girl decides she was raped, she would have called them in the first place. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know what happened to her???
I hope she goes to the police and turns in your friend. Then I hope your friend says he told you so that both of you get screwed in a situation that should have never happened. It is pathetic that you post on here looking for us to make you feel better about your pathetic self.

I agree. Pick up your honor and do something constructive. That woman was raped and you're gonna keep your mouth shut about it for the rest of your life. That's a disgrace.
 

HamSupLo

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well, if she doesn't report to the cops, I dunno what you can do about it. If i were you, i would keep an eye on this "friend". Make sure your girlfriend, female friends, sister, or anybody else is not alone with this guy.
 

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
this will be my last post on this subject because i don't feel like talking about it alot.

I won't be calling teh cops about this matter, because if the girl decides she was raped, she would have called them in the first place. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know what happened to her???

I hope you NEVER come back to these forums again. POS. :|
 

Anubis

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
this will be my last post on this subject because i don't feel like talking about it alot.

I won't be calling teh cops about this matter, because if the girl decides she was raped, she would have called them in the first place. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know what happened to her???

this makes you as big a duschbag as your friend. you should go play in teh street with a knife for being such a tool. wht even ask if your not going to do anything


and Gonad you my friend have some serious issues that need to be addressed about your respect for girls
 
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Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian

Not rape (but still bad) = taking advantage of a girl who got into the situation by her own stupidity.


Still rape Gonad. I'm trying to find the law. It was written into the books here in Colorado almost a decade ago. It goes something like if the woman cannot make a consicious decision because she is under the influence, then any action would be taking advantage of her situation.

Legally, you are probably right. But then again, legally, a man cannot be raped, be it by another woman or man. I was just expressing my personal opinion here (which I'm sure some of you will disagree with).

and Gonad you my friend have some serious issues that need to be addressed about your respect for girls
I have plenty of respect for girls. I love girls. I've never raised my hand against one or done anything to one without their consent. But I have zero respect for people, man or woman, that do something stupid with no regard to something bad likely coming of it. Like I said, this was a horrible thing for the guy to do, and a stupid thing for the girl to do.
 

Storm

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Originally posted by: minendo
He raped her. Find some new friends.

Exactly...

I gotta say you have a fvcked up friend. Umm I personally think you should talk to the girl and let her know whats going on. What if shes pregnant she's gonna want to know wtf is going on especially if she doesnt have a bf.

Its up to what to do. Maybe you're the type of person that can shurg it off. Then again maybe not.

Umm to all the people who are discussing the definition of rape. Why argue about it? Because only a fvcking idiot wants to be in that situation. Why argue about something if you personally dont have to worry about getting into such a situation.

HakunaMatata I hope you do the right thing, but then again if she doesnt remember and you tell her, it could destroy her. Im not saying it will but it could. I just hope you're never in this type of situation again.
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: Gaard
Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
this will be my last post on this subject because i don't feel like talking about it alot.

I won't be calling teh cops about this matter, because if the girl decides she was raped, she would have called them in the first place. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know what happened to her???


Could this forum (Anandtech) be in any trouble for not taking any action? Like Planned Parenthood the other day not reporting that 13-year-olds rape.

WTF can AT do?

"Hello 911? Theres this guy who said in a internet forum that his friend Raped a girl. I dont know where he lives or his name."
 

Jmman

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Here is the definition of rape under Kansas law, and I believe that most jurisdictions have similar wording......

"Rape is sexual intercourse with a person who does not consent to the sexual intercourse, under any of the following circumstances:

A. When the victim is overcome by force or fear;

B. When the victim is unconscious or physically powerless; or

C. When the victim is incapable of giving consent because of mental deficiency or disease, or when the victim is incapable of giving consent because of the effect of any alcoholic liquor, narcotic, drug, or any other substance, which condition was known by the offender or was reasonably apparent to the offender."


Do you notice the part about liquor? There has been some discussion about the legalities of having sex with any intoxicated person, because it very well could come back to haunt you......


 

Hoober

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Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian
Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian

Not rape (but still bad) = taking advantage of a girl who got into the situation by her own stupidity.


Still rape Gonad. I'm trying to find the law. It was written into the books here in Colorado almost a decade ago. It goes something like if the woman cannot make a consicious decision because she is under the influence, then any action would be taking advantage of her situation.

Legally, you are probably right. But then again, legally, a man cannot be raped, be it by another woman or man. I was just expressing my personal opinion here (which I'm sure some of you will disagree with).

Actually, a man can be raped. But that's a whole other discussion.

And it goes back to the idea of being a gentleman. If you're going to take advantage (that's what it is) of a woman because she's too inebriated to know what's going on, then you do need to rethink your attitude towards women.
 

HakunaMatata

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Oh another thing i wanted to say, You guys should also take this into consideration.

Another reason i haven't called the cops is, this girl is no angel, me and my friend have known her for this last year, and she's a total bitch, just because she's attractive and a cheerleader she thinks she can act bitchy to everyone. Also when my friend asked her out, she insulted him infront of her friends and totally humiliated him. I felt sorry for my mate.
 

boyRacer

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Look she probably knows about it but doesn't want to tell anyone because either way it'll make her look like a slut... that's messed up. fvcktards like that guy should be shot... forever.
 

Anubis

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
Oh another thing i wanted to say, You guys should also take this into consideration.

Another reason i haven't called the cops is, this girl is no angel, me and my friend have known her for this last year, and she's a total bitch, just because she's attractive and a cheerleader she thinks she can act bitchy to everyone. Also when my friend asked her out, she insulted him infront of her friends and totally humiliated him. I felt sorry for my mate.

just because shes a bitch is no reason to say she deserves to be raped.

WHF is wrong with peopel today
 

Storm

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
Oh another thing i wanted to say, You guys should also take this into consideration.

Another reason i haven't called the cops is, this girl is no angel, me and my friend have known her for this last year, and she's a total bitch, just because she's attractive and a cheerleader she thinks she can act bitchy to everyone. Also when my friend asked her out, she insulted him infront of her friends and totally humiliated him. I felt sorry for my mate.

Two wrongs dont make a right.
 

Kaervak

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
Oh another thing i wanted to say, You guys should also take this into consideration.

Another reason i haven't called the cops is, this girl is no angel, me and my friend have known her for this last year, and she's a total bitch, just because she's attractive and a cheerleader she thinks she can act bitchy to everyone. Also when my friend asked her out, she insulted him infront of her friends and totally humiliated him. I felt sorry for my mate.


Well, hell that makes everything ok.
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Hoober

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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
Oh another thing i wanted to say, You guys should also take this into consideration.

Another reason i haven't called the cops is, this girl is no angel, me and my friend have known her for this last year, and she's a total bitch, just because she's attractive and a cheerleader she thinks she can act bitchy to everyone. Also when my friend asked her out, she insulted him infront of her friends and totally humiliated him. I felt sorry for my mate.

So because she's a bitch she deserves to be raped?!?!?!?!?

Do you have a sister? Do you have a mother? Do you have any respect for women? I can't believe you just wrote that!

You feel sorry for your mate. God, that's pathetic.
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: HakunaMatata
Oh another thing i wanted to say, You guys should also take this into consideration.

Another reason i haven't called the cops is, this girl is no angel, me and my friend have known her for this last year, and she's a total bitch, just because she's attractive and a cheerleader she thinks she can act bitchy to everyone. Also when my friend asked her out, she insulted him infront of her friends and totally humiliated him. I felt sorry for my mate.

Thats not a good enough reason to rape someone. I dont think anything is.

 

Jzero

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Another reason i haven't called the cops is, this girl is no angel, me and my friend have known her for this last year, and she's a total bitch, just because she's attractive and a cheerleader she thinks she can act bitchy to everyone. Also when my friend asked her out, she insulted him infront of her friends and totally humiliated him. I felt sorry for my mate.

Well, I guess it's ok then...
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