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michaelsslave

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Sep 17, 2007
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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: michaelsslave
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: HammerCurl
Write up a prenup. Explicitly state the TV is yours.
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lol

so will she start posting here now? I think she should. have you shown her your yagt threads?
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We've been insanely honest. Introduced her to a few of my ex's even, stating that I was an immature tool when dealing with women in the past and made many, many mistakes. Luckily these mistakes did not involve illegitimate kids so she's ok with them!
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you did not asnwer the mans questions
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She's read all of my blogs dealing with the girls... YAGTs are censored versions of my blogs, really.

We all have pasts, I've only had sex with 9 girls - she guessed 40 based on my blogs and my wild dating habits. If she was ok with 40 I can't imagine my YAGTs phasing her. She said my past is my past and how I treat her now is what matters. To be clear, I invited her out to meet some of my exs, to show that I may have been immature in dating but have changed. I actually think my problems with women stemmed from depression and insecurities, and I've been much more sane lately, thanks to therapy and a wonder drug called lexapro.

I've treated other girls poorly, I admit to that. I'm different now, different enough that a brilliant and beautiful girl wants to be my Mrs. I can't excuse the stupidity of the past and can't blame you kids for mocking me, but all around me know that I've turned a new leaf.
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read comprehension FTL for me:(
 
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IceBergSLiM

Lifer
Jul 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: michaelsslave
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: HammerCurl
Write up a prenup. Explicitly state the TV is yours.
Click to expand...

lol

so will she start posting here now? I think she should. have you shown her your yagt threads?
Click to expand...

We've been insanely honest. Introduced her to a few of my ex's even, stating that I was an immature tool when dealing with women in the past and made many, many mistakes. Luckily these mistakes did not involve illegitimate kids so she's ok with them!
Click to expand...

you did not asnwer the mans questions
Click to expand...

She's read all of my blogs dealing with the girls... YAGTs are censored versions of my blogs, really.

We all have pasts, I've only had sex with 9 girls - she guessed 40 based on my blogs and my wild dating habits. If she was ok with 40 I can't imagine my YAGTs phasing her. She said my past is my past and how I treat her now is what matters. To be clear, I invited her out to meet some of my exs, to show that I may have been immature in dating but have changed. I actually think my problems with women stemmed from depression and insecurities, and I've been much more sane lately, thanks to therapy and a wonder drug called lexapro.

I've treated other girls poorly, I admit to that. I'm different now, different enough that a brilliant and beautiful girl wants to be my Mrs. I can't excuse the stupidity of the past and can't blame you kids for mocking me, but all around me know that I've turned a new leaf.
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god I can smell the bullshit through the monitor.
 
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krunchykrome

Lifer
Dec 28, 2003
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LMAO, Dude, you have issues. Real big issues.


Can you promise us that this will be the last YAGT ever, even after this doesnt work out?
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
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Originally posted by: DontTaseMebro
How big of a rock did you get her?
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We're all post modern, I proposed in the heat of the moment without a ring. I'm getting her ring as a christmas gift, after finding out what she's into and her size and everything (ascher cut, white gold, etc.)

My mom was annoyed at me for doing that but my girl loved how spontaneous it was and told me that her parents did the same thing, so all is well.
 
pontifex

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: DontTaseMebro
How big of a rock did you get her?
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We're all post modern, I proposed in the heat of the moment without a ring. I'm getting her ring as a christmas gift, after finding out what she's into and her size and everything (ascher cut, white gold, etc.)

My mom was annoyed at me for doing that but my girl loved how spontaneous it was and told me that her parents did the same thing, so all is well.
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so you're like, in the future or something?
 
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Jahee

Platinum Member
Sep 21, 2006
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I swear you said in another thread you've been dating her for 2 weeks and you've only known her for a month :confused:

Either my memory is playing tricks or someones telling porkies!
 
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slsmnaz

Diamond Member
Mar 13, 2005
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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
LMAO, Dude, you have issues. Real big issues.


Can you promise us that this will be the last YAGT ever, even after this doesnt work out?
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no way! can you imagine how good the one will be when it doesn't work out?
 
Captante

Captante

Lifer
Oct 20, 2003
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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
LMAO, Dude, you have issues. Real big issues.


Can you promise us that this will be the last YAGT ever, even after this doesnt work out?
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Are you kidding me? :confused:

Think of all the entertaining threads he'll be starting after they divorce!



 
RossMAN

RossMAN

Grand Nagus
Feb 24, 2000
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Originally posted by: Jahee
I swear you said in another thread you've been dating her for 2 weeks and you've only known her for a month :confused:

Either my memory is playing tricks or someones telling porkies!
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Are you thinking of this thread?
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
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Originally posted by: Jahee
I swear you said in another thread you've been dating her for 2 weeks and you've only known her for a month :confused:

Either my memory is playing tricks or someones telling porkies!
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First real date was seeing "Once" on Sep. 16th. I've known her casually since when I lived in bk, over a year ago. We were both fuzzy on when our first "real" date was and decided that Oct 16th was our one month anniversary for book keeping purposes. I counted when when first hooked up, late Sep, she counted when we first had a date.

Yep, just checked, she sent me my first email on 8/10/06

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from Melissa hide details 8/10/06
to pers-192233325@craigslist.org
date Aug 10, 2006 12:03 AM
subject Craigslist
mailed-by craigslist.org
You seem cool.

Craigslist is one of my late night guilty pleasures. Of course, I read
it for the job openings in my field (media); however, I do love to
read what the crazies have written in the personals. Frankly, you
don't seem crazy. Please don't be a psycho. I'm not one to contact
perfect strangers. It just seems that you're a lot like me.
Mid-twenties can be a bitch regarding all of the friends going off to
marriedland; but, it can also be a complete blast. You seem like
someone I'd like to get to know.

I'm 24 and, like you, goofy.

Don't feel bad about the whole "I should have to look online for
friends" thing. We're in a culture right now that feeds on
individuality--but that also brings solitude. Rock on social guy, we
will succeed!

For a list of delightful adjectives about me, please see my little
signature tag.
--
Melissa
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toekramp

Diamond Member
Jun 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: Jahee
I swear you said in another thread you've been dating her for 2 weeks and you've only known her for a month :confused:

Either my memory is playing tricks or someones telling porkies!
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Are you thinking of this thread?
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so maybe she's just planning on moving in with him for the time being while she amasses all new belongings?
 
pontifex

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
43,804
46
91
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Jahee
I swear you said in another thread you've been dating her for 2 weeks and you've only known her for a month :confused:

Either my memory is playing tricks or someones telling porkies!
Click to expand...

First real date was seeing "Once" on Sep. 16th. I've known her casually since when I lived in bk, over a year ago. We were both fuzzy on when our first "real" date was and decided that Oct 16th was our one month anniversary for book keeping purposes. I counted when when first hooked up, late Sep, she counted when we first had a date.

Yep, just checked, she sent me my first email on 8/10/06

igslist Inbox

Reply
Reply to all Reply to allForward Forward Print Add Melissa to Contacts list Delete this message Report phishing Show original Message text garbled?
from Melissa hide details 8/10/06
to pers-192233325@craigslist.org
date Aug 10, 2006 12:03 AM
subject Craigslist
mailed-by craigslist.org
You seem cool.

Craigslist is one of my late night guilty pleasures. Of course, I read
it for the job openings in my field (media); however, I do love to
read what the crazies have written in the personals. Frankly, you
don't seem crazy. Please don't be a psycho. I'm not one to contact
perfect strangers. It just seems that you're a lot like me.
Mid-twenties can be a bitch regarding all of the friends going off to
marriedland; but, it can also be a complete blast. You seem like
someone I'd like to get to know.

I'm 24 and, like you, goofy.

Don't feel bad about the whole "I should have to look online for
friends" thing. We're in a culture right now that feeds on
individuality--but that also brings solitude. Rock on social guy, we
will succeed!

For a list of delightful adjectives about me, please see my little
signature tag.
--
Melissa
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so you met her via craigslist?
 
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michaelsslave

Senior member
Sep 17, 2007
466
1
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Originally posted by: Captante
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
LMAO, Dude, you have issues. Real big issues.


Can you promise us that this will be the last YAGT ever, even after this doesnt work out?
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Are you kidding me? :confused:

Think of all the entertaining threads he'll be starting after they divorce!
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ya just think if they broke up. the girl would get the tv:p
 
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MisterJackson

Lifer
Jun 19, 2004
10,860
1
81
You have co-dependancy issues and should seek therapy to figure it out. Your hapiness seems to hinge on your being with someone.

It sounds like maybe you just met another person with similar issues and you both are mistaking this for love.

I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm giving you real advice that I'm sure you'll dismiss.

Either way dude, good luck to you.






Anyone want to start a pool?
 
FoBoT

FoBoT

No Lifer
Apr 30, 2001
63,084
15
81
fobot.com
it doesn't matter how long he has known her
these things can work out no matter how long they've known each other, if they want it to

i proposed to my wife about 6 weeks after i met her and we got married 5 months later and i was away (in the Navy, out to sea) for 2.5 months of that

and we just passed 19 years of marriage
 
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