If you're married, does it look respectable to go out to lunch

[jtvang125]

Not just lunch but they're together at break time and always chit chatting when they walk by the other's desk. Not that I care that they're doing this but I think it's unfair for their significant other. I mean if I was married and found out my wife was going out to lunch with the same guy at work everyday I wouldn't be too happy.

 

[JS80]

those situations are very high risk of affairage.

 

[Koing]

TRUST ISSUES

People need to be more laid back about stuff like this. If people are going to cheat they will anyway.

I don't care.

Koing

 

[FoBoT]

does anyone else ever go with them?

if no, then i would say it is inappropriate

 

[GuitarDaddy]

Uh, NO

 

[lozina]

merits some investigation if I were the husband

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: Koing
TRUST ISSUES

People need to be more laid back about stuff like this. If people are going to cheat they will anyway.

I don't care.

Koing

Ding Ding Ding...

 

[fitzov]

It's really up to the better half, but I'm pretty sure my wife would be jealous if I were that guy.

 

[RichardE]

I go out to lunch with this married girl everyday. We are good friends, that is all though. Flirt but nothing more.

 

[Chunkee]

Originally posted by: Koing
TRUST ISSUES

People need to be more laid back about stuff like this. If people are going to cheat they will anyway.

I don't care.

Koing

Agreed..people are going to do what they want anyway...just as long as it is not single sided...now if the other does the same thing, and there is griping etc..

then there is a problem..

just as long as they realize the can o worms is open for both.... i cannot stand a rigged game

jC

 

[Hammerhead]

Originally posted by: JS80
those situations are very high risk of affairage.

definitely. sounds like high potential for nooners

 

[Dr. Detroit]

I do this all the time,

people need to get over their jealousy issues and quit acting like their in HS. It is perfectly acceptable for men or women to associate wtih those of the opposite sex.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: Koing
TRUST ISSUES

People need to be more laid back about stuff like this. If people are going to cheat they will anyway.

I don't care.

Koing

Ding Ding Ding...

Once in a while... no big deal. Every day and during breaks with the same person... that's a problem.

 

[bsobel]

Originally posted by: jtvang125
Not just lunch but they're together at break time and always chit chatting when they walk by the other's desk. Not that I care that they're doing this but I think it's unfair for their significant other. I mean if I was married and found out my wife was going out to lunch with the same guy at work everyday I wouldn't be too happy.

Go get a life so you can stop obsessing on other peoples.

 

[HBalzer]

I wouldn't like it if my wife went to lunch alone with some guy and spent huge amount of time chit chatting. We all know what the guy wants.

There is a fine line between being trusting and being naive.

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: HBalzer
I wouldn't like it if my wife went to lunch alone with some guy and spent huge amount of time chit chatting. We all know what the guy wants.

There is a fine line between being trusting and being naive.

You are not friends with any females at all? Out of High School yet?

 

[HBalzer]

Originally posted by: RichardE
I go out to lunch with this married girl everyday. We are good friends, that is all though. Flirt but nothing more.

Yet, Lets say one day she said "lets have sex!" would you say no?

 

[gnumantsc]

Hey everyone has their work boyfriend\girlfriend outside of their regular lives. You tell them your secrets etc... It's normal

 

[shortspanishguy]

I honestly would not care. I trust my SO.


If the person ends up cheating on you with their coworker it was probably gonna happen sooner or later with someone else.

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: HBalzer

Originally posted by: RichardE
I go out to lunch with this married girl everyday. We are good friends, that is all though. Flirt but nothing more.

Yet, Lets say one day she said "lets have sex!" would you say no?

Ugh yeah, shes married, I have a gf ((on off though) . Some of us are able to control ourselves. A majority of people I would say are able to control themselves.

Not to mention the people I hang out with are not as easy/slutty as to say "lets have sex"

 

[wfbberzerker]

well in the tv show the office, nothing's happened with jim and pam yet

 

[GuitarDaddy]

Originally posted by: RichardE
I go out to lunch with this married girl everyday. We are good friends, that is all though. Flirt but nothing more.

Bad juju man, bad juju

Don't be surprised if you get jumped in a dark alley some night

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: Koing
TRUST ISSUES

People need to be more laid back about stuff like this. If people are going to cheat they will anyway.

I don't care.

Koing

It's not a trust issue. It's inappropriate to begin with.

 

[shortspanishguy]

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Originally posted by: Koing
TRUST ISSUES

People need to be more laid back about stuff like this. If people are going to cheat they will anyway.

I don't care.

Koing

It's not a trust issue. It's inappropriate to begin with.

please explain?

 

[HBalzer]

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: HBalzer
I wouldn't like it if my wife went to lunch alone with some guy and spent huge amount of time chit chatting. We all know what the guy wants.

There is a fine line between being trusting and being naive.

You are not friends with any females at all? Out of High School yet?

Who are you kidding? Yea, I have girls that are friends I even have ex-girlfriends that are friends. I love talking to girls but even I know when to draw the line. I am weak I admit it if I went to lunch and spent huge amounts of time with a girl I?d be in her pants. I am a man that is what we are designed to do. So are you a man?

Not to mention my wife would kill me and rightly so. It is not appropriate.