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slimrhcp

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Should I have given a girl that I was deeply in love with a second chance instead of the cold shoulder?
 

kamikaze27

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illusion88 - you will spend the rest of your life with someone who will love you more than what you can offer.
Jadow - Macho Man Randy Savage cannot remember so far back.
El Liberache - You find Oprah hot? It is not your fault my son, at least you have balls.
BoomerD - I do not stand, I float.
tranceport - size matter? seeing as this is a trick q. No, size does not matter, but only is.
marleymarl - your dad? have you bothered to look him up?
DaTT - your Sea-doo is NOT what you will receive this year. You have other priorities.
slimrchp - you never pass up someone who loves you as deeply as you say.



 

xSauronx

Lifer
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should i bother trying to get used to del.icio.us with its tags and bundles over the next few days to see if i like it, or just ditch it and go back to my 560 bookmarks and 20-something folders?
 

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Aimster
I want to know if there is life after death.

Same here. And the "There only is if you believe there is," is a cop-out answer because no one actually knows.
 

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Tuktuk
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: Aimster
I want to know if there is life after death.

Depends how you define life. I rather view it as consciousness after death.

I dunno that question would kind of suck.. what if you just got no for an answer?

TBH, I'd prefer a "no" to a "yes." At least I wouldn't have to worry about which religion to have to try to pick and follow. :(
 

BoomerD

No Lifer
Feb 26, 2006
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Originally posted by: kamikaze27
illusion88 - you will spend the rest of your life with someone who will love you more than what you can offer.
Jadow - Macho Man Randy Savage cannot remember so far back.
El Liberache - You find Oprah hot? It is not your fault my son, at least you have balls.
BoomerD - I do not stand, I float.
tranceport - size matter? seeing as this is a trick q. No, size does not matter, but only is.
marleymarl - your dad? have you bothered to look him up?
DaTT - your Sea-doo is NOT what you will receive this year. You have other priorities.
slimrchp - you never pass up someone who loves you as deeply as you say.

Hey, whatever floats your boat...
 

Mo0o

Lifer
Jul 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Tuktuk
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: Aimster
I want to know if there is life after death.

Depends how you define life. I rather view it as consciousness after death.

I dunno that question would kind of suck.. what if you just got no for an answer?

TBH, I'd prefer a "no" to a "yes." At least I wouldn't have to worry about which religion to have to try to pick and follow. :(
hells about the same for all of them so problem solved :D
 

hzl eyed grl

Super Moderator<br>Elite Member
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I'd like to know why I can't seem to attract the right kind of man for me? Will I ever get married and have kids? :(
 

irishScott

Lifer
Oct 10, 2006
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Originally posted by: Tuktuk
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: Aimster
I want to know if there is life after death.

Depends how you define life. I rather view it as consciousness after death.

I dunno that question would kind of suck.. what if you just got no for an answer?

Then I would be even more motivated to do what I could in this life.
 

kamikaze27

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Jan 2, 2007
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Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
I'd like to know why I can't seem to attract the right kind of man for me? Will I ever get married and have kids? :(

You only need to attract the right type of man once in your life. More than once is too early or too many times.
 

SmoochyTX

Lifer
Apr 19, 2003
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Did my mother really want to abort me like she told me all the time when I was growing up?
 

JEDI

Lifer
Sep 25, 2001
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Originally posted by: kamikaze27
I just want to know why my parents spent the last 15 years divorced, not willing to make up, but also choosing to spend their years alone now. Why? They have never remarried, or even dated. Both of them.

I also want to know what time the cows come home.

Edit : answer the question above IYO - then ask your own.

Sagalore - your wife left you because it was her destiny
Goosemaster - your best friend is safe
Rapidskies - the earth will always last, humans will not
Aimster - there is only life after death if you choose it
Scadenfroh - just because
Schneiderguy - OJ's wife is not your corncern, look after your own wife
Bobsmith1492 - no, I will not truthfully asnwer all your questions, you get1, and you have already asked
Tuktuk - having a multiplesome with spice girls is a negative for you

cont'd.. in post

because your parents learned from their mistakes, which produced this thread.

My question:
Why did i come into this thread?
 

BoomerD

No Lifer
Feb 26, 2006
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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Did my mother really want to abort me like she told me all the time when I was growing up?

After an exchange of PM's with Smoochy, it turns out that his/her comment was based on a real experience, so I retract my tasteless comment...and apologize.


BUT, given the general line of BS on ATOT, why would I think that it was anything but something made up for the thread?
 

Tuktuk

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Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Did my mother really want to abort me like she told me all the time when I was growing up?

All the coat-hanger holes in your forehead weren't clue enough?;)

Oh mans that's a low blow.. but I laughed :)
 

SagaLore

Elite Member
Dec 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Did my mother really want to abort me like she told me all the time when I was growing up?

All the coat-hanger holes in your forehead weren't clue enough?;)

Sheesh, it was obviously a painful memory about her mom, that was kind of tasteless. :(
 

nutxo

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May 20, 2001
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Originally posted by: kamikaze27
I just want to know why my parents spent the last 15 years divorced, not willing to make up, but also choosing to spend their years alone now. Why? They have never remarried, or even dated. Both of them.

I also want to know what time the cows come home.

Edit : answer the question above IYO - then ask your own.

Sagalore - your wife left you because it was her destiny
Goosemaster - your best friend is safe
Rapidskies - the earth will always last, humans will not
Aimster - there is only life after death if you choose it
Scadenfroh - just because
Schneiderguy - OJ's wife is not your corncern, look after your own wife
Bobsmith1492 - no, I will not truthfully asnwer all your questions, you get1, and you have already asked
Tuktuk - having a multiplesome with spice girls is a negative for you

cont'd.. in post

My parents did something like that. My mom didnt date for years and never remarried. My father lived alone till the day he died. A few years back I found out they never divorced. My mom still says she loves my dad, they just couldnt live together...

 

SmoochyTX

Lifer
Apr 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Did my mother really want to abort me like she told me all the time when I was growing up?

All the coat-hanger holes in your forehead weren't clue enough?;)

Sheesh, it was obviously a painful memory about her mom, that was kind of tasteless. :(

Not painful anymore because I grew up and it was too late for her to really take me out. I do still wonder though if she really meant it.

Of course, she's now in a nursing home after being afflicted with strokes all of her life.
 

kamikaze27

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Jan 2, 2007
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Originally posted by: nutxo
Originally posted by: kamikaze27
I just want to know why my parents spent the last 15 years divorced, not willing to make up, but also choosing to spend their years alone now. Why? They have never remarried, or even dated. Both of them.

I also want to know what time the cows come home.

Edit : answer the question above IYO - then ask your own.

Sagalore - your wife left you because it was her destiny
Goosemaster - your best friend is safe
Rapidskies - the earth will always last, humans will not
Aimster - there is only life after death if you choose it
Scadenfroh - just because
Schneiderguy - OJ's wife is not your corncern, look after your own wife
Bobsmith1492 - no, I will not truthfully asnwer all your questions, you get1, and you have already asked
Tuktuk - having a multiplesome with spice girls is a negative for you

cont'd.. in post

My parents did something like that. My mom didnt date for years and never remarried. My father lived alone till the day he died. A few years back I found out they never divorced. My mom still says she loves my dad, they just couldnt live together...

I know my dad and mom still love each other. They also cannot bear the differences that they have. My dad is 66 and my mom is 55 this year. They are both still alive and healthy. I can feel their loneliness when I speak to them though. I try and visit as much as possible, but I have my own life, and I may want to get married and maybe start a family with my current g/f soon.

Am I actually in a position to help? Should I be, they traumatized each other for almost two decades?