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If she said 'yes' its still rape...

UNCjigga

Lifer
...if she says 'no' before you're spent??? WTF?? Women can change their minds about having sex DURING THE ACT, in which case it becomes non-consensual???

I know MichaelD's with me, but does anyone else think this is just ABSURD??? I can understand the logic behind it if violence is involved only, (in which case, they'll have other evidence to file assault charges) but otherwise this law is absurd!!!

Linky
 
No its if she says no, and then you keep on going. Then its rape. If she says yes, then in the middle she says no, and you stop its not rape.
 
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
Originally posted by: GtPrOjEcTX
I understand. if you continue and other person is unwilling-sure does sound like rape to me.
But she said 'yes' when you started!!!!

why would you want to continue having sex if she was not into it though? I think i'd loose my motivation if she was saying no.
 
I don't see what's so wrong with a girl changing her mind "mid-thrust" so to speak. The minute the act becomes non-consentual, it's rape.

Your balls may not like it, but the court sure as hell does.
 
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
Originally posted by: GtPrOjEcTX
I understand. if you continue and other person is unwilling-sure does sound like rape to me.
But she said 'yes' when you started!!!!

And then she changed her mind. This doesn't seem like a challenging situation....
 
It's getting really dangerous to be a guy.

Here's a clue, girls: If you make guys scared to touch you won't be getting anything more than a dildo.

Viper GTS
 
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
...if she says 'no' before you're spent??? WTF?? Women can change their minds about having sex DURING THE ACT, in which case it becomes non-consensual???

I know MichaelD's with me, but does anyone else think this is just ABSURD??? I can understand the logic behind it if violence is involved only, (in which case, they'll have other evidence to file assault charges) but otherwise this law is absurd!!!

Linky

No it's not absurd, youre just one sick messed up little kid. Rape is Rape. It doesnt matter what the conditions were before the fact. If she says no, she means NO.
 
Originally posted by: LikeLinus
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
...if she says 'no' before you're spent??? WTF?? Women can change their minds about having sex DURING THE ACT, in which case it becomes non-consensual???

I know MichaelD's with me, but does anyone else think this is just ABSURD??? I can understand the logic behind it if violence is involved only, (in which case, they'll have other evidence to file assault charges) but otherwise this law is absurd!!!

Linky

No it's not absurd, youre just one sick messed up little kid. Rape is Rape. It doesnt matter what the conditions were before the fact. If she says no, she means NO.

Here's a prime example of why this is such BS - Whether it explicitly states it or not, everybody knows that the law is aimed directly at guys.

Viper GTS
 
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: LikeLinus
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
...if she says 'no' before you're spent??? WTF?? Women can change their minds about having sex DURING THE ACT, in which case it becomes non-consensual???

I know MichaelD's with me, but does anyone else think this is just ABSURD??? I can understand the logic behind it if violence is involved only, (in which case, they'll have other evidence to file assault charges) but otherwise this law is absurd!!!

Linky

No it's not absurd, youre just one sick messed up little kid. Rape is Rape. It doesnt matter what the conditions were before the fact. If she says no, she means NO.

Here's a prime example of why this is such BS - Whether it explicitly states it or not, everybody knows that the law is aimed directly at guys.

Viper GTS


Of course it's aimed at guys. Girls have sex, guys want it. When's the last time you've honestly heard of a girl forcing a guy have to sex? Come on now 🙂

All girls have to do is walk into a bar.....

Also girls are in general unable to hold down a man and force make him to have sex. Not to mention the fact that if you were forcing a guy he would be limp and unable to have sex. With a girl...
 
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
Originally posted by: GtPrOjEcTX
I understand. if you continue and other person is unwilling-sure does sound like rape to me.
But she said 'yes' when you started!!!!

why would you want to continue having sex if she was not into it though? I think i'd loose my motivation if she was saying no.

i'd get more motivated 😉
 
I don't see what's so complex about this. If you have sex with anyone against their will, that's rape. It doesn't matter if she gives you the OK and then changes her mind. Just because you'll have some, ah, tension does NOT mean it's ok to just keeping going if she says stop.

That being said, unless there are some mitigating circumstances, like you are hurting her, I think it's just plain mean for a women to want to stop halfway through. That's not nice 😛 But even so, unless both parties are 100% willing, it's rape.
 
That's not really an astounding decision. If a girls says no at any point, you need to knock it off. Otherwise, they should lock your silly ass up.
 
Alright, before people start thinking I'm a sick messed up lil' kid, hear me out. Like I said, I can totally understand this IF VIOLENCE IS INVOLVED. Example, two people are in the act, then SHE says "no, I want to stop" and makes to get out from underneath or whatever, and the guy PHYSICALLY RESISTS HER AND HOLDS HER DOWN. That is f**ked up. But if you're at a party, lookin' to score, some drunk chick is all smiles at you, she leads you upstairs to a bedroom, y'all start bangin, then halfway through she's like "maybe we shouldn't do this" and you're like "nah baby you feel so good!"...THAT'S NOT RAPE!!!!

Next morning she's all sobered up and sorry she cheated on her lame-o boyfriend and now she wants to blame the other guy??? BTW, this is the context of the original case in question in Illinois...
 
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
But if you're at a party, lookin' to score, some drunk chick is all smiles at you, she leads you upstairs to a bedroom, y'all start bangin, then halfway through she's like "maybe we shouldn't do this" and you're like "nah baby you feel so good!"...THAT'S NOT RAPE!!!!

It's called "date rape".
 
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
Alright, before people start thinking I'm a sick messed up lil' kid, hear me out. Like I said, I can totally understand this IF VIOLENCE IS INVOLVED. Example, two people are in the act, then SHE says "no, I want to stop" and makes to get out from underneath or whatever, and the guy PHYSICALLY RESISTS HER AND HOLDS HER DOWN. That is f**ked up. But if you're at a party, lookin' to score, some drunk chick is all smiles at you, she leads you upstairs to a bedroom, y'all start bangin, then halfway through she's like "maybe we shouldn't do this" and you're like "nah baby you feel so good!"...THAT'S NOT RAPE!!!!

Next morning she's all sobered up and sorry she cheated on her lame-o boyfriend and now she wants to blame the other guy??? BTW, this is the context of the original case in question in Illinois...

Dude you're bluring the lines of a girl blaming someone for her own problems and true rape. Also if a girl says "maybe we shouldn't do this" hopefully youre smart enough to say "why" or "should we stop". Also if she is too drunk/drugged to fight against her own will, you're saying that means its not rape? As stated, if she/he (for viper 🙂 ) says no, they mean NO. It doesn't matter what you think or feel at that particular time, it's about the other party.

The law was intended for girls who say no mid act, not for someone blaming someone for their own indiscretions
 
Originally posted by: FeathersMcGraw
Originally posted by: uncJIGGA
But if you're at a party, lookin' to score, some drunk chick is all smiles at you, she leads you upstairs to a bedroom, y'all start bangin, then halfway through she's like "maybe we shouldn't do this" and you're like "nah baby you feel so good!"...THAT'S NOT RAPE!!!!

It's called "date rape".
:| Well I'm glad my college days are over and I won't have to deal with that kind of sh*t. Moral of the story for guys--don't try hookin' up with drunk chicks...

 
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