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SuperTool

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This is retarded. She doesn't want to tell authorities because she likes the attention more than she dislikes the discomfort.
 

5489

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Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm gonna go ahead and label this thread as "Stupid attention whore drama."

The guy is huggin' on your girlfriend because you're spending your time on here, posting about it and being indecisive. Grow a pair?

Great, thanks alot ass. I just need to drive more than 2 hours to go up there. Its too late right now, so i'll probably go up there tommorow.
 

fredtam

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Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm gonna go ahead and label this thread as "Stupid attention whore drama."

The guy is huggin' on your girlfriend because you're spending your time on here, posting about it and being indecisive. Grow a pair?

I'm guessing it is just a plausible deniability scheme between the girlfriend and the other guy. She is secretly sleeping with him
 

5489

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Originally posted by: SuperTool
This is retarded. She doesn't want to tell authorities because she likes the attention more than she dislikes the discomfort.

Well I just conviced her to tell authorities.
 

Nebor

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Originally posted by: 5489
Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm gonna go ahead and label this thread as "Stupid attention whore drama."

The guy is huggin' on your girlfriend because you're spending your time on here, posting about it and being indecisive. Grow a pair?

Great, thanks alot ass. I just need to drive more than 2 hours to go up there. Its too late right now, so i'll probably go up there tommorow.

Notice how everyone else is saying this is retarded? It's because the way you handled your thread.

You started off:
I want to get the authorities after him
Then:
I want to beat him up.
Then I suggested talking to him:
I don't want to give him a chance.
Then:
I'm going to beat him up.

Yeah. Retarded sums it up nicely.
 

Nebor

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Originally posted by: 5489
Originally posted by: SuperTool
This is retarded. She doesn't want to tell authorities because she likes the attention more than she dislikes the discomfort.

Well I just conviced her to tell authorities.

Wow, thank god for ATOT, huh?
 

5489

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Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: 5489
Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm gonna go ahead and label this thread as "Stupid attention whore drama."

The guy is huggin' on your girlfriend because you're spending your time on here, posting about it and being indecisive. Grow a pair?

Great, thanks alot ass. I just need to drive more than 2 hours to go up there. Its too late right now, so i'll probably go up there tommorow.

Notice how everyone else is saying this is retarded? It's because the way you handled your thread.

You started off:
I want to get the authorities after him
Then:
I want to beat him up.
Then I suggested talking to him:
I don't want to give him a chance.
Then:
I'm going to beat him up.

Yeah. Retarded sums it up nicely.

I want to get the authorities after him.
I want to beat him up, but wont because its the smart thing to do.
I dont want to give him a chance as in, I dont want to give him a chance to stop what he's doing. The cops will stop him.

Originally posted by: 5489
Originally posted by: fredtam
This should help you build up your rage. You know why he does it? He wants to fvck your girlfriend.

THAT'S IT, IF IM NOT BACK IN 5 MINUTES, IM IN JAIL.

edit: actually, he goes around and bothers all the girls, my gf is the only one he touches.

That was a jay-kay
 

ed21x

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Oct 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: fredtam
Originally posted by: ed21x
Originally posted by: DaWhim
I am afraid that you need to show us a pic of your girlfriend before we suggest what action should be taken.

i think the context of this thread is a bit too serious for that...

Now wouldn't that depend on the pic? He could be wasting his time. ;)

an excellent point! :beer:
 

fredtam

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Originally posted by: 5489
Originally posted by: fredtam
This should help you build up your rage. You know why he does it? He wants to fvck your girlfriend.

THAT'S IT, IF IM NOT BACK IN 5 MINUTES, IM IN JAIL.

edit: actually, he goes around and bothers all the girls, my gf is the only one he touches.

So he wants to sleep with all the girls but he is making more progress with yours?
 

Nebor

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Originally posted by: fredtam
Originally posted by: 5489
Originally posted by: fredtam
This should help you build up your rage. You know why he does it? He wants to fvck your girlfriend.

THAT'S IT, IF IM NOT BACK IN 5 MINUTES, IM IN JAIL.

edit: actually, he goes around and bothers all the girls, my gf is the only one he touches.

So he wants to sleep with all the girls but he is making more progress with yours?

:D You're my hero for the night.
 

cherrytwist

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Apr 11, 2000
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Your girlfriend can't defend herself?

Anybody tried that sh!t with my wife and she'd kick him in the junk.
 

BurnItDwn

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She should light him on fire. Or at least burn him with a lighter. Maybe scorch the creeps hair ... hair burns well.
 

5489

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Originally posted by: BurnItDwn
She should light him on fire. Or at least burn him with a lighter. Maybe scorch the creeps hair ... hair burns well.

nice username :)
 

nan0bug

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Originally posted by: BurnItDwn
She should light him on fire. Or at least burn him with a lighter. Maybe scorch the creeps hair ... hair burns well.


Best response yet.

Tell her to spray him with a hairspray flamethrower.
 

tantos

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Tell your gf to get some balls and tell the creep off...damn man..if she lets it go on no wonder the dude is always at it. If she can't? time to show up with the boys and do some intimidating.
 

habib89

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dude, i'm in sjsu, and i'd be happy to go up to berkley to beat the snot out of this sucker.. but short of physically pummeling him into submission, tell campus police.. RA's are useless.. they're sorta like those british police with the wistles..
 

5489

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Originally posted by: tantos
Tell your gf to get some balls and tell the creep off...damn man..if she lets it go on no wonder the dude is always at it. If she can't? time to show up with the boys and do some intimidating.

dont you think she's been telling him to? she does all the time.
 

Wahsapa

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Jul 2, 2001
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tell your girlfriend to buy a pocket knife, next time he pulls that crap, she can stab him, nice and legal like.

and seriously, if your girlfriend doesnt have some form of protection, shes getting raped fast. i think all girls should carry a pocket knife(the nice big stabbing kind), because she IS going to be in trouble one day and the knife will help.

also, she goes to berkeley? i have a friend that goes there, if you want help kicking this guys ass, just PM.
 

5489

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Originally posted by: Wahsapa
tell your girlfriend to buy a pocket knife, next time he pulls that crap, she can stab him, nice and legal like.

and seriously, if your girlfriend doesnt have some form of protection, shes getting raped fast. i think all girls should carry a pocket knife(the nice big stabbing kind), because she IS going to be in trouble one day and the knife will help.

also, she goes to berkeley? i have a friend that goes there, if you want help kicking this guys ass, just PM.

thanx for the help. i'll keep you in mind.
 

Shelly21

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Originally posted by: Nebor
What the fvck? First person to talk to about it is him. Tell him to cut it out, and stay away from your girlfriend, and that if he touches her again, you'll be back to see him. If he does it again, beat the fvck out of him.

I swear, straight people waaay overcomplicate things. :p

Cut out the middleman and go to the school police and they can issue an order to keep him away or be kicked out.
 

dabuddha

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Originally posted by: cherrytwist
Your girlfriend can't defend herself?

Anybody tried that sh!t with my wife and she'd kick him in the junk.

Agreed. My wife would cut the guy's "package" off. That's why I gave her a small kershaw that should do the trick.
As for the OP, wtf are you posting about this and not going up there to take care of business. Same situation with my wife when she was in college. I ended up getting in the guys face and telling him if he messes with her again, he would die (Not that I'd kill him, just wanted to scare him) He avoided her like the plague after that.
 

zixxer

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Jul 6, 2001
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Originally posted by: Nebor
What the fvck? First person to talk to about it is him. Tell him to cut it out, and stay away from your girlfriend, and that if he touches her again, you'll be back to see him. If he does it again, beat the fvck out of him.

I swear, straight people waaay overcomplicate things. :p

 

MDE

Lifer
Jul 17, 2003
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Originally posted by: Nebor
Nah, you're just a reasonable person. This guy sounds like a real creep.

It might also be fun to give your girl a tazer. When he's hugging her, she just jams it into his ribs.
For once I agree with Nebor here, the tazer would shock this idiot into reality.
 

BespinReactorShaft

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Jun 9, 2004
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All the retaliatory gestures are not uncalled for. But for all we know this guy could well be a psycho who simply needs a reason to take things to the next level. Still, what to do but hope for the best?