- Aug 8, 2010
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No offense but why didn't you say "she is hot" or "she is beautiful"? The simple answer is the fact that she is overweight bothers you more than you are willing to admit. It may even be subconscious, who knows? Maybe you don't want anyone else to think you like fat chicks. Don't take it the wrong way. This is something I have noticed my whole life and many many people do it.
She was sitting down and when I approached her, the first thing I noticed was how pretty her face was. I don't know her at all - we just exchanged a few words - but she had nice smile and she seemed like a very pleasant person. I'm glad I met her and I hope my words of encouragement meant something to her.
I'm a 50 yr old white guy, and she's a 30 yr old black women. We come from different backgrounds and probably have little in common except for our love for Christ. But, believe it our not, it's quite a uniting force.
