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I have the DUMBEST friend ever

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Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm sorry, but we can't have the N word on ATOT. It's simply not appropriate, even if you put it in quotes and discuss it like a scientist analyzing a dead cat. It makes me, and many others very uncomfortable.

Why? Isn't that a bit ridiculous? A racially-charged gang beating is fine, sure, but watch out for that WORD, it might cause some real damage! You want to never hear that word again? Fine, tell all the black people to quit calling each other that while telling everyone else they can never say it (which is the most self-defeating, double-standard, childish, and ignorant thing I've ever heard).

In my lifetime, I've heard that word spoken a MILLION TIMES MORE by blacks than by whites. Convert them to your L. Ron Hubbard PC-ism first, because neither myself nor my parents have ever used that word in a sentence, but black kids say it thousands of times a day. Let's try some honesty in this fvcking country, instead of the usual "All my problems are someone else's fault" bvllshit.
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm sorry, but we can't have the N word on ATOT. It's simply not appropriate, even if you put it in quotes and discuss it like a scientist analyzing a dead cat. It makes me, and many others very uncomfortable.

I'm sorry. I didn't know you were one of the special people in the world who got a certificate when they were born that promissed they would never be made to feel uncomfortable during their lives. :roll:
 
You guys didn't have a mobile phone to call 911? 😀

[ e d i t ]

Actually, you were right by staying in the car. If ever, you can use the car to run over people. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm sorry, but we can't have the N word on ATOT. It's simply not appropriate, even if you put it in quotes and discuss it like a scientist analyzing a dead cat. It makes me, and many others very uncomfortable.

I really hope my sarcasm meter is broken.

If it is, good job.

If it's not, stop being such a b!tch.
 
Originally posted by: RaDragon
You guys didn't have a mobile phone to call 911? 😀

[ e d i t ]

Actually, you were right by staying in the car. If ever, you can use the car to run over people. 🙂

Two problems there.

First I didn't have time to react to what was happening. From the time my friend saw the fight start to him forcing me to stop the car was ~10 seconds.

Second 911 on a cellphone is about as good a tigerdirect customer support. It wouldn't have helped anyone.

 
Good intention but bad bad approach. If the cop did not come he would've been in a world of hurt. It was his lucky day. Somebody up there was looking out for him.

 
Originally posted by: Fingers
Originally posted by: notfred
No, you are a pussy while your friend tried to do something to help someone. Your friend should be the one who's pissed off at you.

Exactly

Seriously, cut the E-go. My friend was at the very least going to end up in a hospital if I went out to 'help him'. There were two reasons he didn't end up in the ICU.

A) The cops came just in time.
B) I was in my van and if the cops weren't there I would have been able to bail him out.

On top of that it was the cops, not my friend who saved the poor innocent heroin addict. Get facts straight.

This isn't a matter of did Amp do the right thing. Anyone says they would act differently than me is either lying or stupid or just a random internet troll. This is a matter of how pissed I should be at my friend.

And fyi, after all this I'm still very pissed off at my friend.
 
First off...I will almost gaurentee the OP exaggerated the story. Why? This is ATOT, that's what people do.

Second...your friend is stupid, but brave, so quit bitching. My roommate just saved some kids life last weekend, this group of guys were beating this kid with a hammer in a parking lot, and had already stabbed him in the back 3 times, my roommate and his friend pulled over and confronted the guys and basically kept them occupied & away from the one they were beating until the cops came. Again, smartest thing? Nope, but noble. Quit being a bitch.
 
Originally posted by: slick230
Originally posted by: VanillaH
He runs towards the group and starts yelling racial remarks at them.
was that really necessary? that was totally undue, and that combined with tooting his own horn about his bravado makes your frined a racist nut with too much ego. he might have had good will to save the guy, but either case he is a racist asstard.

Hey, the way I see it, if the white guy getting chased was a heroin addict, then these animals probably weren't model citizens. And by acting like a bunch of subhuman animals, they deserve to be labeled as such. Look, like it or not, there are decent, law abiding people of all races. And then you have the "awesome people", whether they be white, black, asian, orange or whatever. You act like a "great person", expect to be called one.

Label me a racist if you want. I'm just not afraid to NOT wave the P.C. flag every chance I get, and I call it the way I see it.


That's some rought language there
 
Originally posted by: Deeko
First off...I will almost gaurentee the OP exaggerated the story. Why? This is ATOT, that's what people do.

Second...your friend is stupid, but brave, so quit bitching. My roommate just saved some kids life last weekend, this group of guys were beating this kid with a hammer in a parking lot, and had already stabbed him in the back 3 times, my roommate and his friend pulled over and confronted the guys and basically kept them occupied & away from the one they were beating until the cops came. Again, smartest thing? Nope, but noble. Quit being a bitch.

No exaggeration what so ever. What I said in the OP was exactly what happened.

And calling me a bitch, get a fvcking clue. My friend did nothing. He wasn't noble, he was stupid. Maybe we could have turned the car around, maybe we could have helped the kid, but no my friend goes right at a 15v1 and now we get to save two people not one. What part of he had no chance of saving anyone don't you get.

Next time you see a building on fire go run in it and try and find someone to save. Don't worry that there's 0 chance you'll save anyone, just go. I'll tell everyone on ATOT how brave you were.
 
I said my friend was noble, not yours.

You say your friend did nothing....he may have put himself at unnecessary risk, but he DID stall them until the cops came, did he not?

You can think he's stupid, but to give him all this sh!t is petty, bitchy, and retarded. Grow up and grow a set.
 
Oh, and pussybitch, while I'm at it, why did you post asking if you're right to be pissed off when you just want to scoff at and insult people who say you aren't?
 
I don't care if another poster thinks I'm over reacting. But no one is going to say I'm a pussy or backed down when I pulled a U-Turn and went right up to support my friend. Get a clue.

And I consider the source. You don't know what you're talking about because you've never been in that situation. When someone you know risks your life for their ego come back and talk to me, I won't hold anything against you.
 
Originally posted by: Amplifier
I don't know where to begin. I'll tell you the story and you tell me how I should feel.

I'm driving back from Baltimore last night with two of my friends. We're turn on Broadway and North avenue and my friend sees a White guy running for his life. Behind him are 15-20 black teenagers. They start beating the the guy.

My friend grabs onto my wheel and starts screaming to pull over. I stop because he's about to make me swerve. He jumps out of the car and runs towards the group of kids.

My friend is pretty big, 6'2" 270 but he isn't carrying a weapon and isn't a city person. He runs towards the group and starts yelling racial remarks at them. They leave the white guy alone and come towards him. The dumb guy stands his ground as if he's going to take them all on.

I see that he's fvcked and we make a U-Turn and try to pick him up. At this point some of the black kids try and get in my way..

Sirens come just in time and the kids back off and my friend acts like he's a hero. I don't think it was bravery as much as stupidity. The person he 'saved' was a heroin addict who probably burned one of the black kids.

I've known the guy for a while but now I don't even want to talk to him at this point. Am I right to be this p!ssed off?

Cliffnotes:
1) Friend thinks he's a super hero and tries to fight 15-20 black kids to save a drug addict.
2) Friend almost ends up getting beaten but cops bail him out.
3) Friend boasts about being a superhero.
4) Amp is p!ssed IRL.


No matter who you are, running towards a group of people and shouting racial slurs sounds like a great way of getting hurt.

Are there safer approaches to this situation? Did you guys have a cell phone with you?

 
Originally posted by: Coquito
My brother recently got jumped for his cell phone by a big group of kids recently. I'm not liking this resurgent gang activity.

In NYC? I use my laptop at outdoor cafes, maybe I should stop.
 
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