How to persuade someone to dump their partner?

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Bah. If I don't know you, if I have no idea who you are, then it's not my problem that your GF wants to give me the panties. Now, if you're my buddy or my coworker or even if I've seen you once or twice and know who you are, then that's different. That would be messed up.

That's bullsh!t. I hope you get married some day and your wife cheats on you. its all good right??? After all, the other guy doesn't know you!!

Listen little man, you've never even had sex, so STFU.

ffm has a girlfriend does he not? I don't know what he's done with her, but sex is irrelevant, he knows what its like to be in a relationship and thus has a valid opinion here.

Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

 

[Deeko]

[Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

I believe I was with my girlfriend for a year, including 4 months of distance, which at my age is pretty damn good. Don't even try to bring that sh!t into this.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: MichaelD

Originally posted by: Deeko

Bah. If I don't know you, if I have no idea who you are, then it's not my problem that your GF wants to give me the panties. Now, if you're my buddy or my coworker or even if I've seen you once or twice and know who you are, then that's different. That would be messed up.

That's bullsh!t. I hope you get married some day and your wife cheats on you. its all good right??? After all, the other guy doesn't know you!!

Listen little man, you've never even had sex, so STFU.

ffm has a girlfriend does he not? I don't know what he's done with her, but sex is irrelevant, he knows what its like to be in a relationship and thus has a valid opinion here.

Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

Atleast he's not a cheating bastard asshole.

 

[ProUser]

Seriously.. regardless of *whatever circumstances* she/you are under.

1. Respect the fact that she is in a relationship. Whether it be a bad one, long distance, whatever. Respect it.
2. Do you really want to be the rebound if she were to break up with him tomorrow?
3. If you did "persuade" her to dump her boyfriend and be with you. Is that really the type of girl you want to be with?

Oh well, just my .02. I just personally hate guys who try and break up other peoples' relationships. They are hard enough to maintain without outside interferance.

 

[eakers]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS

Originally posted by: vi_edit
Lemme guess....girl's dating piece of crap asshole and someone *cough* you *cough* want to be the Knight in shining armor riding in to wisk her away?

Am I close?

Oooh, he is good. He must have practiced on TGG.

Viper GTS

BUWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


edit: i nominate that post of the year!

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Sex changes nothing about loyalty and faithfulness.

 

[eakers]

your best bet is to wait til after xmas.

nobody wants to break up with someone this close to xmas cuz presents are already bought.

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: MichaelD

Originally posted by: Deeko

Bah. If I don't know you, if I have no idea who you are, then it's not my problem that your GF wants to give me the panties. Now, if you're my buddy or my coworker or even if I've seen you once or twice and know who you are, then that's different. That would be messed up.

That's bullsh!t. I hope you get married some day and your wife cheats on you. its all good right??? After all, the other guy doesn't know you!!

Listen little man, you've never even had sex, so STFU.

ffm has a girlfriend does he not? I don't know what he's done with her, but sex is irrelevant, he knows what its like to be in a relationship and thus has a valid opinion here.

Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

Atleast he's not a cheating bastard asshole.

OK, fine. I may be cheat and an @sshole but I'm not a bastard. Get it right. Oh, and it's Mr. Asshole to you, thanks.

My views on this have been criticized more than once and that's ok. And actually, things have gotten a lot better b/t me and the GF in the past months. I've been a good boy....not that it matters to anyone but me.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Deeko

[Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

I believe I was with my girlfriend for a year, including 4 months of distance, which at my age is pretty damn good. Don't even try to bring that sh!t into this.

I've been with my girl for three years including nine months of her away from me in college.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: MichaelD

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: MichaelD

Originally posted by: Deeko

Bah. If I don't know you, if I have no idea who you are, then it's not my problem that your GF wants to give me the panties. Now, if you're my buddy or my coworker or even if I've seen you once or twice and know who you are, then that's different. That would be messed up.

That's bullsh!t. I hope you get married some day and your wife cheats on you. its all good right??? After all, the other guy doesn't know you!!

Listen little man, you've never even had sex, so STFU.

ffm has a girlfriend does he not? I don't know what he's done with her, but sex is irrelevant, he knows what its like to be in a relationship and thus has a valid opinion here.

Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

Atleast he's not a cheating bastard asshole.

OK, fine. I may be cheat and an @sshole but I'm not a bastard. Get it right. Oh, and it's Mr. Asshole to you, thanks.

My views on this have been criticized more than once and that's ok. And actually, things have gotten a lot better b/t me and the GF in the past months. I've been a good boy....not that it matters to anyone but me.

Oh, it probably matters to her.

 

[eakers]

the length of time you are with one person doesn't make you a better boyfriend, sometimes people just don't fit together.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: Deeko

[Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

I believe I was with my girlfriend for a year, including 4 months of distance, which at my age is pretty damn good. Don't even try to bring that sh!t into this.

I've been with my girl for three years including nine months of her away from me in college.

but your opinion doesn't matter if you haven't had sex.

Seriously.. regardless of *whatever circumstances* she/you are under.

1. Respect the fact that she is in a relationship. Whether it be a bad one, long distance, whatever. Respect it.
2. Do you really want to be the rebound if she were to break up with him tomorrow?
3. If you did "persuade" her to dump her boyfriend and be with you. Is that really the type of girl you want to be with?

Oh well, just my .02. I just personally hate guys who try and break up other peoples' relationships. They are hard enough to maintain without outside interferance.

Smart man.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: eakers
the length of time you are with one person doesn't make you a better boyfriend, sometimes people just don't fit together.

Nobody said it does.

 

[Soybomb]

Its not your place to do that, and hopefully if you try, she'll see how manipulative you're trying to be and ditch you.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: eakers
the length of time you are with one person doesn't make you a better boyfriend, sometimes people just don't fit together.

Right, length doesn't matter, you should respect a relationship that's been going on for a week or 10 years the same.

 

[Gaard]

What's with all this 'respect the relationship' crap? If you're attracted to a girl, ask her out. She'll either say yes or no. What's the problem?

You may want to think twice about it if she's wearing a ring.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: Deeko

[Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

I believe I was with my girlfriend for a year, including 4 months of distance, which at my age is pretty damn good. Don't even try to bring that sh!t into this.

I've been with my girl for three years including nine months of her away from me in college.

but your opinion doesn't matter if you haven't had sex.

Seriously.. regardless of *whatever circumstances* she/you are under.

1. Respect the fact that she is in a relationship. Whether it be a bad one, long distance, whatever. Respect it.
2. Do you really want to be the rebound if she were to break up with him tomorrow?
3. If you did "persuade" her to dump her boyfriend and be with you. Is that really the type of girl you want to be with?

Oh well, just my .02. I just personally hate guys who try and break up other peoples' relationships. They are hard enough to maintain without outside interferance.

Smart man.

You, sir are a complete idiot. Sex is a perk. It doesn't make you a better or worse significant other. It's not the reason that you have a sh|tty or wonderful relationship -and it's NOT the reason that you stay faithful or not.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: Gaard
What's with all this 'respect the relationship' crap? If you're attracted to a girl, ask her out. She'll either say yes or no. What's the problem?

You may want to think twice about it if she's wearing a ring.

If you had a girlfriend, would you want other people asking her out? Of course not. Granter she will say no if the relatinoship means anything to her, but you still just don't fvck with other people's relationships.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: Deeko

[Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

I believe I was with my girlfriend for a year, including 4 months of distance, which at my age is pretty damn good. Don't even try to bring that sh!t into this.

I've been with my girl for three years including nine months of her away from me in college.

but your opinion doesn't matter if you haven't had sex.

Seriously.. regardless of *whatever circumstances* she/you are under.

1. Respect the fact that she is in a relationship. Whether it be a bad one, long distance, whatever. Respect it.
2. Do you really want to be the rebound if she were to break up with him tomorrow?
3. If you did "persuade" her to dump her boyfriend and be with you. Is that really the type of girl you want to be with?

Oh well, just my .02. I just personally hate guys who try and break up other peoples' relationships. They are hard enough to maintain without outside interferance.

Smart man.

You, sir are a complete idiot. Sex is a perk. It doesn't make you a better or worse significant other. It's not the reason that you have a sh|tty or wonderful relationship -and it's NOT the reason that you stay faithful or not.

I take it you missed the rolling eyes.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Gaard
What's with all this 'respect the relationship' crap? If you're attracted to a girl, ask her out. She'll either say yes or no. What's the problem?

You may want to think twice about it if she's wearing a ring.

If you had a girlfriend, would you want other people asking her out? Of course not. Granter she will say no if the relatinoship means anything to her, but you still just don't fvck with other people's relationships.

Exactly. If you ask out someone who's already in a relationship, you're saying that you don't care that she's already made the decision to be with someone else. If you don't respect that small detail, how in the fsck are you going to respect the entire woman.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: Deeko

[Whatever Deeko. You're the one who can't keep a GF no matter what, so I don't think you're particularly qualified to give advice either.

I believe I was with my girlfriend for a year, including 4 months of distance, which at my age is pretty damn good. Don't even try to bring that sh!t into this.

I've been with my girl for three years including nine months of her away from me in college.

but your opinion doesn't matter if you haven't had sex.

Seriously.. regardless of *whatever circumstances* she/you are under.

1. Respect the fact that she is in a relationship. Whether it be a bad one, long distance, whatever. Respect it.
2. Do you really want to be the rebound if she were to break up with him tomorrow?
3. If you did "persuade" her to dump her boyfriend and be with you. Is that really the type of girl you want to be with?

Oh well, just my .02. I just personally hate guys who try and break up other peoples' relationships. They are hard enough to maintain without outside interferance.

Smart man.

You, sir are a complete idiot. Sex is a perk. It doesn't make you a better or worse significant other. It's not the reason that you have a sh|tty or wonderful relationship -and it's NOT the reason that you stay faithful or not.

I take it you missed the rolling eyes.

Eh...

 

[Gaard]

I would be shocked if my g/f had never been hit on.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: Gaard
I would be shocked if my g/f had never been hit on.

my ex was hit on all the time, she is an attractive girl, that happens...if she was ever asked out, she didn't tell me about it. It is still disrespectful to do it. I would never ask out a girl that I knew was in a relationship.

 

[Gaard]

You guys believe in fate/destiny too much. If you see something you want, go for it. You might just miss your soulmate because she happens to be in a relationship when you see her.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Gaard
You guys believe in fate/destiny too much. If you see something you want, go for it. You might just miss your soulmate because she happens to be in a relationship when you see her.

Just because you don't try RIGHT NOW AT THIS VERY SECOND!!!! (omg!) doesn't mean you won't have another chance. If someone's in another relationship, be a friend and that's it.