One could just as easily say that humans yearn to be near other humans and experience all the amazing things other humans can create and share in three dimensional land, things you do not get by living out in the sticks. Happiness is best when shared someone said once, and only in cities can you really share so many different expressions of the human spirit. But if you like the woods, so be it too. I get that.
I used to be a bit of a city elitist, but when folks like Obama wanted to spend money to get rural folks broadband, I was all for it, and getting them better infrastructure, and trains, and better schools and hospitals and job training, and all that stuff. Then I started to understand that some folks wanted to just live a quiet life out in the boonies, and that's great. We were all Americans and we could choose to live as we wished.
But then came Trump, and they loved him in 2016, and even more in 2020, and that is now a problem with me. I don't look at their lifestyle as different now, but their evil support of an evil party and evil man and evil agenda, that I have a big problem with. It's not about being a city elitist anymore about their lifestyle, but just simply about being evil in social and political matters.
As far as lifestyle. I too could not live out in a rural area as you say. Boring as fuck to me. I would get cabin fever after a few weeks.
I enjoy having access to a true diverse city like NYC, with all the amazing amenities from the food to the art to the music to the people, while also having a car and being able to escape to nature quite easily as well. The balance of living close to NYC and having quick routes to the woods or water is a perfect balance of life for me.