How to break up with a GF of 3 years?

[jinduy]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
She's in the one in the red & black dress

She's beautiful. Why isn't she wife material if you don't mind me asking?

Too philosophical, spiritual, book smarts but no common-sense, easily infulenced by what others say, not practical about life, careless about important things (bank account, dogs, bills, etc), pays WAY too much attention to stuff like feng-sheui (or w/e) & karma

U get the idea

sounds like every hot girl i've encountered

 

[TallBill]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
... maybe I should wait till the holidays are over - for her sake. I really don't wanna drag it out, I feel like ****** thru the holidays but atleast I'll wont ruin hers.

Oh dont be a sissy. Just break up with her.

 

[Cdubneeddeal]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
... maybe I should wait till the holidays are over - for her sake. I really don't wanna drag it out, I feel like ****** thru the holidays but atleast I'll wont ruin hers.

You will though. No matter when you tell her, she's going to hurt, and you as well. There's never a good time to tell someone you don't want to see them anymore thats why IMO, there is no time like the present.

 

[otispunkmeyer]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
... maybe I should wait till the holidays are over - for her sake. I really don't wanna drag it out, I feel like ****** thru the holidays but atleast I'll wont ruin hers.

dude she's drop dead gorgeous.

i would honestly try to make it work. you have to compromise.

 

[Koing]

Just man up and say you can't see yourself marrying her because of said reason. It would be unfair on her to have a guy (you) to not totally be in love with her and be 'compatible'.

The truth hurts but maybe she needs a cold slap in the face. Forgetting bill payments once in a while but if it is a regular thing isn't good. The dog thing is just terrible imo and I don't even like dogs!

Good luck.

Koing

 

[Vonkhan]

Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer


yeah, dont just drop her like shes hot, (which she is....dayum hot!)

write down the things you dont like....and just talk with her, maybe she can change for you. this would also give her the oppertunity to tell you about the things she doesnt like about you.

your never gonnna like absolutely everything about a girl, theres always some annoyance.

you should work something out......eye for an eye type thing, if she changes some things to suit you, you change some things to suit her.

marriage isnt about being perfect partners....its full of compromises.

I've been gently trying to change her careless ways since we started off, tried explaining to her not to take people at face value, told her that the world won't become nicer to her just because she's feng-shueied the house.

Didn't work

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
marriage isnt about being perfect partners....its full of compromises. those who deal with compromise the best...win

I want my perfect partner dam it!

Koing

 

[Kelvrick]

Cheat on her and make it so she finds out. Or make out with her sister/best friend/mom.

Actually though, I don't have any real advice for this, but good luck.

 

[huberm]

pump & dump



she does those things because that is what she likes. She will not be willing to give up things she likes for you.

 

[enyce2k9]

she will be watching your every move

 

[spidey07]

Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

 

[Vonkhan]

Originally posted by: enyce2k9
she will be watching your every move

uhhh ... u got the wrong girl in tht photochop

 

[Vonkhan]

Originally posted by: spidey07
Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

24 ...

 

[TallBill]

Originally posted by: huberm
pump & dump



she does those things because that is what she likes. She will not be willing to give up things she likes for you.

Lol, right as you finish putting your pants on, break up with her. Been there, done that.

 

[jinduy]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: enyce2k9
she will be watching your every move

uhhh ... u got the wrong girl in tht photochop

LMAO!

 

[Cooler]

Originally posted by: jinduy

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: enyce2k9
she will be watching your every move

uhhh ... u got the wrong girl in tht photochop

LMAO!

:laugh:

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: spidey07
Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

24 ...

that explains it then.

do what you gotta do, but a woman at age 24 is very rare. If the only thing bothering you is her immaturity maybe you guys could talk about it.

 

[Cdubneeddeal]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: spidey07
Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

24 ...

that explains it then.

do what you gotta do, but a woman at age 24 is very rare.

My current girlfriend is 23, going on 30. Very mature for her age. Pays all her bills on time, cares about family and friends. Cares about her actions and how they affect other people. And I can't forget to mention she's a Victoria Secret and Lerner model all wrapped in one. I'm in heaven

 

[SilverTorch]

Originally posted by: archcommus
Explain the situation.

Wow that was hard.

Another vote for this, just sit her down and talk.

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: spidey07
Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

24 ...

that explains it then.

do what you gotta do, but a woman at age 24 is very rare.

My current girlfriend is 23, going on 30. Very mature for her age. Pays all her bills on time, cares about family and friends. Cares about her actions and how they affect other people. And I can't forget to mention she's a Victoria Secret and Lerner model all wrapped in one. I'm in heaven

so what are you waiting for? Pop that question. a good woman is hard to find.

 

[Vonkhan]

Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: spidey07
Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

24 ...

that explains it then.

do what you gotta do, but a woman at age 24 is very rare.

My current girlfriend is 23, going on 30. Very mature for her age. Pays all her bills on time, cares about family and friends. Cares about her actions and how they affect other people. And I can't forget to mention she's a Victoria Secret and Lerner model all wrapped in one. I'm in heaven

wanna trade?

 

[Cooler]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: spidey07
Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

24 ...

that explains it then.

do what you gotta do, but a woman at age 24 is very rare.

My current girlfriend is 23, going on 30. Very mature for her age. Pays all her bills on time, cares about family and friends. Cares about her actions and how they affect other people. And I can't forget to mention she's a Victoria Secret and Lerner model all wrapped in one. I'm in heaven

so what are you waiting for? Pop that question. a good woman is hard to find.

QFT

 

[enyce2k9]

Originally posted by: Cooler

Originally posted by: jinduy

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: enyce2k9
she will be watching your every move

uhhh ... u got the wrong girl in tht photochop

LMAO!

:laugh:

lol , however my statement will stay

 

[Cdubneeddeal]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Vonkhan

Originally posted by: spidey07
Bit of oberservation.

Everything you've described means she hasn't grown up yet and maybe she never will. Definately not marriage material. I'm guessing she's probably in mid/late 20s?

24 ...

that explains it then.

do what you gotta do, but a woman at age 24 is very rare.

My current girlfriend is 23, going on 30. Very mature for her age. Pays all her bills on time, cares about family and friends. Cares about her actions and how they affect other people. And I can't forget to mention she's a Victoria Secret and Lerner model all wrapped in one. I'm in heaven

wanna trade?

I don't think so

And as far as popping the question. I love her and she loves me but right now isn't the time to start talking about marriage...but in due time i'm sure we'll be married.

BTW..she's the one in the middle. That's me on the left..I hate that pic.

 

[enyce2k9]

ok someone photoshop her face in the clouds, im too lazy for now