Attitudes like this are sort of funny but mostly sad. Just in case you didn't know, being in poverty is a life choice available to everyone! If you think it's so wonderful I suggest you try it and get back to us. In some cases being in poverty is the result of personal choices but in huge amounts of them it's not, and the idea that a lack of motivation is the cause of poverty is ridiculous and shows how out of touch you are. Here's a good chart for you:
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https://www.bostonfed.org/inequality2014/papers/reeves-sawhill.pdf
That's right, someone from a poor background who fought through all that adversity to get a college degree is exactly as likely to be in poverty as someone from a wealthy background who dropped out of high school. Now they are more likely to be in one of the top 3 quintiles than that rich dropout, but we are comparing people who are generally thought of as having done
everything right to people who have done
everything wrong. The fact that the numbers are even close is staggering.
The idea that trying to make people who are struggling better off is a bad thing is baffling from both an economics and a moral perspective. We can't help if people are immoral enough not to want to help their fellow men at least a little, but I would hope you guys can at least read up on income mobility and the constraints it places on people and want to improve that so the true cream can rise to the top instead of the people with the best family connections.