How do you make decisions?

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Powermoloch

Lifer
Jul 5, 2005
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Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
I make a table by 3 x 3 on a piece of paper . At leas it ist large enough to wrote downt possible decisions for myself and used set up a blindfold. Used my right index finger, and twirl my arm around in the air and after counting 10 secs. I let my finger fall onto to one of the 9 boxes filled with decisions. That's how I decide stuff...


jk :D


Good idea thanks! :p I made my decision by realizing the fact that there are negatives to every choice :) I just sucked up the fact that I'll have lung cancer 10 years from now :(


It's not too late to make a good decision in your life. There's is always a chance :)
 

kranky

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Oct 9, 1999
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The key to making decisions is understanding:

1. The more options you have, the more you will worry about doing the wrong thing.

If there were only two brands of soap, you'd try both, and know that the one you picked is the best one for you. When there are 50 brands, you are never sure.

2. Accept that there is almost never "one best choice".

Most life decisions are tradeoffs of various pros and cons. It's not as though we are faced with decisions like "You can either have a great job and be married to a supermodel, or live next door to a meth lab while having your identity stolen by Romanians. What would you prefer?" We don't know exactly what we're getting into ahead of time. So just accept that there is no perfect answer, look at things as objectively as possible, then choose a option and move ahead with confidence you did the best you could.
 

manlymatt83

Lifer
Oct 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: kranky
The key to making decisions is understanding:

1. The more options you have, the more you will worry about doing the wrong thing.

If there were only two brands of soap, you'd try both, and know that the one you picked is the best one for you. When there are 50 brands, you are never sure.

2. Accept that there is almost never "one best choice".

Most life decisions are tradeoffs of various pros and cons. It's not as though we are faced with decisions like "You can either have a great job and be married to a supermodel, or live next door to a meth lab while having your identity stolen by Romanians. What would you prefer?" We don't know exactly what we're getting into ahead of time. So just accept that there is no perfect answer, look at things as objectively as possible, then choose a option and move ahead with confidence you did the best you could.


This is an awesome response. Thanks. The only reason holding me back from moving to the new place is, even though its PERFECT, its right near a highway, and I don't want lung cancer. But I'll move there for a year, and if the smog is too much, I'll move elsewhere. :)

Thanks.
 

manlymatt83

Lifer
Oct 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Step 1: I ponder the question at hand while vigorously pleasuring myself
step 2: I create a thread asking for input on the topic
step 3: I vigorously Pleasure myself again whhile waiting for responses
step 4: I read all the responses and do the opposite of what they recommend I do
steps 5-8: I vigorously pleasure myself 3 more times
step 9: I call my ex girfriend and ask if she still has feelings for me
step 10: I create a thread about an ex girlfriend that will be somehow tied into the deicision from step 4
step s11-28: repeat steps 5-8
step 29: I Come out of the closet and move to hoboken with my new lover.


OK uhhh ... if you all remember that girl I was posting about (i think in this decision tree, it is step 2).

Well, I just pasted this thread to that girl, and her response was....

[14:53:02] ****: oh ok <grin>.. its exactly whats going to happen
[14:54:55] america63: lol what?
[14:55:03] america63: I'm going to come out of the closet and move with my new lover?
[14:55:19] ****: yup <grin>
[14:55:37] ****: thats what i hear


WTF?
 

Jzero

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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Dude...It's NEW JERSEY. It is 220 miles from High Point to Cape May. You cannot be anywhere in NJ and be more than 3 hours' drive from anywhere else in NJ. I's not like you are trying to decide between El Paso and Houston.

Just pick whichever place you like the best and drive to the other places when you want. In my experience, the place you currently live always seems boring. Because you live there. It's ordinary.