OK.... I don't understand what's happening, but recently, I can't make decisions. I used to have no problem making them, I was a "whatever" kind of person.... but now, its hard!
Like for instance, I live in South Jersey. Recently, I made the decision that I want to move now that I am graduating. I decided that since I grew up in Hillsborough, but am going to be working in the central jersey area, off the parkway, I would move halfway... south plainfield. This would put me about 20 minutes from my friends growing up, and 20 minutes from work.... and not TOO far from South Jersey if I wanted to go visit my friends down there.
So I thought I hade made my decision.
Then I read reports that the air quality in South Plainfield is horrible, the worst in NJ. And then, I spent yesterday and today in Tom's River, which is about 30 minutes SOUTH of where I'll be working, and about 40 minutes NORTH of where I live now. I've been having a crap load of fun here, so now of course, I'm like ... maybe I should move here? Then, I think .... well, if I move to South Plainfield like I wanted to originally, I'll be 20 minutes from my parents, 20 minutes from my friends that I grew up with, 20 minutes from work, and about 30 minutes from Toms' River... so the best of both worlds.
So now I don't know what to do, and why I can't make decisions. I think its because I've been so BORED in south Jersey that I want to make sure I move to a place I am happy with so I don't have to go through what I went through the past few years again.
So should I just move to South Plainfield, which is where I was originally planning on moving to all along, for a year, get settled, save up some money, and see where I spend most of my time? And then ater a year, I can re-evaluate where I want to move to? Or should I do something else, like put all the places I want to move (Toms River, South Plainfield, maybe Bridgewater which is closer to my parents) in a hat and pick one at random? I just don't know, these decisions are so hard....
good advice would help.
-Matt
Like for instance, I live in South Jersey. Recently, I made the decision that I want to move now that I am graduating. I decided that since I grew up in Hillsborough, but am going to be working in the central jersey area, off the parkway, I would move halfway... south plainfield. This would put me about 20 minutes from my friends growing up, and 20 minutes from work.... and not TOO far from South Jersey if I wanted to go visit my friends down there.
So I thought I hade made my decision.
Then I read reports that the air quality in South Plainfield is horrible, the worst in NJ. And then, I spent yesterday and today in Tom's River, which is about 30 minutes SOUTH of where I'll be working, and about 40 minutes NORTH of where I live now. I've been having a crap load of fun here, so now of course, I'm like ... maybe I should move here? Then, I think .... well, if I move to South Plainfield like I wanted to originally, I'll be 20 minutes from my parents, 20 minutes from my friends that I grew up with, 20 minutes from work, and about 30 minutes from Toms' River... so the best of both worlds.
So now I don't know what to do, and why I can't make decisions. I think its because I've been so BORED in south Jersey that I want to make sure I move to a place I am happy with so I don't have to go through what I went through the past few years again.
So should I just move to South Plainfield, which is where I was originally planning on moving to all along, for a year, get settled, save up some money, and see where I spend most of my time? And then ater a year, I can re-evaluate where I want to move to? Or should I do something else, like put all the places I want to move (Toms River, South Plainfield, maybe Bridgewater which is closer to my parents) in a hat and pick one at random? I just don't know, these decisions are so hard....
good advice would help.
-Matt
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