Hey, the He Said She Said book. Can you give me a link? I looked today at Barnes and Noble and they had 2 different ones. I did pick up 5 Love Languages. About half way through it and it's REALLY good. Gonna make the g/f read it. I would say it's a must. It was in the Christian section but it doesn't really have much religion in it, just a few quotes from the bible that it uses as "history" so w/e.