Help me get over this Girl Before it KILLS ME

[zmatrix]

Two choices - fight for her or tell her you're dumping her..

 

[troglodytis]

<< i just want the pain to end, so please give some advice on what to do >>


the first thing you always do in a situation like this is post a pic!


and tell her. even if she has a boy and the feeling is not mutual. TELL HER! get it all out in the open. TELL HER!! you must clean the wound b4 it can heal

 

[ugh]

<< Keep busy with friends and work, if you're not already doing some phyical activity (biking, jogging, etc.) now would be a good time to start. >>


I agree with doing the aforementioned. It's really a good way of moving on. Umm.. I guess the first thing to do is to get off your computer and talk with &quot;real&quot; pple

 

[b0mbrman]

Take away things that remind you of her i.e. her name on your speed dial/aim buddy list...trust me. It helps

 

[UberNeuman]

Picture her on the toilet and she's got a bad case of the runs... Think of Turbo-Lax from 'Dumb and Dumber' - the groans, the smell, the mess...

There ya go! Think about this for a few days and you'll be feelin' fine...

That's your Rx from,
The Love Doctor

 

[StormRider]

Hypnotize yourself into thinking your weenie is a lot bigger than her boyfriend's so that everytime you see them together you just can't help but get a big self-satisfied smile.

 

[CattyKathy]

hun, move on, ur life is way more important than hers, plus, u never went out with her anyways (ouch, truth hurts) so why cry about it? did she tease u? did she lead u on?

 

[Warblad13]

time heals all wounds

 

[KiltedFool]

From a classic:

&quot;My advice to you is to start drinking heavily&quot;

&quot;I'd listen to him, he's in Pre-Med&quot;

KF

 

[GTaudiophile]

Going through the same thing right now. I feel your pain!

Oh Alison...what I wouldn't give for your love!

 

[montanafan]

Just keep reminding yourself that you lived your life just fine before you knew her and you'll be just fine without her. She came along, someone else will too.

 

[Dually]

I am sickened by your Leo Dicaprio feelings.

 

[XCLAN]

:Q :frown:
i am really sorry for this bro....All you can do is get out of the house and find new things to do .....maybe send her flowers and tell her how u feel! and let her know u understand that if she doesnt feel the same way u will understand...try to be her best friend and that is better than nothing.

 

[XCLAN]

Be there for her no matter what happens and just be a good friend it will make u feel real good about yerself , i promise

 

[Milhouse99]

I'm sure everyone's been in a position where they say they are in love (or maybe infatuated) with a particular girl and getting over her will be impossible, but let me tell you it's not impossible to get over her. I've had 2 situations where I couldn't get over a girl but eventually, as time goes on, you will feel different...that is if you keep your distance from her. It's hard, but you can do it.

~Milhouse

 

[Kitros]

Ah yes... a borderline obsessive and co-dependant, just like me.

1) Admit you have a problem.
2) Get away from the computer and go work out, jog, exercise, sports...
3) Hang out with the guys...
4) Become independant and learn what attraction, love and companionship is.

or

1) Mope and ponder
2) Dream and torture yourself
3) Find another girl who may or may not work out for you, only to devastate you again.
4) GOTO 1)


How old are you, just asking.

Trust me, I just finished self-recovery, and I didn't know that it was such a problem 'til I tried ot fix it! Good luck, only takes a year, and the rest of your life is 10x better!

 

[jinster]

Get some macking skills.

 

[amdforlife]

walk in the bathroom, and rub vasilene all over your face. then ball your fists up and start punching yourself in the face. trust me, it helps.

 

[viper007]

Umm..Girls...Quickly Kill yourself now, before we all do.. hehe

Cheers...

 

[Donuts]

Broken up over a girl! What the hell is that about? I just don't get it, there's a new one everywhere you look.

 

[mcveigh]

drink up, it's what us real men do.

after you've drunk enough you'll have some great idea pop into your head.(probably involving her boyfriend, a bag of rats, and a louisville slugger) here is the important part! Dont act on that thought! trust me!

repeat as often as necessary

 

[mcveigh]

dp!!

 

[poorStudent]

I agree with Kitros advice and I would like to add this:
1) Take responsable for your emotion, don't blame her or anyone.
2) Acknowledge your strong emotion for her and study your emotion. It's like meditaion for letting go, you acknowledge it and have respect for it.
3) You can still love her by wishing her well and without being possessive!

 

[duke]

I dedicate to you the following songs by The Cure,

Untitled
Pictures of You
To Wish Impossible Things
A Letter To Elise

 

[AncientPC]

Been there, just fill up all your time with class, studying, working, and going to the gym. Just activities to keep your mind off things.