Guy gets laid for the first time then calls his mom crying about it

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Medicine Bear

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Originally posted by: Darkstar757
To be honest with you he probally is not gay he just is very religous. The fact that he has held out this long and has finally had sex I am sure he is feeling destroyed right now. I think just because he is a male he should not be belittled. I think this guy will need consuling from a sex therapist because his religous beliefs and sexaul urges are at war with each other. Thus creating a panic attack or a sense of failure beyond your understand. Right now I am glad he has your finacee as a friend and not you, because if you had made fun of him he might have done something to the extreme like killed himslef.


Darkstar
Actually his isn't relgious at all. Just a sheltered little mama's boy.

 

Medicine Bear

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: djheater
People who have been sexually abused often exhibit the symptoms you're describing OP

I agree, sounds like severe trauma of some type.
Nope. Said she was nice to him and everything and didn't get "mean" until he started crying about it after they were done.

I just talked to the fiancee again and this isn't the first time he has gotten so upset about something like this. Never sex before, but he also had a crying fit after the first time he "made out" with a girl in college.
 

Queasy

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It takes a big man to cry. It takes an even bigger man to laugh at that man.

- Jack Handey
 

Chadder007

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Originally posted by: NatePo717
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: djheater
People who have been sexually abused often exhibit the symptoms you're describing OP

I agree, sounds like severe trauma of some type.

I was thinking the same thing.

Agreed. He may not associate having sex with someone in a good way. I feel sorry for the guy.
 

J0hnny

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Wow, and meanwhile you might have thought he would die a virgin. Apparently not!
 

iamtrout

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Originally posted by: Chadder007
Originally posted by: NatePo717
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: djheater
People who have been sexually abused often exhibit the symptoms you're describing OP

I agree, sounds like severe trauma of some type.

I was thinking the same thing.

Agreed. He may not associate having sex with someone in a good way. I feel sorry for the guy.

Same. Leave the poor guy alone.

The OP needs to die. Immature piece of sh!t. Anything that you say in response to my post will be handled with a "go fvck yourself" reply.
 

shud

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If I ever get laid I think I will cry as well and vehemently thank the poor soul I violated.
 

CVSiN

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Originally posted by: Darkstar757
To be honest with you he probally is not gay he just is very religous. The fact that he has held out this long and has finally had sex I am sure he is feeling destroyed right now. I think just because he is a male he should not be belittled. I think this guy will need consuling from a sex therapist because his religous beliefs and sexaul urges are at war with each other. Thus creating a panic attack or a sense of failure beyond your understand. Right now I am glad he has your finacee as a friend and not you, because if you had made fun of him he might have done something to the extreme like killed himslef.


Darkstar

good... rid the world of the weak and defective.
 

MikeMike

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Originally posted by: Medicine Bear
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: djheater
People who have been sexually abused often exhibit the symptoms you're describing OP

I agree, sounds like severe trauma of some type.
Nope. Said she was nice to him and everything and didn't get "mean" until he started crying about it after they were done.

I just talked to the fiancee again and this isn't the first time he has gotten so upset about something like this. Never sex before, but he also had a crying fit after the first time he "made out" with a girl in college.

they are talking as a child, not what she did. but as a child if there was an abusive relative, friend, neighbor, parent etc.
 

piasabird

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The guy is definitely mentally ill. He meets a girl and is just scared. I wonder what makes him think exactly like that. I wonder what he is like normally. This guy may normally just fear women. Women can be kind of scary. If she had just let him sleep on the couch she might have been able to become friends or even marry the guy. Maybe the girl is just desparate to find a straight man and did not know how to handle this. I think they are both a little twisted. This guy has been used by a desparate female needing to breed.
 

Adica

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That may be unusual, but for you to laugh and make fun of his agony and mental distress is really immature. We all have breaking pionts and apparently that was his.:brokenheart:
 

Trey22

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Originally posted by: Gibson486
maybe its a plan to score with your fiance?


This kind of plot would definitely take a sick mind... and sounds like he qualifies.

 

Steve

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She wasn't a "desperate female needing to breed", she was just a girl out to have fun and get laid. A lot of guys and girls do that, you know.
 

spidey07

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sounds like rape to me.

Have him call the police and take everything she has via lawsuit.
 

bootymac

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Originally posted by: Adica
That may be unusual, but for you to laugh and make fun of his agony and mental distress is really immature. We all have breaking pionts and apparently that was his.:brokenheart:

Hush you!
 

PingSpike

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The saddest part of this story is this guy is still getting more tail than StormRider.