Give me tips on HOW to slow down my relationship.. we are going way too fast.

[Orsorum]

How many of you guys have been in a serious, adult relationship?


I've been through the same situation, although it was on the first date... I broke off the relationship after that - I realized that I still had a lot I had to work on with myself, I wasn't ready to be with someone else.

If you want to continue seeing her, then do so - but be honest with her about your intentions, and be firm.

Good luck.

 

[HomeBrewerDude]

wow! a real live mod commentary!

 

[isasir]

ALPHAQ COS UR 2 SEC C

Dude, if you're gonna post threads like this, then at least change your signature!

 

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
How the heck do we slow down.. give me some tips..

Dump the beyotch - the ultimate 'slow down' technique.

Really though, if you don't want to do stuff, just don't. There's some self control involved and if you don't have it with this girl, then what if someone offers you cocaine or something? Will you try it just because?

 

[FrustratedUser]

Lamer.

I'd hit it again.

 

[Yeeny]

Just please, no matter what you do, wear a condom. Do not reproduce, for the love of God!

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: GirlFriday
Just please, no matter what you do, wear a condom. Do not reproduce, for the love of God!

lol

 

[Hammer]

la la la

nothing to see here

 

[Spac3d]

Originally posted by: GirlFriday
Just please, no matter what you do, wear a condom. Do not reproduce, for the love of God!

hahahahahahaha wow, that was funny

I don't even know what to say to the good guy but

Spac3d

 

[Red Dawn]

I swear if you post any of those " My hearts gonna break because my girlfriend dumped me" thread after she comes to her senses and realizes what a dweeb you are I'm going to take that short drive down to LA and knock you off your little scooter.

 

[guyver01]

Originally posted by: GirlFriday
Just please, no matter what you do, wear a condom. Do not reproduce, for the love of God!

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

almost as good as the mod comment...


no wait..

BETTER than the mod comment

 

[StageLeft]

Originally posted by: yobarman

Originally posted by: joshsquall
I want to never hear this again from a guy.

Josh

best. post. ever.

Help! My girlfriend wants to get me off and have sex but I think she's moving too fast!!! :Q

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
I swear if you post any of those " My hearts gonna break because my girlfriend dumped me" thread after she comes to her senses and realizes what a dweeb you are I'm going to take that short drive down to LA and knock you off your little scooter.

Bwahaha, I can picture you doing that, too.

 

[GasX]

This thread ROCKS!

 

[Red Dawn]

The Good Guy

 

[guyver01]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
The Good Guy

You owe me for the glass of orange juice i have to wipe off my monitor

 

[yoda291]

um, why don't you guys talk about it? I don't think you're going to find a magic pill labeled "slow down relationship" anytime soon.

 

[Geekbabe]

You could always just show her some of your old threads here and at Adul's..

 

[Pepsei]

how about up the butt? technically you'll still be a virgin....

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Dude, if it's been only a week and she wants to get it on, that's telling you something: She's already got a pansy-ass like whiny bitch like you on the side for her emotional outlets. He's not giving her what she wants, and she wants it from you. Give her what she wants.

Red - if you do take that trip down there to pimpslap His Royal Whussiness around a bit, let me know so I can go satisfy that poor sex-starved young lady. I'll chip in for gas and food.

- M4H

 

[cressida]

next time download this song

Missy Elliot - Work it
and then follow step by step

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: SoloKid
next time download this song

Missy Elliot - Work it
and then follow step by step

I would've suggested:

Ludacris - What's Your Fantasy

but hey.

- M4H

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: Pepsei
how about up the butt? technically you'll still be a virgin....

 

[SandLizard]

It's simply a question of willpower. I personally think you *want* to get 'hot and heavy' with this girl, otherwise you would not have done anything in the first place. You can be with her in private, just don't respond to any sexual advances. It's really that simple.

My first was only after a week also....I can remember getting my jimmies and going back to the room dancing and singing, "I'm gonna get laid, I'm gonna get laid". And there was much rejoicing. Then, in my last relationship, it took me two weeks to even kiss her the first time...it's all willpower: I had none my first time, and I had too much the last. I would definitely go for somewhere between the two.










Some icecubes in the pants might help though.

-sandlizard
-aka sand "My willpower is so large, I wish it resided in my pants" lizard

 

[The Stigenator]

morning peeps,

just wanted to bump for ideas..

actually I am about to call her to see what her thoughts of last night were.. maybe we can come up with a solution of slowing down. Ofcourse I need to be packing soon (condoms that is) just in case she bones me.

and oh yeah she is a virgin too..